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luvstogodown6969 56M
17 posts
6/30/2007 5:35 pm

Last Read:
1/21/2010 3:22 pm

Hmmmmm


So can someone please tell me what's wrong with my profile. I was hoping to meet someone on this site..

RedMenice 53F

7/1/2007 7:52 pm

I can give you a few pointers.

Your profile deals with generalities.....you're not very specific.

You have done a good job in telling us what you dislike......but you take a lot of space getting there..... & some of it is repeatative......a tad dull when reading.

You havent told us what you're looking for......specifics would help alot.....read my profile for an idea of what I'm talking about. You also bounce around a lot from subject to subject.......keep it coherant.

When you say "expand my horizons'.....that doesnt tell us what you have done and what you want to do. Someone who only engages in missionary and oral sex, might think anal would be getting kinky.

Again...specifics.

You also havent elaborated what you consider fun....how can we tell if we're compatable if we dont know if our interests are similar?

When it comes to your ideal person.....there would be nothing wrong with saying....."I'd like an open minded woman who looks like >insert name here< who thinks bowling and action movies are a great evening" or even "Please do not be over a size 16".

A profile is about selling yourself.....the ladies hear CONSTANTLY that you men love to eat pussy......so much so......that it really doesnt register anymore.......we hear it ALL to often and most times......are disappointed. We're also sick to death of hearing men say they are lesbians trapped in a man's body.......BE DIFFERENT...cant stress this enough.

Tell us why YOU are going to be the one that stands out above the rest......there are tons of hardlegs on here.......why should we consider you instead? You like to cook.....tell us WHAT is your best dish?....new foods you would like to try?

Hope some of this helps you.......there are too many success's here on TSmeet for you not to make it work for you.

Red


luvstogodown6969 56M
64 posts
7/1/2007 9:39 pm

Thanks Red I appreciate the honesty. I guess I'll need to take a look at some of these things..huh..


sweetmimilove 58F
1093 posts
7/3/2007 7:29 am

It is very difficult for men on this site to get noticed, since there are so many of them (I know, so many men, so little time lol). The best way for you to meet women, or people in general, is to go to the meet and greets. That way, people get to know you without any expectations, and can get a feel for who you are. I know, for me, I like to meet men in a large group setting before I am with them one on one. I like to develop a little history with someone first, before going out with them. I read your profile and didn't see anything really wrong with it, but like Red said, they all start to sound the same. I would take the 'not a bad boy' comment out, because some us like just a taste of the 'bad boy' in a man. lol


luvstogodown6969 56M
64 posts
7/3/2007 2:55 pm

Thanks sweet I actually was part of your group and got tob pretty good friends with Countryheart. I even showed up to a greet but never got the nerve to go up to the table.. I know my fault maybe I'll have to rethink that one huh..


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