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How do you ask someone if they are a swinger?
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How do you ask someone if they are a swinger? Ok, though TSmeet is easy - that's what it's all about! Swinger parties - no problem but otherwise - you're interested and only swing as a couple - how do you ask? when we ask girls at the bar - about 1/2 are into it. When we ask guys - all LOVE the idea with 2 women but when it means comming home with us for a MMF they pretty much ALL bail out. One would think it's the reverse but not in our experience. How you do ask people if they are a swinger or do you at all? we only do it though TSmeet, swinger clubs, and in bars on the dance floors but the later rarly works.  |
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9/16/2007 10:52 pm |
just tell them your wanting to have a male male feamle 3sum or move to mandurah WA (Australia lol) and let us know when ya cumming downunder
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9/17/2007 12:32 am |
i tell ppl i'm a swinger...and then they usually start asking me tons of questions about the lifestyle...and more often than not we wind up going for drinks, or having them cum to our parties...we have made some amazing friends that way  dream like you'll live forever...live like you'll die tomorrow
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9/17/2007 8:37 pm |
How do you ask someone if they are a swinger I have actually gone right up and asked if couples were swingers. Some really get a shocking look on their faces and some just smile broadly. I have found that most men, even though you assure them of feelings, are still a little afraid the other male will get jealous.
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9/18/2007 2:22 pm |
well if i was a single guy in a bar and approached, i would do the mmf if there was no mm contact.
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9/18/2007 4:06 pm |
wow. we were just talking about this very subject last night on the way home from vacation. im not sure how things are done there, but this is what we came up with. when you buy someone a drink at a bar the bartender gives them a token for a drink of whatever they are drinking. if they come over and thank us for the drink, we tell them simply because they look like the best looking couple in a bar. their response should be able to clue us in as to if they are game or not. we hope to run into you guys at a bar somewhere.
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Weshare...This has been a question most of us have probably asked at one time or another. We have yet to hook-up or meet others from the lifestyle outside the same places as you. We frequent one of the local Gentlemen clubs her in Edmonton and the majority of the staff are aware we are swingers. Guess it didn't take long to notice us visiting the venue with different couples and girls to figure something was not usual. We have found that the odds of meeting couples or girls is much higher at the strippers then other places. Tweeety is the verbal one of our relationship and strikes up conversations with whomever she happens to have an interest in. During these conversations the topic always seems to progress to a sexual nature and that is when you feel your way around....no pun intended. As you noted it seems to be the females that are more interested in pursuing things farther then just chat. We have found that like you most single guys or the male half's of the couple are the ones that back away when it comes to anything more then talk. We figure if its going to happen it will....and we just keep working it. pNt
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1 post 9/19/2007 5:20 am |
we will sing with you the weekend of sept 29,if you want
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9/19/2007 5:33 pm |
Here's a simple solution...ask my husband for a MMF! We both play with other couples and don't feel threatened by others. It really adds to our sexlife at home too!!! Hey...you only live once and so ya might as well have some fun along the way!!!
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thats a great question. when i first started it was with another woman other than my wife. their's lots of way's when it's a guy you let him know it's for her. and if she's not into other woman (sexually) you talk to her about being licked while she being fucked. most guys get soft or are homophobic to be so close. if she likes it ,it will usually open doors to her being with another woman. as for picking up a woman as in a bar it's up to the woman to make the advances. guy's will get slapped and be called a pig lol
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hi
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11/28/2007 4:44 pm |
Thats a question I'd like answered too. Especially from the lone males perspective. I've never had a problem being the male third for a couple, I only have a problem finding one.
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1/1/2008 1:00 pm |
i have to say this is a difficult one. I find that it is better if the approach is by the female partner. But then my first 3 sum was through an invite by a guy, although he was bi curious as well. In saying that I find that it is much harder talking to the male partner about sexual matters, still seems to be some form of homophobic response, althouh if you are up for a mmf, then you need to be comfortable around guys, which goes against that. I especially find it easier to talk to bi women as they seem to be very open about sex.
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1/23/2008 10:01 am |
Soany Fridays it is then. Love the mfm fun.
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6/24/2008 12:50 am |
as a female that like the lifestyle it is still a bit hard to find real poeple to swing with. I love 2 males and a female. I would thing that a single guy would jusmp at the chance to do that. Lust For Life!!! 
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9/7/2008 5:37 am |
I think a lot of guys look at a husband who isn't afraid to let another guy into the mix and figure he has to be hung like a horse. That's intimidating... She's gonna see that Willie, once freed, ain't really a whale. So as exciting as it is to visualize, some single guys have eyes that are bigger than their penis... I'm very fortunate to have tiny eyes, and so I'm less likely to be intimidated. Finding a woman who not only fantasizes about group sex, but is willing to act out those fantasies is freaking hot. My last relationship was a lifestyle-ish relationship, and we were able to act out a couple of those fantasies, but the mfm was not one of them, I'm sorry to say. Maybe sometime soon 
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10/13/2008 1:04 am |
me and a girlfriend of mine, when we meet women or couples that we're interested in. we steer the conversation to dating. i jokingly say that if it doesn't work out with her, then i'm done with american women. then she says that she is going lesbian. it is a funny icebreaker. it has hooked us up several times.
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11/21/2008 8:43 pm |
hi there how do you tell if someone is a swinger? i haven,t tryed it yet but a couple that is well traveled said they wear elastic bands on their wrists and it works well, spread the word on the net every chance you,s get and it won,t take that long to spread r&m
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