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I can't answer any of these...but have to agree with the magical feeling of a man going from flacid to hard in your mouth. One of my favorite ways of doing this is by waking a sleeping cock. I have this thing about sleeping men! I just want to attack them. I've found (after many experiments on my husband's cock) that it has a different hardness before he awakens! A completely different shape. Very cool experiment. I recommend it to everyone.   LeaLatest Adventure: Travis, Travis and MORE Travis An amazing year thus far 100 things about Lea
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5/29/2007 8:19 pm |
It is a hard (pardon the pun) question to answer as I love to have my flaccid cock go to hard in a womans mouth if I don't get hard before hand. I don't cum all the time and for me it's a mind set if I know my partner wants to be pleasured as well then I can hold back but if she wants to just pleasure me (does that make sense) then I don't hold back. Lets keep the dialog going. G
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I rarely come from a blow job but they always get me hard. I like to get hard in a womans mouth as well. For me the kicker to a blow job that will make me cumm is a lot of suction. alternating with deep throat. It takes a lot out of the girl because it takes a while. also it is pretty easy to tell if the blow job is some obligatory feeling on her part or she is really digging it for herself. This is something that a womans heart has to be into for it to work. just going through the motions won't cut it for me.
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5/29/2007 8:55 pm |
I have had a couple of times when I couldn't and I when I think back it had do to with how rough it was, meaning to much teeth on the shaft. I suppose some men like having a rough blow job but for me it has to do with finesse. But I came during intercourse. It may very well be a mental thing for me. G
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5/29/2007 9:21 pm |
I have never been able to orgasm through oral sex,I have no idea why and lol some take it on as a challenge alas to no avail. Dan ~Carpe Diem~ 
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Sometimes different things turn me on, so I may not get rock hard from the BJ, but most of the time I do. So there is a mental component that could change each day depending on whatever stimuli we've come across. Girls who gave me the best ones clearly LOVED doing it, and said so, which always turns me on the most. That said, I could only describe the best ones I've had as being fast tempo, sloppy, no teeth, and lots of visual stimuli: looking up at me, making sure their hair was out of the way so I could watch, active use of the tongue along the entire length, telling me how they enjoyed it or begging me to let them do it. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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5/30/2007 3:07 am |
giving a blow job is like everything else in sex, it's an art form. i rarely cum from a BJ , it's not that i don't like it hihih. but when i do cum while getting head its amazinggggg, it happens mostly in weird situations. good example was while i was in hospital,got a vistit from a good friend. without notice she closed the curtians and went strait to my cock. what made it so terribly horny was that i was telling her just before she strated sucking my cock was that the dockter will be comming by to check me up. you can understand that i was shooting my hot sperm deep in throat in less than 2 min which where very mind blowing. she had such a big smile on her face 10 min later when she saw the docktor comming in. mostly i see a BJ as forplay it's a great way to get me hard and most women i have noticed love the feeling of it growing hard in there mouth, not getting hard from blow job can have some reasons. most of them have nothing to do with the BJ itself. what i like lately and i know lots of women don't like it/scared/think it's perv is deep throating. it just makes me so horny to see my cock deep in her throat. the feeling of her lips clossing on the base of my shaft makes me go bananas. i have felt this way only by 3 women. women who deep troat are a hudge turn on for me. it can be learnt and while learning it's also fun to hear thenm gag (yes i am a bad boy i know). check out  Jusdewit8. and ohh yes must not forget to mention that i so love when a women looks me straight in the eyes as she does her thing.... cup of coffee or a fuck of tea ? 
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5/30/2007 4:34 am |
"...and I know there are some guys who, while they love a good blow job, rarely cum from them. Again the same questions. What is going on? And is there anything your partner can do to change the outcum?" This is a great question Skierchick. The way you framed this question I'm assuming you mean cumming from a blow-job only...with no intercourse involved. My 'problem' if you want to call it that, is I love being inside pussy too much.  I love a good blow-job but I want it to be the appetizer or the dessert if I'm going to cum...unless the game plan is for me to cum and then immediately move to fucking...then I'm all ears! Now, there have been times when the intent was for me to cum from oral and it just wasn't happening. The usual reasons for this:a. Not enough pressure in the right place at the right time. b. Jerking too fast or too slow c. Jaws getting tired/impatience--I don't cum quickly The strange thing with me is it is difficult to 'talk someone through it' because my mood and state of arousal 'dicktates' how I have to be stroked, sucked, and licked in order to cum. I've had women become very frustrated because they couldn't get me to cum orally and I explain it isn't anything they are or more importantly are not doing. Oh yes...one VERY important thing as far as I'm concerned. If ya want me to cum orally you must spend some time playing with, sucking, and otherwise stimulating my balls. A lot of woman focus way too much on just the head and shaft of the cock and forget this VERY important area (IMH  . A question for you...other than the 'payoff' and the feeling of going from soft-to-hard in your mouth, what excites you the most about giving a blow-job? The sounds? Looking up at your partner and seeing their face (if kneeling)? The control you have at the time? BTW, I wish I was in CT. You've now been fixated on blow-jobs and cumming from blow-jobs for two days. I'd love to help ya out! [image]
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There is a mental switch inside my head that needs to know she really wants me to let it go... It is more of an unconscious trigger where she really has to get a little wild and freaky about "needing" it!!! Not an act but something she is insatiable about... Note: I would love to explode inside someones mouth and have them swallow every drop. The problem is... Most women give up trying after a while and I feel a little selfish so we move on to other activities...  +  = 
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well i sure do love the sensation of growing in her mouth and agree that the right rhythm and pressure with eye contact feels a great sensation and have no problem cumming.... having said that sometimes i can go semi hard whilst getting a bj and think thats because it can be so soothing and relaxing that it has the opposite effect and you can start to lose your erection//8b great post by the way
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Ok SC... Since this is supposed to be a dialog and we can ask questions too... I am very curious to find out if you really enjoy the taste of a man's cum? Does the flavor really change depending on our diet? Is sucking a cock something that you crave or is it about pleasing the man? Another words... Would you say you did it to please them or yourself? I'm dieing to know... Hoosier. There... I took this one... Wink! Wink! Lake Michigan Warren Dunes Beach Pic... + =
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Hmmm where to begin... I LOVE to get hard as a woman sucks on me. Especially after the first round or two, it's nice to have the stimulation of oral to give me a lil pick me up As far as going flaccid or not cumming...hmmm...maybe over-stimulation? What is your technique like? I doubt THAT could be the problem!!! -Bri
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5/31/2007 2:04 pm |
Its very difficult for me NOT to get rock hard from a blow job or even a hand job for that matter. In the cases of a semi... it could be a mind thing. - S
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5/31/2007 2:06 pm |
That certainly would do it. Talk about a shock to the system! I love your techniques though. Very intense stuff. - S
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6/1/2007 5:39 am |
I have been very lucky when it comes to receiving head. The best time/place I would have to say was while I was in the Army, I got a BJ from a very hot female soldier while flying in the back of my Helicopter, going 170MPH 10 Feet off the tree's. I have done the movie theater, the car in traffic. One time ever in the kitchen at a large party while everyone watched. I am 100% into giving as much as I am into receiving was asked to leave a Texas Road House at 10pm at night for crawling under the table and eating out one of the ladies at our table As for me, I am very hard to make orgasm when it comes to head, so I need allot of contact ie play with my balls, look me in the eye ever a little ass play helps.
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6/2/2007 3:09 am |
The reason I think I enjoy head so much may just be the power of it. You are being dominate with out having to do anything and the woman is being submisive without actually being submisive. Does that make sence. As for a semi I dont think I have ever started out that way, but I like sex to be on the rougher side so unless there is some great talent involved (lots of touching, changing it up) My excitement level will drop over time. At that point I will bring myself to the edge and let her finish or will pull her up to me and fuck the shit out of her.
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