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Response to the "Other Woman"  

rm_BigDnLady 50M/48F
757 posts
2/11/2009 10:30 am

Last Read:
10/5/2009 9:58 am

Response to the "Other Woman"

I am not going to waste any cordial greetings with you, and am going to just get down to business. Yes, I think that you are a bitch and here are the reasons why as if I have to explain them but apparently you are just that damn dumb. I will handle him in my own way, don't you worry about that but as a fellow female, it would seem that you would have some sort of respect for yourself as well as myself but it is obvious that you have neither. If you had the slightest amount of respect for yourself you would not be involved with a man who is in a relationship with another WOMAN! You must enjoy being called a homewrecker, , , slut, and yes BITCH!!

It may be true that there were some issues before you came along, however, if he wanted to leave he could have BEFORE YOU!! He has said nothing to me about wanting to leave or no longer continue the relationship so what does that tell you, girl!! I call you a GIRL, because you are immature. A mature woman stands on her own, and finds a man who is gonna be hers and hers ALONE, not go after someone who is in a relationship. The blame is 50/50 in my eyes. I am actually a little disappointed in you, because at first glance you seem fairly intelligent, boy did you have me fooled.

He will make a choice, whether he likes it or not. In truth, if he wanted you, he would have already been gone. He is a grown man, capable of making decisions on his own. I will not lie and say that I don't love him, because I do. BUT I WILL NOT PLAY 2ND for anyone, so this decision will be made quickly. I hope that when it finally sinks in you do not find yourself too broken up........that's a lie!! I hope it hurts like hell because then you can feel the way that I feel right at this moment knowing that I have to deal with this bullshit!

But I hope you and others like you take a long look inside of yourselves and see that when a man has someone else, and he has to sneak around with YOU, that is NOT anything but shame and guilt. You should not settle for that because we women should stick together and set a higher value on ourselves. You really ought to value yourself more. Now I have made vows with him, and we will have to make some decisions about where we are to go from here, but you dear need to wake up and walk away. You don't have him. You never did.

A Booty-Call is not a relationship!

Now where is YOUR dignity?


darkstar3 39M
43 posts
2/11/2009 11:14 am

A booty call can be a relationship but not a very meaningful one.


firegryphon 54F
5903 posts
2/17/2009 7:01 pm

Amen. ^5's! I could do this whole thing about how vigorously I agree with you. Lay it on her!

The only thing I HAVE to do is eat, shit, and die. Everything else is a choice.


rm_BigDnLady 50M/48F
1139 posts
2/20/2009 11:22 am

This was only a scenario. A friend of mine was going through this and I had to put myself in her shoes!!

Lady


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
11/24/2020 5:08 pm

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