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Morning Thoughts  

rm_Quixy101 71M
2827 posts
4/5/2012 9:39 am
Morning Thoughts

Some mornings I have thoughts...yes indeed...I can actually think. I knoiw that for a man that is considered quite an accomplishment...lol...but it is actually true, at least in my case.

I am trying to reconcile my life/job/retirement/future...Now if you've ever been there you'll know that that is a deep deep well. It can become quite philosophical and heavy if you let it. Fortunately I don't because after all, I am at work. This is the new place I told you about a while ago...it requires some concentration because things here are different from the norm...they are actually firmly planed in the future...well ok, present, but considering some of my other , this is the future...for them at least. So its nice to be challenged from time to time on something new. And of course there's the new people, new ways of doing things, new questions, etc etc.

So after a good round of that this morning I have retreated to my office to ponder. And ponder I do...but not about work...about me and the future.

I was looking at my "Watched Blogs" list this morning and realized that there are some on there that even though they post I don't relish reading them anymore...so I ask myself "Why do you still read them then?" Which is a good question because my time to do that has dropped significantly. I think I may have to just delete a couple who have lost my interest and concentrate on those that stimulate me, especially those that stimulate me mentally. I find that I can soooo get into those that are intelligent and forthcoming. They are very cool to read and respond to. I think my new rule will be to drop those that leave me cold and keep those that do the opposite.

I also have a whack of blogs/bloggers that I watch who rarely post. Some haven't posted for almost a year. I think I need to delete those as well...if they have nothing to say, then there's nothing to read/listen to...so off they go!

Spring cleaning I suppose...

I got an email from a male reader who wonders why I have been pre-occupied with BBW's lately. I replied saying that its not that I am obsessed with them, just feel they needed to be noticed too. I have had amazing relationships with some BBW's and still have contact with a couple. So I thought it only fair to share some very sexy pictures of them. I note that quite a few of my female readers have approved...lol...and who would I rather try to impress I ask? Lol...

But I will also interspurse some "normal" women's naked pictures just to keep my male readers happy...or rather those who like the skinny ones more...ha ha. I suppose I am like most men...we would love to have a significant other who looks like this:



But we know it is really a fantasy...and that doesn't mean they are better or special, just likely unattainable. Personally I find women like the one above to be freakishly unusual and often very very self centred and not at all interesting. The fact that they have killer bods does not escape their own attention and their own self image. Most women like that are often even too good for themselves...

To me a "normal" woman is someone who doesn't have a necessarily pwerfect body, but one that is enticing and luscious. I find that in all types of women actually, so the "perfect" ones are not the ones I traditionally would expect to find or even seek.

We all have insecurities about our bodies I think. To be otherwise is to be rather arrogant in MHO. So a dose of reality is better than that.

My future is hopeful if not totally clear. I have ideas about what I want to do, and am persuing those ends...whether I get there is another story. In the meantime I want to make more friends and be with more people. And by "be" I mean both physically and mentally.

Hsve yourselves a great Easter. Do the Easter egg hunt or chocolate bunny thing, but specifically enjoy yourself! I can think of a great place to hide a chocolate easter egg...mmmm...getting it out would be lots of fun for both of us...now where would I hide it???

zandigal 59F
13016 posts
4/6/2012 1:56 am

Happy Easter, Sweetie!


Respond to every call that excites Your Spirit
~Rumi


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blondegirlis 56F
4497 posts
4/6/2012 1:26 am

The unattainable fantasy...lol...yes it can work both ways as well.
Men, whether they be young or old, showing off their ripped bods, their six packs may be unattainable to a 'normal' woman too.
The Adonis searching for Xena his Warrior Queen...perfectly fine in movies and on tv but not grounded in reality.

I'm happy to call myself a 'normal' woman who enjoys a 'normal' man.

As for your future, you are working on it, it will happen.

Chocolate...mmmmmm...

Happy Easter to you Q!


rm_Quixy101 replies on 4/9/2012 11:41 am:
Happy Easter B...may you attain dizzying heights...

Msboobsy 70F
5972 posts
4/5/2012 7:19 pm

LOL, MMMMM hiding eggs huh? I like your thinking on the "normal" woman. Smart man.


rm_Quixy101 replies on 4/9/2012 11:42 am:
Thank you...gawrsh...

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