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Single Males!!!!!  

FunMWF36 52F
32 posts
7/21/2007 8:23 am
Single Males!!!!!


I have had a couple great successes with the Single Male! However, most are flakes on this site and just waste our time. I would love to communicate with other couples and women to discuss between us who is "blacklisted" and should be blocked. They do not belong in the lifestyle and give all single males a bad ; What to do...I have list started and we should at least do "reference checks" with each other...good idea? K

mebychoice 43F

7/21/2007 8:57 am

I've been a member less than a week myself, and I haven't met anyone as of yet. However, I have encountered several who evidently are mad at the world for being born, and for the course their lives have taken, and have made it their mission to lower the self esteem of those of us who like who are happy with who we are. I agree, alot of flakes on here.
I've been considering starting my own list of these people and posting it on my blog, along with their mean and nasty emails, so others can see.


AtomicTwat 65M/57F

7/21/2007 8:58 am

Welcome to blogland...

I would like for you to come visit my blog site as I discuss womens issues in a great way.

I would really like your opinion on some of the topics.

Our link is: AtomicTwat

Hope to see you there.

Thanks,
♥ Bambi ♥


A Twat



oldude1946 78M

7/21/2007 8:59 am

I'm an old single male on here and I'm for sure real, just ask mzhunyhole


rm_acuario_61_ 63M

7/21/2007 10:06 am

FunMWF36
just to say that I like what I see in your picture


CARISMATICONE 67M
138 posts
7/21/2007 10:20 am

Hi, I read your profile and found it to be very pleasant and all inclusive.Please disregard the jerks on here.

I really am sorry you have encounterd the bad side,but just remember there are some nice guys here as well.

I like to compare searching for the right woman...in my case to gold hunting,the good material settles to the bottom and you have got to shovel through a lot of stuff to get to the motherload,and sometimes along the way...........................

You may run into fools gold,but thats only a distraction.


CARISMATICONE 67M
138 posts
7/21/2007 10:30 am

I wanted to say to mebychoice that I looked at your profile and thought it was hot as well and your pictures are awesome,I added one to my favorites list.

I am sorry that you encountered problems as well...if they become offensive,report them to TSmeet


hot_caz_sex 53M

7/22/2007 6:18 am

Just keep trying I guess. I a guy am I cautious because I dont want to me some wacko so I can only imagine the mails you get


ezroller46526 49M

8/4/2007 11:57 am

There's a lot of flakes on this site female/male.

At least you've had some success. The women have much more opportunity than the men on this site. If you wanna weed out the flakes, try checking out their profiles & blogs. That way you can see if they are a flake.

If you wanna start blacklisting guys, start with the fucking idiots that leave the same two page long testimonial on every girls profile, telling them 'they are an 8,000,000 out of a ten and they want to lick their buttholes and suck their toes'. Seriously. I get tired of seeing that stupid shit. And any girl who doesn't delete that & block that moron, is not some girl I want to have in my network.


AwlKnight 68M/66F
29 posts
8/6/2007 11:33 am

Male half here.
Black listing won't help. They'll start a new profile and bother you again. And most of 'em aren't single.

Try using the network friends features once you have a group of people you think share the same values. Their friends are likely to be able to be your friends.

Use the cupid features for a tighter screening. Can't you also set email for only cupid matches?

Refuse to answer one or two line emails. Put that in your profile. If they want to meet you, they should have the decency to introduce themselves and start a CONVERSATION.

Change your main pic to a face shot. Remove anything overtly erotic from your public pics. Keep your intimate/body part shots in the private network photo albums.

This is a sort of public group. You can create your own elite by how much you pay, and how tight your screening is.

But you don't elaborate on 'flakes' and 'waste our time' as to what your specific complaints are.

Just some suggestions. Good luck


PleasureU1272 52M

8/7/2007 2:29 pm

I live pretty local to you and would love a chance to be "real". Let me know if you are inetrested in chatting and possibly meeting.


corichie87 36M

8/7/2007 10:58 pm

Hope that I haven't lost my shot because of some other guy. I am not a flake!! I also don't have time to waste either....


XTASTER 72M

9/5/2007 3:44 pm

I just read your blog, after having revisited your profile and private album. As one who's been on this site off and on for years, I KNOW single guys are a dime a dozen. So it's difficult for those of us who are not jerks to turn the right heads.

Bitterness is not a sex-linked characteristic. I have encountered (not met) bitter women on here as well. And I have met some nice couples over the years and a few sex crazed (isn't that what we all hope for! )but otherwise mostly normal woman.

Good manners online ought to be a prerequisite.


tasteurideme 46M

3/29/2008 7:34 am

looking forward to the oppertunity to show you i am not going to flake...


outthereonit 64M

6/29/2008 1:33 pm

I agree with Awlknight Flakes are flakes and very annoying. One of the girls in my network actually left TSmeet because of all the fakers and flakes. Thank god I meet her before she left. I am a very realist guy and would love to meet you and your husband. I have sent you some emails and you joined my network but I have not heard back from you yet. I was actually concerned that you guys might be Fakes and I was going to drop you from my friends. Let me know if I should try to continue to contact you or move on. Thanks Excellent blog


Longstrokin999 54M
17 posts
10/1/2008 4:47 pm

I totally understand that some guys give us all a bad name. Not only in being flakes, but in some cases guys are crude, disrespectful some lie about their size or skill level. On the flipside I've had a few couples flake on me, but I don't to hold it against future couples. For the most part I've had some great experiences. Being doing this since the summer of 2000, and having a blast!


eam17194078584 40M

2/19/2009 6:16 pm

Good idea, i would make Local List & State List.

I've met people & been surprised. Then i've also been stood up before by a fake. But thats just suggestion & whats happened to me in the past.


rm_Heik83 40M

4/27/2009 5:38 am

I think most of us are not even given a chance. I've been a member for almost a month now with very little response. When my account comes up for renew in a week I don't think that I will be paying for it again.


rm_chloe2009cw 44F

5/3/2009 12:38 pm

I'm quite new to this site but have chatted with a few seemingly good people. I joined the site because I really want more sexually but I'm shy. I think this is a great way to meet people looking for the same as I but No Strings Attached. My boyfriend has been on the site for awhile now, he has had many encounters and all but one were what he would call a good time. So all though there are creeps on the site...and let's face it it is a sex site....it's about trying new things and having fun. Just ignore the jerks and enjoy yourself.


RICK102958 61M

7/2/2009 12:46 pm

I have had some extremely successful partners met through the site and have been stood up a few times also. The main criteria I use to seperate the "real" from the "fakes" or "working girls" is the testamonial section. I am sure this would work for the guys also. Good luck in your search and review my profile. We live close so it could be a mutually beneficial situation. Rick


rm_dangjmtn1 69M

7/28/2009 2:31 pm

Don't know what to say. I am new and there seems to be some negative energy. In time I am sure I will understand more.


rm_bluebuff2 43M

8/1/2009 11:35 am

Why don't you shoot me an email if you'd like . Hope you're having a nice weekend!


alwys4fun3 49M
1 post
8/16/2009 7:02 am

Not all guys are flakes on this site.


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2/17/2011 3:15 am

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Aquarius196421 60M
27 posts
12/13/2014 9:18 am

Hi Lady,
Since you are still on this site since you started the blog i guess you found your way around the flakes, fakes, dudes..........
Frustration is here both ways. You just need to take this public world with a smile and wonder. Like any party there are all kind of people. And this platform is world wide. Frustratiing is also the fake women, that are some nerds, guys, in the basement and getting something out of it. Just dont know what.
I believe still to find quality. Because, with all the frustration that is going on, when i end up connecting it was fun and lasted for long in most cases. My Best and good Luck


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