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Want to KNOW who your FRIENDS are ?  

luvmunkey4ubaby 56M
182 posts
9/4/2008 5:10 am
Want to KNOW who your FRIENDS are ?


Years ago, I used to live in Atlanta. I was 23 years old, and looked into this get-rich-quick sales position selling Halon fire extinguishers for "homes".

I was hangin' out with the office manager, and asked him Why a guy with a college degree would do THIS for a living ...... he explained to me that he was "broke", had no job-leads, and needed to make money "fast" .... he told he was in a Fraternity @ Georgia Tech, and when he took this position, he immediately went to all his "Brothers" and asked for "help" .... they ALL bought his product, had their friends buy his product, so he never had to actually "sell" at all ...... he sold so many, so FAST to his "Brothers", that the Company immediately promoted him to Office Manager, where all he had to do was Train others with a generic "sales pitch", and he got paid a percentage from total office sales ..... his financial worries OVER !

That's "LOVE" .... that's "FRIENDSHIP" .... helping your friend in-need .... Beautiful

as many know, the last few months, I was working on a project .... with the "Intention" of helping everyone and the "HOPES" of making some REAL money

when I finished the Project, any of my "FRIENDS" could have been "supportive", and spent the measily $20 to buy my "gift" ... but, instead, every fukin' one of my "friends" wanted a FREE copy of the DVD .... "me" being the stupid-ass "GIVING TYPE-of-GUY" let each of them have a DVD free ....

Every one of my friends knows I'm "struggling" financially right now, but not ONE OF THEM would put out $20 to support me

sure, they ALL say "thanks" .... and they will all benefit from my "gift", but what about "ME" ?

guess "Lesson Learned" ..... I don't have any "Friends" ..... wish I was the type that could say "Fuck-You" every time THEY need help ...

I help these Mutha-fuka's every day with their shit, but no help for me .... whatever

guess I know WHO my friends ARE ..... the guys who took the time to Praise me for an Incredible Job on the DVD .... guys I've never "met" or talked to before ... that's sad

hey, maybe I can work 3 jobs ... maybe THEN, I can make enough to "survive" .. 2 is NOT enough


Luvmunkey Swingin' In the Trees


boredmom39401 48F

9/5/2008 11:53 pm

Honey, one may be the loneliest number but sometimes you come out better in the end. Get rid of those so-called friends and focus on who you are and what you need to do in order to get where you want to be. Sometimes you just have to cut dead weight. Hope you have a better tomorrow.


luvmunkey4ubaby 56M
466 posts
9/6/2008 10:44 am

    Quoting boredmom39401:
    Honey, one may be the loneliest number but sometimes you come out better in the end. Get rid of those so-called friends and focus on who you are and what you need to do in order to get where you want to be. Sometimes you just have to cut dead weight. Hope you have a better tomorrow.
Thank you Sweetheart

ever have one of those "times" when someone gives you some Good Advice, which happens to be a perfect match to what you're thinking and feeling already ... but you needed to hear someone else "say it" for it to "click" ?

this is one of those "times" for "me" .... thank you

I don't "dwell" in feelings of "pitty" or "anger" .... but, i DO "feel" those emotions at times ... I get over it, though

I "have to" get over it ...... I enjoy laughing and happiness too much to let go of emotions like that

I've been slowly, steadily CHANGING my world .... but, it's taking a very long time, progress is "slow" ... but hey, I'm a "survivor" ...
one way or another, I'll make this work

My Best Wishes for YOU, baby



Luvmunkey Swingin' In the Trees


sexymermaid6956 70F
26383 posts
9/6/2008 2:53 pm

yes that is a tuff one my friend...friends..fair weather friends...

i know the feeling ..i so need a job and i would do anything right now!!!!i mean anythig!!!!

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Seduce my mind and my body


luvmunkey4ubaby 56M
466 posts
9/6/2008 3:43 pm

    Quoting sexymermaid6956:
    yes that is a tuff one my friend...friends..fair weather friends...

    i know the feeling ..i so need a job and i would do anything right now!!!!i mean anythig!!!!
well, if I had "the MONEY", my imagination could think of so many "jobs" for you .... hahaha

seriously, I'd "look out" for YOU, Baby .... you are someone that DESERVES the very BEST

Luv Ya


Luvmunkey Swingin' In the Trees


boredmom39401 48F

9/7/2008 12:20 am

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9 posts

9/6/2008 2:50 pm
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You're very welcome. Progress is slow and getting rid of unnecessary things is sometimes hard, but it is worth the changes.

Not sure of your taste in music or anything, but I feel like there is a song for every situation one may go thru in their life.

From what I am reading, and maybe I am wrong, you sound as if you are going thru alot of the same changes that I have had to go thru in the past 5 years.

Check out the song on my myspace page and see if it makes you feel any better. I know I can relate to it. Then again music is my "thing". www.myspace.com/ddm76

Even if you don't like the song, if you look at the page, you can learn alot about me as a person. I think I'm pretty awesome. Of course that 's just me and about a million gay men!! LOL


sexymermaid6956 70F
26383 posts
9/9/2008 9:03 am

thanks sweetie..i need to stand on my own two feet and take charge of me...holy cow i can't say i have done that in 27 years...wow...

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Seduce my mind and my body


luvmunkey4ubaby 56M
466 posts
9/9/2008 4:22 pm

    Quoting sexymermaid6956:
    thanks sweetie..i need to stand on my own two feet and take charge of me...holy cow i can't say i have done that in 27 years...wow...
I have no doubt you will do just FINE ....

i BELIEVE in YOU


Luvmunkey Swingin' In the Trees


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