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An Observation  

myelin36 53F
4615 posts
8/9/2014 8:20 am
An Observation

From time to time, I like to view others blogs. I began to notice something about bloggers with a lot of watchers. Nudity. Lots of it. Granted, this is a sex site and that's what we are here for but whatever happened to the mystery- the slow burn of intellectual seduction?

I have to commend bloggers that actually write provocative blogs. It makes me think. It makes me want them. Even without the nudity. It is classy.

To those that have a lot of watchers because you post a lot of nude photos, it makes me wonder about your sense of self. Certainly, you would probably be an enticing fuck. Aside from that, could you keep his interest?

If being an enticing fuck means posting hundreds of nude photos on my blog, I think I will pass. I'm happy with my 55 watchers.


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windsjohn 73M  
798 posts
8/9/2014 8:41 am

I started putting in nude pics of me. to heighten my viewership. But I am comfortable in my skin and enjoy the fact that I like being nude and showing off too.


normalisoktoo 54M

8/9/2014 8:41 am

Thank you for putting into words what I had been observing for some time. I only have 4 watchers - not one of them has seen my package. Methinks they like my words.

I enjoy reading yours, too.


myelin36 replies on 8/9/2014 12:18 pm:
You now have 5 watchers

flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
8/9/2014 8:53 am

There's a difference I guess in writing a blog around certain erotic themes who enhance that with, say certain B&W erotic photos. These aren't mere nudes, but art. Many who stage photos of themselves will consider the art a part of their own blog. Major assumption on my part there.

But no worse than your assumption on their own self of worth, and your implied sense of superiority in holding the interest of others


myelin36 replies on 8/9/2014 8:57 am:
I was referring to people who just post photos of themselves without any commentary but thanks for your comments even if they are presumptive on your part.

RideACowboy3021 62M
820 posts
8/9/2014 9:06 am

I agree with you. Sometimes what I write is about life and has nothing to do with sex at all. Other times I will write about something sexual that I've experienced. To me it's about the mystery... about unwrapping a beautiful package for the first time, that's what’s so alluring.

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myelin36 replies on 8/9/2014 10:03 am:
Exactly! I love unwrapping presents. Especially if I know that the present was carefully selected just for me.

gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
8/9/2014 9:11 am

I always did wonder what percent of my viewership watches my blog for something other than my nakedness.

Thoughts from the Garden...


ProfessorNaught 111M
1406 posts
8/9/2014 9:15 am

The sheer volumn of photos posted by individuals has been questioned and the response always comes back to "I'm an exhibitionist". Like king-ding-a-ling there is always that defensive presentation of responses when these actions are questioned in pure curiosity.

The truth is people come here for many different reasons. An overly abundance of photos may be more about compensating for self conciousness opposed to finding a partner with compatible sexual desires and interest or maybe a lack of physical contact. Some may have no self concious or shame no matter what and a link between these actions can be associated with certain parts of the world where societies have a propensity for a lack of privacy.


myelin36 replies on 8/9/2014 9:19 am:
Thanks for your comments. Glad that others can see past the smoke and mirrors that becomes some bloggers reality.

myelin36 53F
3612 posts
8/9/2014 9:17 am

GB, I have to admit, I perve your blog exclusively for the eye candy. I do enjoy your artistic insight, too. Your art invokes contemplation on a deeper level.

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CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
8/9/2014 9:19 am

We all have our own style and reasons for posting what we do, and if somebody was to explore their exhibitionist side, I am surely game to assist! .

None the less, I’ve long said a great chest, pretty hair, cute face will surely GET my attention, but in the end, a clever mind, and a fun attitude, are what KEEPS my attention.

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coptrainer56 74M
1880 posts
8/9/2014 9:20 am

I try to write about topics that affect the success of people on this site. I obviously use the nudity to attract attention to what i believe i have to offer.

Be safe, relax and just have fun!


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
8/9/2014 11:14 am

I have lots of nude photo on my blog, but none are of me. I write mostly about sex and the pictures I post always enhance the theme... or at least that is the attempt.

Now you have 56 watchers.

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/9/2014 7:12 pm



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sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
8/10/2014 7:12 am

"To those that have a lot of watchers because you post a lot of nude photos, it makes me wonder about your sense of self. Certainly, you would probably be an enticing fuck. Aside from that, could you keep his interest?"

Y'ouch!! I guess different folks, different strokes. Yet, I wonder if some of them think the same of those that don't post photos.


08540Tantrafun 60M  
1072 posts
8/10/2014 2:53 pm

I don't think it is a new trend. for the last 10 years that I have been here, your observation has been true. Some are exhibitionists, most want adulation, adoration and affirmation. They put in a lot of pic (some of them I like by the way) to draw people in. Others create controversies or drama. I prefer peoples personal transformational stories and articles that increases understanding and awareness.

"Rules for happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.”― Immanuel Kant .


myelin36 replies on 8/10/2014 3:49 pm:
Amen! I could not have said it better! Hell, why do people spend so much damn time worrying about what others think? Get a real life!

gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
8/10/2014 4:05 pm

    Quoting myelin36:
    GB, I have to admit, I perve your blog exclusively for the eye candy. I do enjoy your artistic insight, too. Your art invokes contemplation on a deeper level.
Eye candy is underrated.

Thoughts from the Garden...


tazzerman2000 66M
18912 posts
8/11/2014 5:10 am

I do use a lot of nude pics in my posts but I really don't do it to boost my watchers. The pics I use are typically illustrative, funny, sexy or just plain weird/crazy. That being said, I DO know exactly what you're talking about

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