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Growing Up on A F F
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Growing Up on A F F I was sitting back today...remembering a time not to very long ago when I first stumbled across this site and thinking how simply amazed I was at what I found. I couldn't wait to dig in and start firing off emails to anything of the opposite sex with a pulse. My emails were somewhat crude but had a comedic flavor to them (so I thought). I remember one woman from France who I ran across...she was sexy and sultry and must have loved American guys because she took my lame excuse for an advance and found humor in it...bless her soul. Typically my emails would go something like this (icons and all): "Wow, you're hot...sure wouldn't mind ridin' you hard and puttin' you away wet" >>! ?* Yeeeeeeeeee Haaaaaaaaaaaw Yes, sad but true I was one of those knuckle heads that just didn't get it. Not long after (thankfully), I realized that these were women and not pieces of meat and they should be treated with respect and dignity regardless of the type of site I was on. Just because this was an adult site didn't mean common courtesy and respect should go out the window. Yes, yours truly was one of those guys you read about in other peoples profiles...you know...the ones they asked not to contact them if I didn't have anything better to say than "wanna fuck". I started reading profiles (a lot of them and still do) and finding out what others were looking for. I began to refine my profile (4 or 5 times now) so others clearly understood my desires. I sought out others that were looking for the same things I was (like mindedness). Wrote them emails introducing myself and my intentions, asking them to write back if they were interested, sending them tasteful pictures and wishing them luck in any event. Sadly, I still continue to read profiles and see the same requests that I ran across a few years back..."please, no cock shots" "please don't write if all your gonna ask is to fuck" "NO MEN, NO MEN, NO MEN" "DID I SAY NO MEN" omg...I guess some people don't get it and now know why the fate of single guys is dashed before it gets off the blocks. Yes...the last couple of years have been a strange journey, but a good journey nonetheless. I'm glad I've finally grown up......haven't I???  Best to you all, Shoulda been a cowboy...  |
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funny the few minutes we talked and we were friends right away, with no sex even mentioned...glad we had the chance to get to actually know each other!!! I know...isn't it amazing? I'm glad we go on too. I've had nothing but fun and good laughs chatting you. I'm looking forward to meeting you guys in RL....can't wait!!! woooo hoooo Hugs, Tramp  Shoulda been a cowboy...
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funny the few minutes we talked and we were friends right away, with no sex even mentioned...glad we had the chance to get to actually know each other!!!
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SADDLETRAMP...Thanks so very much. YES, the site can and does work. I do feel aweful for the GOOD guys that get looked over daily because the idiot squad out numbers them. You are more than welcome and again, thank YOU for being you.  Thanks Rdy2, YOU ROCK!Jody Shoulda been a cowboy...
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SADDLETRAMP...Thanks so very much. YES, the site can and does work. I do feel aweful for the GOOD guys that get looked over daily because the idiot squad out numbers them. You are more than welcome and again, thank YOU for being you.
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GOOD POST!! I have to say the mentality of "it's a sex site put out or get out" truly IS a turn off. Someone may be really hot and horny, but normally they don't do anything with a penis. The site's ads of "get laid in 24 hours" truly does give the idiot faction the idea that this is a free whorehouse warehouse when in fact not one woman is employed here. I have seen as you say the crudeness in the chatroom and again, turn off.. cold as ice it makes most. Good job and you do prove that NOT all men are pigs. That is an excuse for bad behavior. Glad you are one of the good ones. I read your profile after reading your post in Emma's blog. You're intuitive, witty and I love the job you did on your main profile pic (still laughing at "item discontinued"). It's always nice to run across women who notice and take the time to support the guys who are trying to do the right thing. I'm very happy you found that special someone and wish you all the best. Thanks again for taking the time to post.Warm Regards, Tramp Shoulda been a cowboy...
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GOOD POST!! I have to say the mentality of "it's a sex site put out or get out" truly IS a turn off. Someone may be really hot and horny, but normally they don't do anything with a penis. The site's ads of "get laid in 24 hours" truly does give the idiot faction the idea that this is a free whorehouse warehouse when in fact not one woman is employed here. I have seen as you say the crudeness in the chatroom and again, turn off.. cold as ice it makes most. Good job and you do prove that NOT all men are pigs. That is an excuse for bad behavior. Glad you are one of the good ones.
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Quote: "Wow, you're hot...sure wouldn't mind ridin' you hard and puttin' you away wet" >>! ?* Yeeeeeeeeee Haaaaaaaaaaaw LMAO I am sure you said the to me more than once. Megs  Now how many times have I said that??? LMAO You're the best darlin' Thanks for the post and good luck with your new b/f bowlingxxxx I'm very happy to hear you're dating. Send my regards.All the best, Tramp P.S. Now be a darlin' and make sure you visit see inserted pic  Shoulda been a cowboy...
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2/24/2009 6:52 pm |
Quote: "Wow, you're hot...sure wouldn't mind ridin' you hard and puttin' you away wet" >>! ?* Yeeeeeeeeee Haaaaaaaaaaaw LMAO I am sure you said the to me more than once. Megs
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Thanks for the education! More to learn! Thanks for stopping by and you're welcome. I guess as long as we remain open and teachable, we'll continue to grow. Best Wishes, Tramp Shoulda been a cowboy...
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1/21/2009 5:55 am |
Thanks for the education! More to learn!
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Hi Saddle, Very well put. It's nice to know people are willing to look in the mirror see their faults and are willing to grow and change, making themselves a better person. In this case, not just blaming the so called “stuck up” people on the site. After reading your blog I got an idea, at least for the chat rooms. People new to the site should have to watch the rooms but not be able to chat in them for a certain period of time, say a total of 4 to 6 hours (although some people need longer, lol). This way they could get an understanding of what room etiquette is and how people still want to be treated with respect in cyberspace. I also figure if they are willing to put in the time to just watch the rooms, then they really want to be here too. Weeding out the people that think this is a quick and easy way to get sex, get frustrated, and act like even bigger jerks. Maybe it would make for a better experience for everyone. Just a thought. Thanks so much for your post. I really had to take a good look at myself and how ignorant I must have sounded to these women. I'm glad I saw the light and as a result, I've made some great friends online and in real life. I love your idea about the probationary period for chat rooms. I've been appalled at some of the things I've seen posted in the rooms. It's easy enough to misinterpret a post, so it's best if you know how to respond appropriately as oppose to react. I think one of the things that irritates me most is someone taking a shot at someone in a chat room because of their post when they're not even involved in that chat, or the infamous copy and pasting of someone's post with a commentary. I could go on but I'll stop there. It all boils down to common courtesy and respect where ever we encounter someone. Treat others as you wish to be treated and the experience should be wonderful. Thanks again for dropping in and my best to you and your hubby for a Safe and Happy Holiday Season. Warm regards, Tramp Shoulda been a cowboy...
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Hi Rachel, Thank you for the taking the time to post and the very kind words. I guess in a way it's just a common sense approach to meeting anyone. It took me a little time to figure it out too, but I've rounded the corner. Best wishes to you and thanks for the emails. Warm regards, Tramp Shoulda been a cowboy...
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Hi Saddle, Very well put. It's nice to know people are willing to look in the mirror see their faults and are willing to grow and change, making themselves a better person. In this case, not just blaming the so called “stuck up” people on the site. After reading your blog I got an idea, at least for the chat rooms. People new to the site should have to watch the rooms but not be able to chat in them for a certain period of time, say a total of 4 to 6 hours (although some people need longer, lol). This way they could get an understanding of what room etiquette is and how people still want to be treated with respect in cyberspace. I also figure if they are willing to put in the time to just watch the rooms, then they really want to be here too. Weeding out the people that think this is a quick and easy way to get sex, get frustrated, and act like even bigger jerks. Maybe it would make for a better experience for everyone. Just a thought.
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Saddle...well put, my friend...well put! I've often wondered if these same people would express themselves in the same manner in person as they do online? Well...do it and walk away unscathed, that is.  Nice of you to drop by. Sounds like you'd enjoy "thumpin" somebody that tried it...LOL Best wishes to you and The Cookie man for Safe and Happy Holiday. Warm regards, Tramp Shoulda been a cowboy...
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Saddle...well put, my friend...well put! I've often wondered if these same people would express themselves in the same manner in person as they do online? Well...do it and walk away unscathed, that is.
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Sandy...did you get that CAT Scan on your head yet...? I wouldn't worry about my approach darlin'...most land short of the runway. But thanks just the same...Oh....love your new name card.  Happy Festivus Tramp Shoulda been a cowboy...
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Awwww..and that's why you're Sweet! Thanks so much darlin'...now where's that pirates hat and those boots...LMAO!!! Best to you ya lil Swash Buckler. Tramp Shoulda been a cowboy...
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My Oh My....well thank you P....I hope I'm on the favorable (naughty is nice) list...and Santa delivers you under my tree...with or without the coat is fine! Best to you My Sweet, Tramp Shoulda been a cowboy...
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Hi Safe, Good to hear from you and thanks. I thought about getting some bad press on this blog, but being open and honest about it gave me a better feeling. I can only hope that some people will benefit from this and the tide will turn for everyone....guys like me looking to connect and great women like you who deserve due respect. Thanks for stopping in and taking the time to post. Best always, Tramp Shoulda been a cowboy...
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