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Role Reversal
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Role Reversal Maybe it's just me, but I've been noticing a recent role reversal on TSmeet. Now I am fully aware that it may be indicitive of the area I live in or maybe it's just me, but it's been very evident in the past few weeks: Men Leading Women on With the Promise of Sex I have talked to a few men recently who have lead me on and dropped me before the date of consumation. I've shown them pics, they told me I was hot, we talked on the phone, they told me I had a hot voice, we talked about what we wanted to do to each other. Then as the date approaches for us to get together and "do it", I get a phone call/text message/e-mail telling me that they don't think it'd be right to treat me like that because they respect me, but they aren't looking for a relationship either so maybe we shouldn't talk. Has this happened to any other ladies out there? Men - have you done this recently to a lady? I'm just wondering what in the hell is going on. Any insight is GREATLY appreciated   |
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3/27/2008 1:56 pm |
Definitely not. Last time I was on this site I was looking to meet but in my profile, I clearly right that I am here for the blogs and making friends on here (if they are cool people). To tell someone you want to meet and then not show up is a total douche move on anyone's part. Especially if done on purpose. A person's word is very important to me and I lose all respect for people who lie (in that way or anyway) or lead people on like that. I mostly blog and email/im and people who talk to me are usually pretty clear on that. Maybe I'm just different and strange.
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I love a woman who is full figured........do not like sticks and bones......... Come to florida and I will show you how the men in South Florida woud do for you!!!!!! I know true southern gentlmen
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I am ideally looking for a relationship. The kink in me permits me minor trysts with temporary lovers. Especially when I think it's going to be a great fuck. I'm open to sexual relationships. However, most men stop at line 1.. see the word relationship.. and freak out. It's really not fair lol Unfair gets you a guy that curls your toes and keeps you excited for years, but also makes you live with the little quirks (got any?). Which one do you REALLY want? It takes patience to weed through the superjerks to find the one jerk that is right for you. So, PAY ATTENTION! heehee
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I like full figured. I think many men do. I like what lucylou said. "Tease" doesn't just mean woman. It's okay to be forward and say what you mean. Don't be discouraged by the wimps and rude ones...you didn't really want them anyway. LOL What ARE you looking for?
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3/21/2008 8:02 pm |
This has happened to me too. I blogged about it even. I think you read that one, too. Just take em for what they are: flakes. Plus, you're better than them anyway  ...Sorry I had to leave so abruptly when we were chatting earlier. My wife came home and I had to sign off asap. Honest Talk From a Lying Prick Wanderaiden
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I'm full figured  But I'm honest about it... and I mean full figured... not obeseWhat ARE you looking for?
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YoungSex.... could be it may be more "complicated" then you both realize, maybe not. Quite possible, the solution is to make your intention crystal clear, when they respond, its time to say "ok, are you for real?, how does this Friday Night sound?" That should weed out some of the players, the others will usually have a grandmother, that broke her hip last minute and they had to go to the hospital, their cell phone wouldnt work, etc etc ....lmao love ya princess What is in the water in Michigan? anyone?
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Up front let's write off the unhappily married men and women. They are covertly looking for an affair. They come on strong until they are discovered, then they have to vanish. The few that maintain their cover, meet and carry on with the date. That covers the sluts and scumbags. There is the man that talks a game to get stimulated, then masturbates from the intensity of your conversations. The opposite is the man that wants sex, gets to know the woman. Then he feels that his desires are too base and beneath her. He is afraid she will label him a freak and he breaks it off. Now for the single and unattached players. Women get more offers than men. At the last moment she can take a better offer and simply not have the courtesy to say as much. Or she might get a red flag in his personality, and be afraid to follow through due to fear. Men can be guilty of this also, but not nearly as much. Men talk a strong game, quickly. Playing numbers, like a salesman. 100 come ons. 10 responses. 1 night stand. Of the nine left over responses, someone is left wondering what happened, as you are. There is a internet course for men. Or males, these are not men. This course teaches them to size up women by type. Exercise mind games and verbal bait. This increases his confidence for other in person meetings. Breaking the date gives him the feeling of control and the mental upper hand. Going on line and playing this game, with greater numbers of women is an expedient method of the same technique. AND IT IS A GAME. If he is shot down, he thinks she has a problem and moves to the next victim. She is not a person, only a number. This works on women who are intoxicated or with very low self-esteem. Of course that is what you are taught to look for. A beautiful, intelligent woman is often the best target. Get her attention, blow her off to affect her need to be noticed. Make her chase you. If you are a woman with real world smarts, you are shaking your head in disbelief. Pay attention the next time you are in a club, concert or venue heavy on surface lite on substance. A huge difference in being smart and being intelligent. If your spam blocker is on low or turned off, you might have seen this course being advertised. Not that you asked in this avenue. But as far as role reversal, I have had women bail out. They claim to have a strap-on sex fetish. We arrange a meeting after e-mails and phone calls. And there are the few that get cold feet. It happens. Same with guys.
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there married........
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It's not a simple case of shyness or any bs like that. It's social cowardice. Once they lose the anonymity of the internet/phone, they're afraid they can't fill the bill they've written for themselves and, rather than being straight in the first place, come up with some other spineless excuse. Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.
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I'm full figured But I'm honest about it... and I mean full figured... not obese
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3/21/2008 1:37 pm |
hello youngsex, i have yet to get to a point of meeting someone but i have permission to play and if and when things are right you bet it will be a great nite. nice blog you have also. See ya
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Sexaddict I just think it is the times we live in. It is so much easier today to break plans, lie or for what ever reason to just blow someone off. I know you are a smart and strong women. Just chalk it up to 'the MI experience' they one that wants you will want you. As for the flip side I have had it done alot to me on here. Especially some of these women try to pass themselves off as petite when they are full figured. Next.............says it all.
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Hmmm but why be overly aggressive in pursuing me calling and texting me and then change your mind in an hour?
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3/21/2008 1:12 pm |
it is a constant problem for me here on TSmeet i get that same treatment from ladies talk and talk and talk and nothing ever happens when time comes i get some hair brain excuse like dog ate my car keys or even worse they just dont show up and dont bother to even call to say why. i used to think it was just men who played games on here but not so much anymore its equal all across the board. i guess the days of meeting someone like minded to have fun with must be over......
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Not sure about Men doing that to women; but have had it happen to me frequently with the people I meed on TSmeet. I chalked it up to "just not serious" about wanting to meet.
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Game Boy,jokes/games,lies,and more lies! "Boys will be Boys"
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