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Are women to lazy to amend their prefferences ???!!!!!  

horune01 56M
34 posts
7/11/2009 7:12 am
Are women to lazy to amend their prefferences ???!!!!!



I mean really there are several women that have their profile listed as race o.k. for black men, but if you mail them they don't respond (and if you're like me that will mail people politely for a time until i get a response) then they tell you they are not interested in black men, i would have been so much easier to have just had that in their profile to start or to go back and amend that, for instance a so called female soldier that lives in Nashville IN came back got onto TSmeet and her original;e title was looking for man for good time, no mention what so ever of him needing to be "white" it came much later and it wasn't an age thing either as one of her friends is 44 so that was not the issue, invited her multiple times to coffee and conversation to no avail until finally she responded to me telling me she was NOT interested in black guys,.... wow... must have had a bad experience overseas, do NOT get me wrong i have the utmost respect and admiration for those serving their country and risking their lives in the name of freedom, but....... you wold think if you were a soldier you would have a little more tolerance to wards thise ina hole with you , oh wait that is right considering her age i don' believe she served a full term...... anyway any thoughts?

I am the H.N.I.C. and if you didn't know you'd best get that confirmed by a reliable source.....


asoingles2007 60M

7/11/2009 8:18 am

My friends consider me to be an expert at getting non African-American females. And always ask advice (I should be charging them money for this). So here are my thoughts.

I show that I have been pre-selected by an Oriental female. This pre-selection is a turn-on for all females; especially the Oriental ones. My kids' mom is from Philippines, and the kids look Filippino. Or, I let females see me with an Oriental female in person or in photos.

I show that I'm not part of any racial stereo-type. Hauling the kids around shows that I don't conceive kids and then run away...like a tomcat. Family is important. I speak clearly (unless I'm very angry and I talk in a Philly colloquial brogue) and don't use slang. And I don't bob about when I walk; straight posture and natural movements.

If a female, any female, is not responsive, I don't continue to pursue her. This makes her think I'm desperate and is a turn-off. I don't take a non-response or "your not my type" response personally. I figure that if we actually had started a relationship...one day we would break up; so it's best to never start a relationship now. Usually, over time I find the female to be a looney or belligerent and end things; even if the sex is good.


horune01 56M
23 posts
7/22/2009 10:14 am

Thank you both for your comments, it is a more than infuriating reaction one day they have you in the o.k. for race then next day it is changed, I truly seek to have a relationship with a woman that has kids around my daughter's age so i win and she wins, but alas it seems it is more of a click thing now, as far as that goes I like sex, i like to see a woman get off more so than me , but i also like conversation and many here seem to want to just fuck and go on even if they have in there profile conversation and friendships desired, i attempt to have more to go on besides sex, cheesy B movies and the like and yet no go ...."sigh".

I am the H.N.I.C. and if you didn't know you'd best get that confirmed by a reliable source.....


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