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Don't Tell Me Who I Am  

rm_Q_Tessa 64F
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5/19/2009 2:26 pm
Don't Tell Me Who I Am
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rm_05realman21 51M
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5944 posts
5/19/2009 3:14 pm

 Laugh it off girl.....


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rm_pnznv 70M
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414 posts
5/19/2009 6:08 pm

 And that's all you need to say/know about that!

P.S. I also learned a little, but I wish you'd elaborate, as if you hadn't been uninterrupted. Thanks.


stinkyogar 59M

5/19/2009 7:10 pm

 All the world a stage and we are mere actors? People believe in what they stay because of who they are. It is not one of understanding others but of understanding yourself. When we become angered or disappointed in others I think it is because of what standards we apply. If I apply my standards to others I become a little to a lot pissed. That has been my issue on this site. Things get advertised and become misleading and others are too sorry to be honest truthful and let it be. Still others believe they are the 'see all tell all' ones and don't give anyone a chance. Crazy like a box of chocolates.


TMs_lass 55F

5/20/2009 12:13 am

 That's just it soft. If we know who we are, does it really matter what anyone else thinks? Of course not. imo, your description was correct and simple to understand and i only wish you could've went on as i'm sure this newbie would have greater insight.

There's no right and wrong.....people seem to forget that.

Keep fighting the good fight, the good always come out on top.


rm_Q_Tessa replies on 5/20/2009 6:46 am:
Thank you very much lass. I do appreciate your understanding. hugggggs

rm_janemoor67 45F

5/20/2009 5:10 am


rm_janemoor67 45F

5/20/2009 5:10 am


rm_Q_Tessa 64F
88 posts
5/20/2009 7:59 am

 Post from someone on alt:

"Got the definition from a BDSM dictionary updated in April of this year. It states:

BOTTOM: A person who receives spankings, floggings, or other forms of stimulation in situations which specifically exclude power exchange. For example, a masochist may be interested in receiving some kind of stimulation but may not be interested in giving up psychological control; whereas a submissive has given up authority and may receive some kind of stimulation on the instruction of a dominant, a bottom does not give up authority and may control exactly how, under what circumstances, and to what degree he or she receives some form of stimulation. Contrast top; see related submissive.

Pass this on - it might help."


sexxgoddess4u 44F

5/20/2009 8:18 am

 wow..bravo..i adore your bravery....


rm_Q_Tessa replies on 5/20/2009 9:46 am:
Thank you....not sure it has anything to do with bravery, but I couldn't hold it in at the time.

heysexymammas 43M
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5/20/2009 2:34 pm

 keep it up.


collaredmuff01 59F
1956 posts
5/23/2009 7:08 am

 I had to learn this lesson over and over again softie...it doesn't matter what anybody else thinks as long as you are safe and happy

I too get alot of shit...but I choose to take the higher road and honor myself!
Muffy da Brat


rm_Q_Tessa replies on 5/23/2009 11:42 am:
Thanks muffffffy. A huge part of the frustration was being interrupted while I was trying to explain to someone. She asked ME what I am and I was just trying to explain but someone wanted to be impatient and 'correct' me. Oh, well....I'm not the one still harping about it and/or the blog, in the room. Let them talk.

Huggggggggs and best wishes to you and your Daddy. Look forward to getting to know him.

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