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A beginning...
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A beginning... It's my first time blogging here. Not quite sure where to start, but as anyone who knows me can attest, I am rarely at a loss for words. I suppose an introduction for those who don't might be the proper course of action. I am 45, single now. Not sure where I stand on a committed relationship at this point, at times it has it's allure, but most of the time, I rather cherish my freedom. I am not good at relationships I don't think. I can't seem to find someone who doesn't want a phenomenal amount of changing out of me. And I just don't see that happening. (Unless someone with Oprah's money comes along. money can't by happiness, but it makes being miserable much more comfortable....and no, I am not remotely serious about this statement.) I like to joke and a lot. I tend to have a rather dry sense of humor for the most part. I think that reality and day to day life has more than its' fair share of drama and pain. Why on earth would anyone want to add to it unnecessarily? I work far too many hours, but work is the one thing that has never let me down. I am a workaholic, I have never had a problem with working long hours, in thankless jobs for the most part. But I have never been ashamed to say I work anywhere. With so many people who play the system in the world, to me, having a job no matter how menial it may be, is a source of pride and I feel a great sense of accomplishment at day's end. My are grown, have lives and families and of their own. I am very proud of the fact that none of them are dependant on me, that they are productive people. I tend to like my fellow humans from all walks of life, but seem to 'click' with people who are bluntly honest and see the beauty of life rather than life's sadness. Every coin has two sides, and its up to an individual what they see in it. And Sex.....wow...what a wonderous thing. Sex is probably the most fun any two (or more) people can have. I am not going to pretend that sex is anything more than a physical act for me. Sex does not equate love. It can enhance love, and in some cases even lead to love. But for the most part sex is a natural desire. We were meant to enjoy it, to relish in it, to desire it. I see so many people who have turned something that should be the best part of life into a bitter bone of contention, something to be ashamed of, something to keep hidden. I am just deeply grateful that I am not one of that mind-set. I would not trade my adventures for all the gold in the world. Someday I will be old, and the only excitement that will be left to me will be my memories. And you can bet, when that day arrives, I will be the quiet old lady in the corner with they mysterious smile on my face at the Shady Acres Home for the Aged and Deranged. And now for the warning. I am laid back, I don't get excited about stupid petty little things, I don't judge. Those are pointless and negative emotions and attitudes. I have better things to do with my time...BUT... The things I write in my blogs are MY OPINIONS. I am not telling ANYONE they have to think, see, believe or do as I do. They are written as a way for people to get to know WHO I AM, before they bother sending me an email. In order for sex to be worthwhile at all, there has to be a mental connection for me. I have to actually LIKE someone before I drop my panties and hop into the sack with them. ( I mean seriously, has anyone EVER thought " Gee, you are such an a**hole, I would really like to f**k you"? ). Therefore, before I get ten thousand emails detailing to me how wrong, how horrible, how mental I am, be warned that my replies to such things are NEVER polite, and I have been known to make such emails and my replies to them as public as I possibly can. If you want to show your ass to me in an anonymous email..trust that I will find out a way to show your true nature to the rest of the world as well. In other words, I will be respectful and play nice only if I am extended the same courtsey. Blessed Be!! "Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him." ~Ralph Waldo Emerson   |
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Lol Overworked Loon....I resemble that remark. Nice to 'meet' you.  "Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him." ~Ralph Waldo Emerson
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I have a feeling this will be a fun blog to watch. I think I need to hang around a better class of humans, I find myself wanting to strangle about 30% of the ones I deal with day-to-day. Then again you're probably a lot nicer person than I am. I do have to quibble about "has anyone EVER thought " Gee, you are such an a**hole, I would really like to f**k you"?" I think there are a great number of battered spouses that did just that. Well, I look foreword to future posts and I'll try to behave. Loon
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