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Fever Pitch  

wildnwanton 61F
2108 posts
7/24/2017 7:48 am
Fever Pitch


Another sketch of mine, this one I framed and hung in the house.

Another day, another blog. (Getting my mojo working again seems to be a full time gig.)

I've been tooling around Blog town, reading this and that. For a place that was once chock full of daily writers, this place feels like a ghost town. I used to watch over 200 blogs here at one time, now even with the addition of 3 new blogs to my watched list, I still only have 84...and zero blogs to read this morning.
That is not to say that there aren't plenty of active blogs, and they are all good blogs, but I'm looking for blogs that speak to me on a personal level, the ones that show a glimpse of who a person is, gives me a sense of what it would be like to spend the day just hanging out and talking. (But then I am looking for friends, not a hook up, so the problem is my own, it has nothing to do with this site or anyone who writes here.)

I've never been very sexually visceral. I do enjoy looking at nudes, but I am not looking in a sexual sense, it's more an appreciation of human beauty than anything that sexually excites me.
It takes an actual laying on of the hands for me to be sexually enticed, honestly.
That is not to say I am not attracted by physical beauty either, initial attractions do begin by noticing a shapely body or a winsome smile and letting my mind wander to all the what ifs and hows. But that is a reality based attraction for me, I've never looked at a photo and thought to myself, "I want some of that." Photos can lie, they are far too easily manipulated now and I have trust issues.


Case in point, this selfie that was taken with the use of a filter. And while it is me, and indeed I do look something like this, what you don't see are the wrinkles, the gray in my hair, the deeply etched WTF lines that reside between my brows. And you cannot see my humanity, you can't see who I am. Personally, in order for that physical attraction go beyond just an appreciation of physical beauty, I have to have a sense of who someone is. Not the deep intimate knowledge, that takes years of communication and verbal exchange. But I need to know that we have some commonalities, share a common view of sexual pleasure. Nothing is more disappointing than going on a blind date with the hope of sexual communion and finding out that fucking a cactus sounds like a better idea, ya know?
Well, the natives are restless, calls for food have issued forth and I must go forth and tame the hunger demon.
Have an awesome Monday!

"Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
7/27/2017 8:46 am

I used to love sketching but alas my hands prevent me from doing so now (RA, AS and all the rest). Art was my best (and favourite) subject in school.
I'm new to your blog, which is surprising really as you've been here almost as long as I have
I'll be back!


wildnwanton replies on 7/27/2017 9:57 am:
Well welcome aboard. When I previously blogged here, this place was hopping and I wasn't too keen on getting caught up in some of the nastier fights that cropped up, so it was easy to miss me😜
I do hope you enjoy my witless meandering.

wd40w 71M
6966 posts
7/24/2017 8:31 pm

So far every drawing you've posted...Shows you have the "eye"...I stated it about your photography too...You have a gift...Do not deny it...That picture of you...Reminds me of Carolyn Jones...Remember her? "Tish...When you speak French!..."

"Illigitimi Non Carborundum Est" W.F. "Bull" Halsey wd40w


wildnwanton replies on 7/25/2017 4:38 am:
Omg, that's like the best compliment ever! Yes I know who Carolyn Jones is. When I was little the Adams family was a favorite show of mine. I still watch it once in awhile. Thank you dear!

CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
7/24/2017 6:49 pm

I like both the sketch and the photo, but I'm a simple guy, not given to over analyzing anything.

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wildnwanton replies on 7/25/2017 4:35 am:
Awww shucks, thank you!

lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
7/24/2017 3:11 pm

Nae need for modesty!!

Ye're a canny braw lassie McWild, that's my view of it anyways!


wildnwanton replies on 7/24/2017 4:07 pm:
Modesty...sounds like a great name for an all girls garage band!Thank you, Sir Lindo, yer a man among men.

lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
7/24/2017 2:13 pm

Fabulous sketch, fabulous photo!

It's all a part of you, so it all counts, no?


wildnwanton replies on 7/24/2017 2:36 pm:
Lindy! I could dust myself with Doritos and say I'm a member of the American Royal Family and it would count too!
I'll take credit for the sketch, I did that. That might have been an adequate representation of me in the photo twenty years ago, but these days I have more lines on my face than a Pennsylvania road map and more chins than a Chinese phone book.

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
7/24/2017 10:18 am

Did you know Martin Landau had a hobby of making fashion sketches on napkins and had a huge collection of some of the most colorful and beautiful ones done on movie and T V sets and at lunches.A modest man,he called them just doodles he would do just to pass time.

Using more than all the road!


wildnwanton replies on 7/24/2017 10:52 am:
Really? Lol, that's all mine are, just doodles that I do when I feel a need to be creative. Thank you🙂

wildnwanton 61F
19428 posts
7/24/2017 9:53 am

To needafwb13 and Maize 32. I have tried three times to respond with a thank you to your comments, but the comments won't go through?
So...thank you both.

"Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
7/24/2017 9:39 am

Very well put about images, and beauty. I personally like to see images with artistic aesthetics rather than they be purely sexual in nature.

Btw- love the selfie you took!

Thoughts from the Garden...


wildnwanton replies on 7/24/2017 9:48 am:
There is an allure to the mystery of what is hidden beneath a suit and tie or a gauzy dress that adds to enticement for me. (I totally love your blog, btw.)

Maize32 55M
1391 posts
7/24/2017 9:16 am

Stunning sketch - one that I'd definitely stop and appreciate at a gallery. Thank you for sharing your artistic talent.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
7/24/2017 9:02 am

Great sketch!

I can get drawn in by a photo.... provided it's an artistic one with some kind of story behind it that makes me want to ask.


wildnwanton replies on 7/24/2017 9:26 am:
Oh I can be attracted, but for me to commit to actually wanting to meet someone, there has to be more than the initial attraction, you know?

needafwb13 64M
128 posts
7/24/2017 8:58 am

Very nice


Freeonereturns 63F

7/24/2017 8:55 am

Very nice, you're talented.


wildnwanton replies on 7/24/2017 9:24 am:
I think my talent is mediocre at best. But, thank you!

benard69 66M/66F  

7/24/2017 8:52 am

Wonderful Classy sketch...Just the right touch of allure! Your not bad yourself.. Thanks for the views...


wildnwanton replies on 7/24/2017 9:20 am:
Thank you!

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