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Deja Vu?  

80sbaby71 52F
7366 posts
4/22/2012 7:36 am
Deja Vu?

Well I had a second date yesterday with the "Foreigner" nice guy. It was a nice simple date. Or so I thought....

He had sent me an email last week....

I don’t have any specific plans in mind yet but I wanted to get on your dance card so to speak before your time is spoken for. I’ve been looking at the different event calendars to see what’s happening in town on Saturday. We’ve got a roller derby match at the Farmer’s Public Market, The Wizard of Oz ballet at the Civic Center, and One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Next play also at the Civic Center evidently so there is quite a variety of things to choose from. Or we could hang out at my house and watch a movie if you like.

How sweet. I don't seem to "date" often. Seems like more of the "how quick can I try to get into you pants", "let me be your stalker" or just plain idiots. I don't try anymore. I have gotten tired of the talk. So he is a breath of fresh air.

So...we talked throughout the week on what we could do. I through out the idea of maybe doing something like taking a walk around the zoo... It is outside (supposed to be 70 degrees...ended up being 84), plenty of time to talk without being shushed or interrupted, and gives me a good chance to see him outside his "box" of proper I.T. mode.

So, Saturday arrives and I run around doing errands before heading to his place to drop off my car in the afternoon. He lives in a nice quiet gated community. I do a drive by...to quiet my nerves before turning in. Pull in and he is standing outside. We hug and then settle into his car to head to the Zoo. He had the thought of us going and seeing the sea lion show. Got to that area...only to find a long line. So we moved on. (I did see a friend and introduced them to each other) Walked around the zoo...talked...had some nice conversation. We actually stayed til closing. Now to decided on dinner.....

He decided (I don't offer up opinions or say where I want to go) that BBQ sounded good. It did! So off we headed to Bricktown. Well, not quite the best place to be. Seemed like quite a few things going on down there. So we decided to go to another location. After FINALLY finding the new entrance to the highway...we were on our way once more.

HERE IS WHERE THE DEJA VU COMES INTO PLAY!!!!!

Remember the last guy I went out on a second date with? The guy who fell in love? The one who slid a jewelers box across the table after dinner?

So we are finished with our dinner (just like the first time around) and he reaches his hands across the table for mine (oh crap here we go again) and takes my hands in his (Where the hell is the door????) and tells me he likes me..... I must have had a look of pure panic in my eyes...because it clicked with him. (He reads my blog...doesn't leave comments though ) Because he remembered the date....lol. We laughed over the "deja vu" moment and he suggested I blog on it.

So now back to his place to get car? Or extend the evening? Well we get back to his place and he offers to give me the grand tour. He is working on redoing the flower beds. So explained what each plant/flower he had planted. Then on to the house. Very nice (MONOCHROMATIC ) and spacious. Living room, small dining area, cute kitchen (LOVE the birds ), workout room (supposed to be the master bedroom), great master bath (who knew guys were into rose wallpaper ) and onto the upstairs.At the top is his "office" (great bookshelf taking up a whole wall with music and books I noticed) another bathroom (this one was seashoreish...more manly) and his bedroom. Back down the stairs....and then we discussed the view of his alcove at the top....I said it would be the perfect spot for a Christmas tree display...He said more of his "ruler" spot!

We sat on the couch and discussed what do to next. We scanned through the pay per view movies listing and finally decided on Crazy, Stupid Love (if you haven't seen this...it is a must! HILARIOUS). It was nice. Sat through the movie with both of us giggling.

As the night drew to an end, he once more let me know that he was interested. That he liked me. He walked me out to my car and made me promise to text him that I made it home safely (I know for a fact he doesn't text!!!).

It was nice.

Now to do some thinking...but that my friends is a whole different blog. (I have a feeling today will be a day of blogs...)

FYI-I DID NOT GET TO SEE THE GIRAFFES! Although as I was making myself "useful" telling him some behind the scenes info about the zoo....Like that we were hoping to get a bull elephant soon. We round the corner and lo and behold....we have a damn bull elephant I didn't know we had gotten!!!!!




PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
4/22/2012 9:12 pm

I'm so glad you had a good date!! That is awesome!!

Just curious, he is in IT but doesn't text? Most IT people can text laps around the normal person, LOL. He sounds cute and refreshing.

( please please God do not let him be a stalker or psycho )


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
4/23/2012 5:42 am

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    I'm so glad you had a good date!! That is awesome!!

    Just curious, he is in IT but doesn't text? Most IT people can text laps around the normal person, LOL. He sounds cute and refreshing.

    ( please please God do not let him be a stalker or psycho )
I know!!! He just doesn't text....


BusterTheMaster 71M
4709 posts
4/26/2012 9:36 pm

Ok. That's date two...

Buster The Master
Second star to the right and then straight ahead until morning...


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
4/27/2012 10:23 pm

Are you counting? Cuz who said that I write every time I have seen him?


BusterTheMaster 71M
4709 posts
5/1/2012 7:06 am

    Quoting 80sbaby71:
    Are you counting? Cuz who said that I write every time I have seen him?
Well, nobody said you did that. Just going by what I read here. You mean the famous "third date" has already happened!? So how was that?

Buster The Master
Second star to the right and then straight ahead until morning...


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/1/2012 4:28 pm

    Quoting BusterTheMaster:
    Well, nobody said you did that. Just going by what I read here. You mean the famous "third date" has already happened!? So how was that?
We've seen each other a few more times. Hanging out, casual... Went with him to get some plants for his flower bed. He feeds me (I don't cook much when mini me isn't home) and he has a very nice new 60 inch tv!


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