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Is It Your Fantasy? Or Is It Her's?  

canIgetsum71 52M
14 posts
5/22/2011 5:38 am

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12/6/2020 6:48 am
Is It Your Fantasy? Or Is It Her's?

Does she really want to do it? Or is he forcing her to?

This is a question that I ask myself - if your plan of action as a man - is to PURPOSELY get your wife/girlfriend "Drunk" ever time you plan to meet with me.

Don't get me wrong! There's nothing the matter with a drink or two - to make one feel "At ease," when first meeting each other. Hell! I usually have one or two myself to help break the ice.

But! If she needs to be in a altered state - sort to speak - it begs the question...is it just his fantasy?

I have no desire to take advantage of a woman who is completely out of it - while her other half maneuvers her with his desires-like a puppet on a string.

It also is a "Major" turn-off to me - when a man is forcing his other - half to participate in something that she has no desire to. I've come across it in the past - and have strayed away from it. Sorry! Not a fan of the saying, "Take one for the team."

It might be his one man team - but she will be taking one none the less.

This is something that is suppose to be shared. Between couples. Not forced upon one-half of it.

jennifer852008 40M/39F

12/21/2018 9:39 am

 My first BBC actually asked my husband to talk to me alone. He asked me if I was doing it for my husband or if I wanted it too. He said if I was doing it for my husband he wasn't interested.


canIgetsum71 52M
28 posts
8/12/2013 4:53 pm

 Well that's a good thing crackenup58. More couples should be that way.


canIgetsum71 52M
28 posts
11/11/2012 3:38 pm

 Not drunk to be with me??? That's good to hear. Love your profile


canIgetsum71 52M
28 posts
8/5/2011 3:15 pm

 Well written FLCpl4hung. I couldn't have said it any better.


canIgetsum71 52M
28 posts
5/26/2011 8:07 pm

 Share whatever your heart desires. Sometimes it's good to be a "little" selfish.


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