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Touch Lilith told me that her husband, Carl, was not a very touchy-feely person in bed. He likes sex, but he really just likes the act itself, and after he orgasms, he's done. He doesn't want to touch or be touched any more. It's one of the things she liked with me. I LOVE touching. Intercourse is just one part of sex. If I can be naked with a woman, her body is like a playground for my hands. I won't limit myself to the bikini parts. I'll touch her arms, her legs. I'll trace my fingers down her shoulders, all the way down to her fingertips. I'll run my hands up her hips, over her stomach, between her breasts, up her neck. I will touch her neck and her head, resting my hand on the side of her face. I LOVE to run my fingers through her hair, sometimes balling my hand into a fist and taking a firm grip of her hair. I'll move my lips over any skin that I can reach, sometimes kissing and sometimes just hovering over an area, letting her feel the body heat from my lips but not touching her. I take special care with the nipples, not pinching or hurting. Well, sometimes pinching and hurting. It depends. But with a woman with sensitive nipples, sometimes less is more. To touch around them - sometimes - to touch everywhere on her breast BUT her nipples - the teasing can be more intense than the direct contact. Cupping them is usually a good thing. And, when she is highly turned on and her nipples are hard, putting my palm directly over them can also be a nice sensation for her - the heat of my palm is felt distinctly in the nipple. I'll try different things, like running my hands down her thighs, and then back up again, but lightly raking my fingernails on her legs on the way up. Sometimes, especially with Andrea, I'll give her a nice little smack in a place and at a time when she least expects it. I'll continue to touch even after we've had sex, if she's up for it. It's never work. It's always an exchange of energy. I'm giving, but I'm getting too. All women are different, of course, and finding out what they like is part of the fun. It's important to listen, to take cues from how she reacts, from what she says. It's extremely important at the beginning of a sexual relationship to do this, but really, it never stops being important. I don't understand men like Carl. I know that he is, coincidentally or not, very unsatisfied with his sex life. I think men who don't touch are missing out. I think there is much more to sex than a hard<b> cock </font></b>and an orgasm. Indeed, those things are nice, but not even necessary. |
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Oh my YES...I just melt!! And a man that can play with my breats after sex when they are super sensitive will get a real treat. It is unfortunate most men are NOT like you. I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)
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