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1 post 7/25/2011 9:42 pm |
Have tried every approach on this site, have had no luck. I treat the women with respect, but its just a game for most. maybe a email or two and never hear from them again. I just don't know what I am doing wrong. Will try your advice and see what happens
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8/2/2011 9:00 pm |
Most of the girls that contact me have been fatal attraction types, you knoe like Psycho. Or they just want my email address or want me to open one with yahoo.
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8/9/2011 12:15 pm |
Looks like alot of good info. Thanks all.
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Nice!!!!
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Love the blogs
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2/1/2012 7:14 pm |
That is really good advice, but some do not read the information on blogs and magazines!!! I think that info should be emailed out to them when they join, so alot of stupid question are not asked on the magazine or advice line would be unnecessary!!! and their expectations that they just have too be there, and we would flock to them to get laid!!! and we should all want to fuc then!!! Have a great horny day LUV 
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I agree, very good advice! Unfortunately, reading seems to be a highly underused skill around here.
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Good advice in theory, but it doesn't really stand up to investigation. Most members simply do not hang around the blogs or groups. In the whole of UK there are about 20 active female bloggers - how do you share them out among 1.5 million men
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I have found the best thing that has worked for me is to talk to them (women) like they are PEOPLE...like, 'hello, I liked your profile when you said...' in other words, let them know you took the time to read what they wrote, and not like you just went crazy over their photos.. oh yes, correct grammar works pretty good also, you don't have to be an english teacher, just use words you can spell correctly.
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Very informative for a new member...
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I do read all the profile , I do go on a blog that has good sense not quite as often. I do have some email then after one or two ( same person ) discussion, they got boot out but that's good if they are fake, what about the real one. No luck at all. In real world, Outside the Internet, I got no problem approaching or asking ladies out, but you go through all the hassle. I hope this time, I will (confident). LOL. 
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"If you can show some interest in her other than cramming your cock down her throat, you've beaten out most every other guy on here." I imagine it also helps if you weren't stupid enough to join the site Fuck-a-Slut. Except she won't know if you did will she? She won't know if your intention is to fuck a slut. And maybe she should...
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1 post 7/16/2012 5:16 pm |
True Indeed
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8/6/2012 4:50 pm |
Good advice. Even though this site is for people looking for sex there must be good manners on how to approach members on the site. And I'm not only talking about guys for also women. For example, I have noticed that many guys and women have a cock or pussy picture as their main photo. Why is it so difficult not only for men but also for women to show a very nice picture of their face? If we want to find someone let's at least show a picture showing who we are. That way members from the opposite sex we'll see who we really are. P.S. I apologize for the language mistakes but English isn't my first language. I'm a Spanish speaker. handsomeboy2776
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11/9/2012 2:51 pm |
I am wondering what I am doing wrong. In the interest of full disclosure, I DO have a big problem approaching women in real life. I do however, email several members on here AFTER reading their profiles and determining they would be a good match. My messages are always honest, respectful, and friendly, and with proper grammar/spelling. I still NEVER manage to get anywhere. I am so frustrated and discouraged. My membership is ready to renew on December 2 (gold member) and I am not planning on renewing because of this. I don't have any clue what is wrong. I am being honest and am asking the same. Will someone (female) PLEASE, look at my profile and tell me HONESTLY, is there something wrong??? Thanks! Mike
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11/9/2012 5:17 pm |
I forgot to clarify, I never show a cock picture in my messages or profile, and I do not ask for any like pics from the women. I don't even mention sex in the message, I simply say "I would like to get to know you better" and ask about "chatting" and maybe "eventually meeting up". I would like someone's honest opinion and I promise I will not get mad or angry or offended, I just want to know what's wrong so I can fix it!
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ok, so, I slowly figured all this stuff out through trial and error and also reading about this topic in other blogs and my profile, pictures and approach have been altered over time to best comply with these principles while still communicating sincerely what I'm here for and what I'm about. In hindsight, it all kinda seems like common sense and I shouldn't have had to 'figure it out.' But there we have it...  Although now I'm seeing some results, it's really only people accepting friend invites but not actually responding to the msg sent. I've spoken to a few different couples and two of them turned out to be single guys posing as a couple. Some others that I've spoken to along the way have shown interest, but then have simply gone quiet, so I don't bother them further. One couple wanted to meet me, but on the day, something went wrong and they couldn't make it... I feel that I have to say here that I'm one of the minority that actually reads profiles and is not after a quick one off. I'm not the anonymous type, nor am I looking for the traditional romance, but simply open minded, uninhibited and interesting people, intimacy being a consequence of any connections... However, making contact with anyone on here sometimes seems like a fruitless feat. A thoroughly completed or even a short descriptive profile is not common to come by, whether single female or couple. I don't know if that's just a thing of Sydney or not. So it's really hard to tell if the person/couple you're interested in, ARE really in fact, the people you're looking for. And then no one really talks anyway, most likely because they already have a steady flow of msgs to screen. What I think the problem really is, apart from lazy no brainers who simply weren't taught manners or courtesy by their elders, is the sheer amount of fake profiles, frauds, humbugs etc that flood this site. Daily, I get lots of flirts from standard members with no pictures. Sometimes a gold member sends a msg asking me to contact them on another site or email address. Or there's been several instances where I've come across a profile with a description that I've already seen on other profiles with different pics. Now THIS shit is so much more common than a profile with a good description to go by or even with reliable pics. I'm sure this would be the cause of a lot of dubious members and ultimately preventing genuine and sincere people from connecting... To support this, I've seen it commented frequently on other profiles worldwide, that this site is NOT what it use to be... Unfortunately I think this nonsense is inevitable in all online forums or social networks. My 10c worth  Curious 1
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You really would think it would be this obvious but it certainly doesn't appear to be...
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1 post 1/11/2013 5:59 pm |
Pff this is how my flirt list looks like, its kinda pathetic. Im getting pretty good at spoting fakes, but myt intention here was not to fight off fakes/scammers. Don t get me wrong, I have met two nice young Ladies here with which I am still friends, but WTF is wrong with TSmeet.
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That's true.....it helps to find out as much as you can about a person before contacting them. Especially if you are REALLY interested in them....then it really isn't work.
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good advice let me try out my luck.............
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basically it sounds like researching someone
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3/31/2013 2:20 pm |
Ok another newbie question/observation.. Looks as though 90% of the profiles on here are couples looking for other couples to swing with and make new friends.. which is cool, but not much in here for a SINGLE guy looking for a woman to meet and hopefully connect with... Maybey they or me are on the wrong site? Not gonna make too many friends with this post but..wheres all the single women looking for something extra?
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1 post 4/13/2013 9:40 pm |
That all sounds good. But what about us cheap asses who are basic free members?
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5/9/2013 1:39 pm |
i cannot flirt either..
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