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FANCY AN ORGY?  

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/8/2017 12:43 pm

    Quoting pal334:
    Have you been to a sex or lifestyle club? Yes, there was one in Philadelphia that we frequented. It was friendly , well kept . A shame it closed. We can not find an alternative that we like.

    If not, would you be tempted to attend such a club? Anytime

    Should I tell my girlfriend that we’re going to a sex club for her and my birthday? I think it would be safer to tell her than take a chance at her wrath
There are sex clubs and there are sex clubs! A few are great because they're friendly and many are bad because they're just ways of making money out of men to hook up!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/8/2017 12:45 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Happy birthday to your girlfriend. Wow lots of planning in volved just to get the right gift. No I have not been but this place seems up have sparked my interest. Get your passport update as you might need it for the future. I think she will have a blast spunk. Great choice my friend hugs V
It turned out not to be the right gift! I got it quite wrong.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/8/2017 12:47 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I've never been to a sex club and at this late stage in life I don't think I would be bothered.

    It depends how your girlfrind is with surprises whether you tell her or not.....I hope you make the right decision.

I did tell my girlfriend of my sex club plans and she said no, so we didn't go. We still had a birthday blast!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/9/2017 1:21 am

    Quoting rachel0718:
    You are a great boyfriend for putting such thought into a wonderful gift for her. I would be up for it as you do have options to partake or not in the group activities. I may be doing something like that myself in the near future with some great friends. Enjoy and Happy Birthday to you both!
Unfortunately my efforts were in vain. My girlfriend didn't want to go the sex club. We still had great birthdays though!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/9/2017 1:23 am

    Quoting effer2910:
    Happy birthday to you and her. Hmmm you'll write a nice post after
Unfortunately there was no happy ending to my plans; my girlfriend didn't want to go sex clubbing!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/10/2017 12:48 pm

    Quoting wickedeasy:
    dear man, yes to the shopping and yes to telling her where you are going.

    while it might be a great surprise it might be a disaster. especially if she is thinking of a romantic getaway for two and ends up in a room with oodles of half naked people, some of whom may look better than her.......just a thought. we women are not keen on competition or wandering eyes.

    i have been to dungeons and played publicly. i found it stimulating but tbh, not nearly as stimulating as my Dom alone with me. shrugs. i did enjoy watching a shibari demo....at that point, i was ready to leave.
I did tell my girlfriend about my sex club plans and she didn't want to go. Lesson learned, don't get far ahead of oneself!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/10/2017 12:49 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    1. No.
    2. No.
    3 Yes.

    And phwooaarr! Ta for the sexy concrete porn McPunkster!!
I'm pleased to post concrete porn; you now have your wank material for a long time to come!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/10/2017 12:50 pm

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    You get two NO's and one YES from me!
I followed your advice and my girlfriend said no to the sex club. Fair play.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/10/2017 12:52 pm

    Quoting joisygirl:
    Have you been to a sex or lifestyle club? No I haven't Hugh.

    If not, would you be tempted to attend such a club? Yes and TicklePlease has mentioned taking me to one. I've had several firsts with her already, like having my first martini on my birthday... not the kind I've seen in tv shows circa the 1960s but a nice reddish and orangey colored blood orange and pomegranate one -- no olive.

    Should I tell my girlfriend that we’re going to a sex club for her and my birthday? That's a tough call Darling. You know her best I guess, if a man can REALLY know a woman, men usually don't really have a clue (in my experience anyways). I'd say tell or maybe ask her is she'd like a clue, maybe a note in a little gift box or tucked in a card. That way she can begin to prepare for it, but she may not need preparation since you've already been there. I would need a little preparation to get my head in the right place and even then I don't know if I could actually do it, but who knows...

    I've changed quite a lot since coming to this place and reading SexyTimes!
Despite my hamfisted plans, I actually don't like going to sex clubs. Private house parties are much better!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/10/2017 12:54 pm

    Quoting joisygirl:
    ask her IF she'd like a clue... darned typos!
I did give my girlfriend clues but in the end it was much easier to tell her of my sex club plans!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/10/2017 12:55 pm

    Quoting veryfunnycple64:
    I would love to attend an orgy....it's on my bucket list! I think you should tell your significant other about the plans so that she can mentally and physically plan for this debauch weekend!
I would love to attend an orgy, but my experience of sex clubs, is that orgies don't happen there. Private house parties are best for that!


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