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Where do we draw the line....Love....Hate  

Loreli_Sea_Wytch 59F
89 posts
1/8/2011 5:44 am
Where do we draw the line....Love....Hate


Love Hate

What is Love?
What is Hate?
Some say that the both are interwoven
That one cannot live without the two in our lives
Like positive and negative – Day night – good bad
How many crimes have been committed in the name of love?
How many cruelties and wars have been sparked by hatred?

In some science fiction shows they features beings who have
Learned how to take emotions all away
But those beings are always depicted as drab and almost lifeless
Sublimely reinforcing emotion is necessary for our psyche

I have watched as friendships have started, grown
Blossomed i into deep affection
Sadly I have also seen those same flourishing friendships
Turn to hatred
Our hearts cannot dictate who we do and do not love
So because one loved as a friend and one as a lover
Why does it turn to hatred?
Why do we need to hurt and belittle that friendship?
Because we do not get our way
Why does an act of love that hurt to carry out
Cause so much pain and bitterness

Why do men of such character and compassion
Suddenly turn into something that cannot be recognized
Why does the pain make us do stupid things?
Go with people who are not worthy

Why do we need to have someone even?
If they are second best?
Where did d we lose the ability to be happy
With ourselves; to spend time with ourselves

Sitting here looking at my life and those of friends
Around me, I become saddened….
Young couple meets and fall in love
Bring beautiful into the world that both love
But somewhere along the way their paths divided
The love was lost
The innocent are turned into a battlefield
Lies e are told truths twisted into something ugly
Hate, trauma and bitterness
Fill the void left love departs

A couple meets, and the man thinks
He has found a weak woman who will
And can be molded into his idea of what
The a perfect little wife is
Who will not realize he cannot love her
His love is for another man
But he is too scared of society to say so
They bring into the world
A world where there is constant
Belittlement, tears, coldness…
What heritage and emotional scars
Will those carry?

A man and a woman meet and fall in love
In the most unlikely places,
The love burns bright and beautiful
And then it is gone bunt out replaced with bitter
Ashes and pain neither admitting
They still care neither understanding
The others pain or the way
They try and cover up that pain

Why does love turn to disillusionment
Coldness cruelty and finally hatred

When we can answer that question
Maybe our world will have a chance
A chance to live in peace and harmony

I wonder if I will live to see it





slowpoke1 69M
405 posts
1/27/2011 11:46 pm

I think your initial thought that one cannot exist without the other is very correct. In fact, I think they may even be "symbiotic" in that many people seem to be able to express the most profound hatred for those that we care most deeply about. Conversely, we often don't give a shit if someone we don't know (or care about) insults or slights us in some way. Moods tend to determine how we will react, but it seems our reactions are more extreme when feelings run the deepest. The good side is that we are usually more generous, giving and devoted to those we care about the most.


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