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Rough Me Up  

im_soaking_wet 40F
4264 posts
5/18/2011 1:33 pm
Rough Me Up
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im_soaking_wet 40F
1024 posts
5/18/2011 9:00 pm

 I think it would be scary if I didnt know what's going on. Which is why my comment about having it happen is probably not realistic. I would need to trust someone enough to let them take control for something like that


Trya67 56M

5/19/2011 6:24 am

 Start slowly and trust is key . Safe words and safe person you know also are key . There is no reason why you can't find the right person for this . Just take your time and the effort will pay off down the road .


cute_n_nerdy 43F
Ask me for a photo
1478 posts
5/19/2011 3:18 pm

 I'll echo the trust and safe words - and if you can't verbalize, having a physical safeword, like holding up three words, is also a good plan (hey, sometimes it's hard to talk through a gag!)

I can always point you in the direction of the kinky scene in Calgary if you want - heck, I'm going to be down there end of this month for a workshop demo.


im_soaking_wet 40F
1024 posts
5/19/2011 4:08 pm

 ^ Ya, I agree with the safe words. I think my problem is the control factor. (Shocking, I know...lol). I can't envision myself giving up enough control to allow someone else to be rough with me.

When are you down here? Im in middle of nowhere Ab May 28-31, drive all the way home on the 31 and fly to Europe on the 1st


im_soaking_wet 40F
1024 posts
5/22/2011 9:06 am

 @ Blue... remind me before I leave and I will do it


im_soaking_wet 40F
1024 posts
5/22/2011 9:08 am

 @ Midlife... yes, which is exactly the issue. I don't trust people at all. It takes a very long time before I trust people enough to even give them a phone number, let alone tie me up. Which is exactly why this is an almost impossible thing.

However, I do agree with your points.


im_soaking_wet 40F
1024 posts
5/22/2011 9:55 am

 @ Midlife.. I will keep that in mind Thanks


im_soaking_wet 40F
1024 posts
5/22/2011 1:09 pm

 @ blue, I'm sure you already owe me lol


juice965 59M
810 posts
6/14/2011 2:38 pm

 People find me very kind and caring and true I am like that but between the sheets its just me to take control it always happens and women tell me how free I make them feel in bed but also trust me very quickly and easily something I do find not right at all. No you should never ever trust anyone so easy no way! And everytime I ask myself how can this woman trust me so easily...I would never allow anyone to tie me up I just cannot take that but on the other hand they let me do it to them.


im_soaking_wet 40F
1024 posts
6/14/2011 3:31 pm

 @ Juice.. I agree


juice965 59M
810 posts
6/15/2011 6:10 am

 Hey YOU...I am not here for you to agree I am here to check your panties if they are soaking wet when suppose mummy adviced you to keep em dry...Sweetie do you really need a check up from my fingers and if they ever find you wet then what treatment shall we give you


hunterpt 62M
13507 posts
11/20/2015 3:45 am

 No women asked me to be rough with her. Kisses


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