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I Don't Make the First Move
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you always strike me as somewhat switchy - very fluid. I prefer that someone take control - I will almost *never* make the first move. I do like to tease and push buttons til someone loses control though, once we're involved - so I've been known to send naughty texts all day long and get my ass beat at the end of the day 
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7/28/2011 6:41 pm |
Depends... like you say. in any given situation it's different... there is the language - talking - there is the body language - smiles, hair playing, blushing - and there is the mind connection/comfortablity level of both. This always depends on the subject matter at hand also... Communication takes practice... just like anything. The more you know the more you can do with it. I I walk up and say "hey, wanna fuck?" and it breaks the ice then... I guess we'll have a pretty good conversation! lol! If it freezes things up, then at least THAT part is out of the way lol! It kind of depends on what I'm after whether or not I will take charge or not. It depends on a lot of things at the moment that really can't be translated into this kind of context... Did we email first? did I meet you in the grocery line? Am I hitting on you while you are at your job? Those things factor in too... [post 2856614] This is the really small writing... in bold how 'bout RAINBOW colors?
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How about you? Do you prefer to control your sexual adventures, or have someone do it for you? 85% of Door #1, 10% of Door #2
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7/29/2011 8:03 am |
I'm the same way. The initial first move I like the guy to make but I do make it obvious that I'm interested (flirting, eye contact, touching the guy a bit etc). And once he makes the move I will reciprocate. But once the first encounter has occurred and it's been decided that we will continue a fwb sort of deal I will definitely make the first move in regards to getting together. I enjoy sexting and have no issues being the one to ask for a little get together for a fuck session. When I'm feeling frisking I will text my fwb's to see which one is available to meet up with me and of course I hope that the guy would do the same. Overall I like guys who know how to take charge and assert themselves. If you want me then take me.
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@ Sw.. you sound similar to me.. @ Just... you are the type to flirt like crazy? That makes sense @ Cute.. Switchy?? Huh?? Explain please  And yes, I've done the same.. lol@ Horny.. True, but there should be some commonality to it... right? @ Skin.. and the other 5%? @ Rod.. but you start it? Even with just a casual comment @ Latina... you ARE baby soaks... lol
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Other 5?%? Drunk
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PS: I can see your pussy. Just Sayin'  Yummmmmmy
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7/30/2011 1:01 am |
@ Sw.. you sound similar to me.. @ Just... you are the type to flirt like crazy? That makes sense @ Cute.. Switchy?? Huh?? Explain please And yes, I've done the same.. lol@ Horny.. True, but there should be some commonality to it... right? @ Skin.. and the other 5%? @ Rod.. but you start it? Even with just a casual comment @ Latina... you ARE baby soaks... lol BUT... you are asking for generalities.... And really any question where you are asking a personal opinion from commenters HAS to include said person's entire experiences around Said situations... Twenty years ago, I would have said I will let her make the first move and take control so she feels empowered and in a place where she SHOULD feel more comfortable. Ten years ago I would have said I MAKE WOULD TAKE CONTROL... because most women are uncomfortable with being in a position of control.... Now, after what I have learned.... NO. It HAS to be taken into context.... It HAS to be played out according to each person, in each situation, with all the factors factored in. Because every person I a PERSON unto their own, and each person has their own... way... of doing things. Everyone has their own WAY of communicating their needs and desires. I can sit here and say that 10% of people will do one thing this way... 75% will do it that way if you do this, and then another 10% will do this thing... and there are always 5% who are always this way.... Where does this get us at the end of the day? Nowhere.... At the end of the day, you still have to walk into a situation with the experiences you have and READ that situation.... nobody is going to be holding your hand through it.... All there is... is just you and how the moment plays itself out. The commonality to it all is that each of us are put in that situation EVERY SINGLE TIME, and each situation has to be played out according to how we interact with the person we are interacting with. Generally speaking though... I beat the bushes to find out what's in the bush.... lol! hahahahahahahahaha! It gets things rolling.....  [post 2856614] This is the really small writing... in bold how 'bout RAINBOW colors?
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Switchy - you're comfortable on top or bottom, as at ease taking control or yielding. You can't be pinned down because you're equally adept at either. You have a preference, but it doesn't hold you to a particular style of behaviour.
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@ Skin.. you can??? Where?? Shes sleeping upstairs on the ledge! lol @ Silo... Not a bad thing! lol @ Horny... lol I thought I heard a rustling in the trees last nite! lol @ Cute.. Okkkk that makes sense!! Switch. Totally agree with you!! 
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I´m mostly like you, most of the times i only make a move if situation is comfortable for me. Kisses
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