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Are my Morals Fucked?
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Tacky to say the least. All you can hope is karma comes around and bites her on the arse at some stage.
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It is a slippery slope for both you and her. Based on your age I am guessing they are in their 50's?? If so they are young and have a long life to live and SHARE. I can only hope she didn't jump in to fast and she isn't after money, or to be a wedge between him and you and your siblings. I've seen this play out in a positive way only once or twice and in a negative way a few times also.. If she has had this family relationship as long and strong as you lay out, I would think you could have a heart to heart with her at some point and get a better feel for her intentions?? But be careful...
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Tough situation. Would I approve of it? No, probably not. It would seem to me like a betrayal of my mother's trust. I would have to put myself in the shoes of your dad, and try to imagine how much he's lost, and how heartbroken he is. In that case, if enough time has passed, I could see anyone trying to make him happy as a positive, and let him follow his own judgement on where things go with her. He may have similar issues with doing anything with her as you do. I'm assuming your parents were in love and it was a good marriage. But as I recall it has not been all that long? if it hasn't then its rather crude of her. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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Tacky to say the least. All you can hope is karma comes around and bites her on the arse at some stage.
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Yeah, this can go both ways, but mostly the way you are suggesting that there should be morals and ethics played into the situation. Wonder why she has to go for your dad when there are many men out there, has she been waiting for an opportunity to get together with him? So many questions and who knows what she might be thinking, good or bad. I agree with you, try the best you can to find him a wonderful woman who suits you and him both.  it's pretty cold....
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You are placing the Blame on her but was it Initiated by your father? I see not reason why he should have to avoid her friends after she died. I don't care who dates anyone I have been with when I die. Life goes on a piece of your mother is with That lady maybe that is why he is choosing her. Anyway what is important is your Dads Happiness.
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It's been less than a year....
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You say it's wrong but don't give me a reason other than its not my concern. If you're going to debate a topic, please give me more information. Unfortunately it is my concern when she is using me, my social media and unfortunate situations in our families lives - to better the intended relationship with him. Again, there's a significant amount of events that she's created that are inappropriate to say the least.
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It is a slippery slope for both you and her. Based on your age I am guessing they are in their 50's?? If so they are young and have a long life to live and SHARE. I can only hope she didn't jump in to fast and she isn't after money, or to be a wedge between him and you and your siblings. I've seen this play out in a positive way only once or twice and in a negative way a few times also.. If she has had this family relationship as long and strong as you lay out, I would think you could have a heart to heart with her at some point and get a better feel for her intentions?? But be careful... So you're rigut, it's a slippery slope
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Tough situation. Would I approve of it? No, probably not. It would seem to me like a betrayal of my mother's trust. I would have to put myself in the shoes of your dad, and try to imagine how much he's lost, and how heartbroken he is. In that case, if enough time has passed, I could see anyone trying to make him happy as a positive, and let him follow his own judgement on where things go with her. He may have similar issues with doing anything with her as you do. I'm assuming your parents were in love and it was a good marriage. But as I recall it has not been all that long? if it hasn't then its rather crude of her. But you are right, it has been less than a year. It's a little crude
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Lol you're right. Her and I had a conversation about who of her friends would make him happy and who she would be ok with. This woman, was not one of them 
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When my aunt died her kids all encouraged their dad to get back out there. None of them liked the lady he ended up with. Not because she was an old friend of the family (she was), but because it wasn't their mom. Rationally, it makes sense and my cousins don't want their dad alone. For their lives though it was always their mom and dad so seeing someone, anyone, touching their dad the way that their mom did felt wrong. I can't speak to your morals, but I do understand where you're coming from
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Lol you're right. Her and I had a conversation about who of her friends would make him happy and who she would be ok with. This woman, was not one of them Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women Things i miss most about relationships
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AWESOME...
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You are right to protect him if he is unhappy with advances from her. But he should chose. Every sound source I find says men that have had a good relationship and like companionship will and should seek it again. We are the weaker sex. Quite often who the spouse would chose is not what the Husbands wants or needs. Don't be angry with Dad for not wanting to be alone. Be happy someone wants him
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There are some lines you just don't cross. I would find it disrespectful to your mother, so yes I think you are right.
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Your mom's 'friend' is a cunt and needs to be informed of that fact. IMO.
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Though situation, but i think you have a point there. Kisses
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