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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

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thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
11/9/2014 11:03 am
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hello, hope this finds you well.

I have had a couple of references the last couple of days from two different men about things in my profile.

the first is my long term goal of being in a relationship. it seems some or many of you men see that and go, like ooooooooh she wants to get serious. I realize every man is not the one. if we do meet, that's all it is. a meet n greet. you cannot tell from that one meeting that this person is not the one, come on guys. I can just date you if I choose too.

That brings me to the other point brought up to me. The point that I will date more than one man at a time. It seems you men have issue with a woman seeing more than one man at a time, when you are doing the same, are attached or married. So, I am supposed to make you exclusive in my life when you are not in mine. If you want to be my sugar daddy, I can be exclusive in your life, but I have not been offered that yet. .

Wow, all I can say is if you choose not to meet me because I have a stated long term goal, but am willing to be fwb, fuck buddies, or whatever until I do meet that person, it is your loss. with you being not happy because I will date more than one. So, basically, I am screwed in more than ways than one.

I feel that both men and women should be able to state their goals, wants, etc. Until that goal is fulfilled, we can see who we want to, even if it is more than one guy. Unless a man is willing to commit to a long term relationship, and be a part of my life that way, he has no say over what I do.

I wish you luck in what you are searching for here...........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
rm_Mrsexy_bgm19 33M
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35 posts
11/9/2014 11:20 am

 yes


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
11/9/2014 11:32 am
    Quoting  :
Moxie, I appreciate the comments, and I will say, and they do leave or never get started. and that sucks, because the majority of my lovers and/or men I have been in relationships in would love to come back, go figure. I know I am a fun awesome and loyal person to date......thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
11/9/2014 11:32 am

 you are way too young..........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
11/9/2014 11:53 am

 I never did figure why one is not supposed to date others when in a "getting to know you dating mode". Remember the song "Runaround Sue" ? Always thought she was being pretty smart.
If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
11/9/2014 12:15 pm
    Quoting justskin1:
    I never did figure why one is not supposed to date others when in a "getting to know you dating mode". Remember the song "Runaround Sue" ? Always thought she was being pretty smart.
btw, I looked at your profile. I like it. anyway, it seems to be an issue with many men, and I don't know why. maybe I will ask next time.........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
11/9/2014 2:19 pm
    Quoting mcmaniac:
    No double standards, well said.
thanks, I always enjoy hearing from you..........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
11/9/2014 2:26 pm
    Quoting sunnygirl129:
    I'm very upfront, both in person and in spelling things out very well in my profile, about not being monogamous. I've never had a man take issue with it.
I have had some that take issue with it. I only blogged about it today because I had a guy ask if we ended up in a relationship if I would give up the other people I was seeing. Of course I would.......thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


d0gdaize 67M
375 posts
11/9/2014 7:37 pm

 There shouldn't be 2 sets of standards. It's that simple. Be upfront, be honest and see where it goes.


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
11/9/2014 8:08 pm
    Quoting d0gdaize:
    There shouldn't be 2 sets of standards. It's that simple. Be upfront, be honest and see where it goes.
I agree..............thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
11/10/2014 5:52 am
    Quoting eXstatix513:
    are you still in ccincinnati/florence?
no that was last week........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


HDSoftail20067 57M  
251 posts
11/10/2014 9:26 am

 Everyone male and female should be treated as an equal, and let the communication and desires dictate the direction. Some are in the lifestyle and some are not, I always appreciate honest frank upfront conversation prior to meeting so there is no miscommunication.


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
11/10/2014 10:23 am
    Quoting HDSoftail20067:
    Everyone male and female should be treated as an equal, and let the communication and desires dictate the direction. Some are in the lifestyle and some are not, I always appreciate honest frank upfront conversation prior to meeting so there is no miscommunication.
I am a person that prefers face to face communication. when I am interested in someone I go straight to the phone and a meet n greet. It takes the meet n greet to solidify anything. a pic and words on paper only get the interest. besides you can tell more about a person's honesty when looking them in the face, and then there are those that are so good, you don't catch their dishonesty at first, but it usually comes out in the end............thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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