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So What Do You Consider "Big", Anyway?
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So What Do You Consider "Big", Anyway? Hello, Blogland. I know I don't have many readers, but I also know most of those readers are female. I like that. What heterosexual guy doesn't love a lot of female attention?  So I'd like a general consensus on something here, and I need the female perspective on it. I suppose the gay-male perspective might also be helpful, since the topic DOES include you.I've been reading through tons of female profiles lately, in my ongoing search for a regular FWB, and I've been coming across something that is common, but a little vague. Some of the women on here are looking for what they refer to as "Big Dicks." Now, I'm not asking what that means... I have one, I know what they are. But my question is this: since in these cases, size matters... what size are you looking for, exactly?I ask this because I've chatted with a few women on here before, and at some point in the conversation, penis size always comes up. Okay, it might have been me initiating the conversation sometimes (hey, when one of your better qualities is a decently-sized cock, you tend to want to make it known), but many times it's the woman who asks me about it. And I've gotten a lot of answers to the question, "What do you consider big?" I once had a very sexy conversation with one lovely lady on here about that very thing. She told me she liked, in her words, REALLY big cocks! Well, I may be large, but I don't think I'd qualify as REALLY big, so I told her as much. She asked me how big I was, and I told her. Her reply was in all caps and with plenty of exclamation points: "Wow! That sounds pretty damn big to me!" On the other end of that spectrum, I chatted with another woman who also said she loved really big cocks, and when she asked me about mine and I told her, her response was: "Oh, is that all? You're not quite what I'm looking for," and shut down the chat. In actual sexual encounters, I've had many women tell me I'm the biggest they've ever had, and only one tell me I was small compared to her regular lovers. Most tell me I'm pretty darn big. Being a guy, I love this response. Now this brings me around to the crux of my topic. Many women on here say they're looking for huge cock, but they don't define what that means. If, to some women, I'm the biggest cock they've ever seen, then I qualify... to other women, I'm Tiny Tim and I don't qualify. So how can we guys, who are attempting to woo you ladies, know if we are what you're looking for, or if we're just wasting our time and yours? So... the question on the table is: what do you consider to be the range when it comes to Big Dicks? If you could create the Periodic Table of Cock Size, where would you draw the line at Big? I know different women have different tastes, but that's why I'd like to hear from everyone. When does a cock go from "Average" to "Large", in your opinion? Please feel free to be specific. I think this would help bridge a few gaps in communication here, or at least one gap, anyway. .  Your Friendly Neighborhood King of the Jungle, The Lion. READ THIS! ------>>>lionthatroared I DARE you to read my blog and attempt to be unchanged by sheer, utter AWESOMENESS!!! It's like Kung-Fu Panda fighting Super Models with heavy metal music pumping in the background... hyped up on Rockstar energy drinks! And... whipped cream with chocolate sprinkles! And... laser-guided sex toys are probably involved! And... and... oh, I know... I'm pretty sure Chuck Norris roundhouse-kicked it at some point! |
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Didn't you get the memo size doesn't really matter.. it is how you use it. You can't change the person on size so why bother .. use it was you dream of ! hugs kisses V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Oh dear!! I am also one that enjoys girth more than length. I also am one of those that did not have a child natural so for a bigger guy I am still a pretty tight fit and sex can be painful. 7 to 8 inches is plenty for me. I have been with a guy that was almost 9. It was painful and he had to be extremely careful not to hurt me. I dated a guy who was 13. I measured it and I refused to have sex with him. There was no way in hell. Now if I was going to have anal sex I would prefer smaller. Although my first anal experience was with "someone" who was very blessed. lol
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When researchers look at cock size the one thing they agree on is that people are lousy at estimating it and generally go way over. The Average cock it between 5.5 and 6.5 inches and might giant about a .5 inch when it's hard. A few men have microphallus and a few sport 10+ inches but there are all sorts of ways to cheat to make a cock look bigger in a picture or in person. When you think that a woman can pass a baby's head and some can take a frigging fist, the vagina is an amazing elastic organ (although it loses some of that post menopause. Too small? I can't feel it. Too big? It hurts. Here's another factor that people don't consider. It's not just the size of the organ, it's also the shape and the curve of the cock that help to determine that determine who well a couple may fit together 
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I'd like to respond to some of these comments here. While that's true for many women that size doesn't matter, some women only want huge cocks on here. That's a fact, not a supposition. I'd be happy to provide links to all the profiles of ladies that I've found that were quite specific about only wanting big dicks... hell, there are profile NAMES that say things like Bigdicksonly or BBC4ME or HungGuysOnly... but I think that's a violation of blog policy, and besides, I'd be here for weeks. It's a LOT of women. That's why I was hoping for genuine numbers from the ladies. Sadly, I don't seem to have gotten many... most of the comments seem to revolve around telling me it's no big deal, when I've made it apparent that it IS a big deal to many women. Thank you to those who gave me real numbers. And thank you for all the comments, it looks like I hit a hot-button topic for once. . Your Friendly Neighborhood King of the Jungle, The Lion. READ THIS! ------>>>lionthatroared I DARE you to read my blog and attempt to be unchanged by sheer, utter AWESOMENESS!!! It's like Kung-Fu Panda fighting Super Models with heavy metal music pumping in the background... hyped up on Rockstar energy drinks! And... whipped cream with chocolate sprinkles! And... laser-guided sex toys are probably involved! And... and... oh, I know... I'm pretty sure Chuck Norris roundhouse-kicked it at some point!
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I don't consider myself big or large, I consider myself average as it's what I've had all my life and am use to. I'm 8"-8 1/2".
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Sounds like you're used to guys who are "show-ers" not "growers" when it comes to their junk. I've been around the block enough that I've had plenty of showers and growers . The experts say an avg of about 1/2 inch but I don't know what they high and low points are, That numbers includes both the showers and growers. Now I want to try to dig up the article but IIRC, what it came down to was people are pretty lousy and guestimating penis size, their own or someone elses. People are also lousy as measuring them accurately. Speaking for myself as a woman, I don't worry about cock size because either it fits or it doesn't. And the few times I got arm twisted into measuring it, the guy was not happen. I'm going to bet that most women don't give you a number because they only come in two sizes: the right size or the wrong size. But it is cute how concerned men get about it (General note to men, measuring your dick from underneath is cheating. The most accurate measure is the top or the side )
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Didn't you get the memo size doesn't really matter.. it is how you use it. You can't change the person on size so why bother .. use it was you dream of ! hugs kisses V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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closest I can see , Donkey dick i guess
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