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Things that make you go hmmmmm  

bedrmeyesforu 60F
0 posts
3/22/2015 6:59 am

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Things that make you go hmmmmm


Ok so I have been on the site for a few years now & two things that never seem to change are people useing fake pictures or pictures that are more then a few years old & people putting single or separated when they are not. Why use fake or old pics from years & years ago? Unless you have no intention of ever meeting the people you are chatting with. Why put you are single when you are not? Single means u are not married or attached. Separated means just that you no longer live in the marital home and are most likely waiting for the final papers. It does not mean you still live with your spouse and in your opinion are leading different lives just because you are not having sex if your spouse don't know you are on this site & meeting people you are a cheater I know this because I am one. Now I have my own reasons why & many won't agree with what I am doing but at least I am up front on my profile & for those that can't read my profile I always make that clear. So what's your option or thoughts?

bedrmeyesforu 60F

3/22/2015 7:24 am

Saw guy & as long as you r honest about that.


gardenguy1119 70M
134 posts
3/22/2015 8:06 am

Bed, I agree with you. Seems like there's a lot of fakes, just curious types, and members who say they're ready to meet new people but really aren't. I'm straight, and really only interested in meeting women. It bugs me when a profile is posted by a woman, but when I read her profile it's clear that she is part of a couple and doesn't play without her hubby. Why not cut the crap, save everyone a lot of trouble, and list yourself as a couple? I know, both partners often have their own profiles, but still, it bothers me when I have to open a profile to figure this out. I don't read men's profiles, but I'm sure the deception is just as bad if not worse.

Like saw guy I really don't have many photos of myself. The oldest ones in my profile are three years old, but in my defense, I haven't changed much. By the way, your current photo is just as enticing as the first one you posted several years ago.


bedrmeyesforu replies on 3/22/2015 1:37 pm:
Gardenguy thanks my current photo I took last night. I don't expect everyone's pic to be taken daily. But within the last 3 years or so would be good not 10 or 15 years ago.

Hidingmyfun62 62M
30 posts
4/14/2015 12:42 pm

I agree. I am married and my wife is clueless. My profile states that I am attached. Everybody has their reason(s) for cheating. I don't see the purpose of lying about anything if you are truly interested in meeting somebody. I am looking for a married woman for various reasons but first and foremost, it keeps the playing field even. Both men and women play games about pics, martial status, desires... etc. It's a shame but even with that said, I feel somebody seriously looking for what they want are more likely to find it on this site as opposed to going to the bar. I have found a few long term affairs on this site since the mid 1990's so it is possible. Just a lot of unnecessary bull shit to get there......


photon46 76M
339 posts
4/23/2015 9:57 am

Used to tell my daughter, never tell a lie that will not last a week. It does amaze me that people think they are somehow getting away with something. That being said, lots of things on here amaze me.

Chuck


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
4/28/2015 5:49 pm

First person I ever met off here, used a picture of someone else. When we met she was the opposite of what she passed herself off as. When I found out that this was a lie, I left. She followed me out to my car begging me not to go. I left for home. For anyone that is trying to meet on here why would you use an ancient picture or even some one else? When you meet that person do you not want to scream LIAR!


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