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Living a Fantasy
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Living a Fantasy If you read our blog on a regular basis, you are well aware P and I can and do talk about everything. One topic we have hit upon is the "Ultimate Fantasy". P has said she really doesn't have one, and as we journey farther into the lifestyle she is discovering more. Me? Darn right I have one! Mine is a very simple, yet complex one at the same time - at least I think so! I fantasize about having my own harem - a group of women of different shapes sizes and all willing to do whatever desire I have. I can hear the laughter now. That is every guy's fantasy! And, to be honest, I never said I was creative! Then, I realized it wasn't just about the women, but a fantasy of control. That is where the complexity comes it! P and I have a pretty equal relationship. She is highly intelligent, and very respected in her profession. I don't say that because it is what I think, but what her colleagues have said. When we were first married, she was more docile, but over the years has become much more assertive and confident. Very hot combo to me! We share a lot of the domestic duties based on who likes to do/can tolerate what, and make all major decisions together. But when it comes to our sex life, she is still somewhat of a follower versus the leader, which is why we click so well. Both of us are in high visibility high pressure professions, and both are considered 'successful'. Not saying that to brag, it is just how we are. Which leads to my fantasy of having women (actually people) do as I would like. It took me a while to realize both of our encounters have gone in that direction: in the first P completely allowed me to take control and our friend followed my directions almost perfectly. When we headed into a ffm, the girls both looked to me to provide the 'direction' of how I wanted things to go, and both were willing (to a certain point - P has some limits here) to do as I wanted. So, it would seem I have had a portion of my fantasy already! And, being me, I certainly agree! So now I would like to work on another part of my control fantasy, one which P is hesitant to agree to. I would like a weekend where she can't say the word 'No'. Now there would be limits in place, she would never be placed at risk and dos on, but she laughs, says she knows how my mind works, and she isn't quite certain she is ready for what I may come up with! She may be right to a point. One of my biggest turn-ons is seeing how many times I can make P orgasm, and from how many different ways. We once spent some serious time in bed, and she called a 'time out' after a while. She said she couldn't take anymore, and those are some of my favorite words to hear~! She knows if she is at my whim, she will be exhausted. While she agrees this isn't a 'bad thing', she has also said after a while she 'needs a break'. I did catch her by surprise when I offered her the opportunity to have me not able to say 'No' for a weekend. She really laughed hard, and said if she even mentions something she would like to try she gets it, so what's the point? She then got an evil smile and said something about 'housework'...... She did ask about what I might have her do over a weekend, and when I gave her some possibilities, she just smiled and said "hmmmmmmmm" She has mentioned many times hearing about what others have for fantasies is a turn on for her. Anyone care to share???? |
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Careful what you ask for, lol. I saw a survey back some years ago and one a highly ranked turn on for women, was men doing housework.
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