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My great SEX experiment
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My great SEX experiment I watched a you tube video two days ago that answered a great many baffling questions I have had over the past year. The video is titled... the great porn experiment now I should note that I only clicked on the link so that I could see some experimental porn, that is not what I found, instead I found the answers to some frustrating issues that I have been dealing with over the last five years and it was like the heavens opened up and and said “see you are not broken.” More than just my questions I think it also speaks to why: there is a huge uptrend in swinging, traditional relationships don’t work anymore, there are so many women complaining that they cant get enough sex, and why so many men are going outside of their own relationship to find stimulation. So for me it showed why most every man I have met in the past few years had a problem with intercourse. Yes they say they are attracted and they say they want sex but usually we end up with a whole lot of foreplay and then a flaccid phallic. Its not just the older men its the whole range of men. There are very few men that have been able to preform in a basic one on one sex setting. Now when I take it “public” and don’t want to know anything about said opposite except “is that condom on tight” then it seems that I can have a whole line of men ready and willing to pound. Even in that setting if the “action” lasts more than three minuets we seem to have to have a “reset” or some additional stimulation to get it going again. For a long time I just thought that comfort or no, my body chemistry was killing erections. So I went through the list: perhaps I am not tight enough, but men told me that was not the case. Perhaps I was not attractive enough, again people said no you are plenty attractive. Perhaps we are just not comfortable enough, hummm, nope as frequency occurs problems compound. More lube, less lube, more light, less light, more fluff, less fluff, nothing seemed to help. I also started to notice a trend with other women, I was not the only one jonesing for a hard dick. I was also not the only women crying out for sex on a regular basis. I started to wonder where were all the men that could not get enough? That man seems to have become an urban myth. Even when I would meet a man that said he had a great sex drive and the sex was good he only needed or wanted it once in a while (about once a month was enough). So I devised a plan to find at least 12 different FWBs in billings so that I would have enough ready partners to get my needs met. Well it turns out that while there are a great many men on TSmeet there are not all that many men who are able to preform as well as their reputations would let them think. So what gives, if we factor all that in, why are guys having a hard time with sexual performance these days? Enter the great porn experiment. I am not publishing my take and my findings (answers) from my viewing of this video because I think that everyone has the right to make their own decisions but I will say one of my first questions when meeting new potential fwbs will be ? Do you watch internet porn? I should also note that I have been quite the connoisseur of internet porn and will probably continue, and I will never take away the choices of another person nor judge the choices they make. Knowing does make a difference and I am discovering that “knowledge is power!”  Lets Create together. http://TSmeet.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J |
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Interesting... I seem to have the other end of the spectrum. I get hard and even after I cum, I don't get soft. I just stay hard. If there is no stimulus, I will eventually loose my erection. But usually when I'm with a woman that's not the case. \8 Save a horse, ride a cowboy!!
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When I was married, I drove the wife crazy by me wanting sex. I still want a woman and have sex but not as much. That's what drives me crazy.  For both sexes, talk is always cheap. oh, thanks for the large text.   Cum to my blog and respond.  Have a great kissing fun time. 
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Well me personally, i've never felt porn has affected me negatively.. Sure i've caught the whiskeydick with a new lover on occasion, thats easily due to nerves.. new person and all.. And also i've narrowed it down to it happening to me when i meet people impulsively whom i barely know or established any type of connection with.. So yeah i could never blame my porn obsession and also, because its been happening to me since the very night i lost my virginity long before i was heavily into porn and also a few years before i even knew what internet porn was.. Its always the ones i meet in haste.. But even so, most of the time when that does happen, it passes.. I always do other things to bring my lover stimulation until finally, i work again yay!! Its all a matter of that particular lovers patience for my cock if its meditating hehe And once that first time is out of the way, its usually all downhill after that, for me anyway  Well again, its not everytime but it has happend on occasion with a new lover.. And in the end, many things play a factor in erectile dysfuntioning.. Too much sugar can bring on whiskeydick.. any stimulant really nicotine caffeine alchohol, hell even a poor diet or a somewhat full bladder, all that stuff can bring it on. among other things and i dont doubt porn addiction to be one of them.. but in my occasional cases, no way not the culprit for me, im 100% positive 
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In reply to your first question... once in a while, but not that often. Question 2- no, but I have been there a couple of times... maybe I should let you know the next time I get up there!! Save a horse, ride a cowboy!!
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I found an interesting site that covers a lot of this and more... http://TSmeet.com
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