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1001 Ways to Waste Time  

MarineJedi67 56M
1 posts
7/16/2014 3:31 am
1001 Ways to Waste Time


I thought we were all adults, afterall, the first letter in TSmeet is Adult. Yet, it never ceases to amaze me about the childish actions of some.

I have commented many times before about the flow of communication. Recently, I attempted to start talking to a woman that seem to have some potential. It took many, many weeks to get beyond an occasional hello, but we started talking... Of sorts!!!

Rather than move to some form of communication that was normal, she wanted to talk through a phone app called kik. Now I don't have a problem doing that for awhile, but at some period of time, it would be nice to move normal forms of communications. Her excuse was that she didn't feel comfortable giving out her number.

So, because I have nothing better to do, I am suppose to sit my tablet and wait for an occasional chat. With all the hit and miss, I thought we could move forward, but she continued to want to stay typing through the app.

So one day out of the blue she randomly tells me that she wants to go to dinner and was somewhat put off when I wasn't breaking my neck to comply. She quickly told me later that she "found" someone else to take her out.

Last week, randomly, she tell me that she is ready to go have dinner. I tell her to switch to your kik app to tell me direction. It took her nearly a hour to respond and by that time I was having a haircut. I get back to her 30 minutes later... More then enough time to tell me that she "found" some else to take her out.

I don't mind a flake, but if you are going to be a flake, be a good flake. Since then she has found several people that she is going to pursue a relationship with. Get the fuck of here!!! Why waste anyone time...

It takes more than showing tit and puss shots to really motivate a person. It would be nice if I could find some real adults that say what the mean and mean what they say. More importantly, grow up, get out of high school mentality and grow the fuck up and be an ADULT!

Oceana1969 58F  
442 posts
8/8/2014 8:18 am

First of all, that lady gave you much time and many forms of communication to reach her at...including TSmeet. However, you had may problems and reasons why you could never respond. That Kik does't work, TSmeet isn't cooperating, yahoo doesn't work, broken down car, child, work, haircut, you name it. A lady knows when a man is not who he says he is. The only endeavor said man has was to get her phone number and she refused to do that but she worked with you in many different fashions. It was not good enough. She knew that she was only his fall girl and wasn't going to get his attention until he had nothing else on his agenda. She gave up on him after 4 months. Weeks would go bye with zero communication.

You as well, my dear, need to act like an adult and stop making excuses when the lady is trying to give you the attention.

Peace.


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