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Blogs > SexySweet1111 > Sex and the Southern Lady

Getting ready for that hot date  

SexySweet1111 34F
187 posts
10/7/2019 9:51 am
Getting ready for that hot date

Many men have asked me what I'm thinking right before I meet a potential sex partner for the first time so here are my thoughts on the topic.

Usually I'm trying to avoid getting too excited and try to manage my expectations. Before I've decided whether or not to share my body with him I try to clear my head so I can make a serious decision I won't regret later.

I do find myself fantasizing about sex with him before we actually meet but I try to avoid getting too aroused just in case he doesn't measure up and we don't end up sleeping together.

If I think I'm too aroused prior to the meeting I may masturbate just to relieve myself. I don't want to sleep with a guy who may not be worthy just because I'm so turned on I can't say no.

When I get dressed I often wear sexy underwear but classy clothes. Maybe I'll show a little cleavage or wear something a little tighter than I'd usually wear. I often select sexy lingerie because it makes me feel sexy. It also lets the guy know how much I love sex when/if he gets a chance to see me wearing it.

When we do actually meet I'm usually pretty excited but trying to play it cool. Many times I may be pretty wet down there just out of nervous excitement that comes when you know sex is an option if I want it.

It takes maybe 15 minutes to know for sure if I'll sleep with him. I've already posted a blog about the signals I give off when I'm sexually aroused by a man and want sex.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/7/2019 12:57 pm

 The best answer to give them , is , "Same as you".


jj10113 44M

10/8/2019 8:02 am

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NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
10/20/2019 4:16 pm

 I know for me. Meeting someone for the first time is a combination of nerves, lust , desire and evaluating just how well we get along. If we connect and get along all the other things seem to settle down. If we start to kiss then again it is how well we get along and how do I like the way she kisses. It seems to me to be a series of steps we take together. The hardest thing for me is to play it cool with someone I'm really attracted to


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