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Another Forty-Something Bitching About MY Choices!
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Another Forty-Something Bitching About MY Choices! So I just got this message... richdawg* You do seem, i think somewhat dismissive of older guys yet only today you bemoan these silhouttes. well here's the deal. i'm considerably older than the guys you're after. but i aint gonna send you some shady half assed attempt to show ones beauty i'm so convinced of my beauty i'm gonna completely dismiss your desires & suggest perhaps you're being somewhat narrow minded. have a look at my profile & see what you reckon. i'm nothing like any any forty something who's ever made contact with you. i think you'ld enjoy my slant. become my friend. check out my vid & blog (avoid the private pics. you don't want to see my cock...i know this...for now anyway 16/8/2014 3:04 am So I'm a bit confused  What does his perception of me being "dismissive" of older guys have to do with me complaining about TSmeet's inability to show our profile - and other pics - as opposed to silhouettes? Is he trying to win me over by dismissing what I know I like and want? How does that work exactly? How does he know how many forty year old guys have contacted me and what they're like? Fact;he doesn't! I am not the only woman on the site, this much I know. So why can't the guys who aren't in the age group I'm interested in just accept that and move on to someone who is? Honestly, they do themselves more harm than good writing this drivel to me  What do you make of this? I don't push myself onto guys that don't want women my age, and I don't expect it in return. But sadly that hasn't been the case so far, haha.  "I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..." |
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lmao @ "well here's the deal" as if you're going to mull it over and say "Yeah, this guy sounds like a real winner"  I feel for the women on this site I really do. And it doesn't surprise me that they're leaving in droves when you have to read bs like this!
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What a complete and utter fucking tosser!! Old guys message me too with "I know I'm older but....." but nothing grandpa, move the fuck on and find some grandma your own age and stop contacting young women you could have fathered!! It makes me feel physically sick to my stomach when I see the 50 60 70 and yes 80 year old men flirting hotlisting and viewing me, wtf? The site should have a setting whereby we can choose what age views us instead of the BS they give us that we don't want. They're already screwing members out of their daily login bonus points making it impossible for a lot of men to get enough points for membership. I think your profile is to the point, hilariously sarcastic, funny and serious all rolled into one and yet these fuckwits still ignore it because they think they will be the one to change your mind. Yeah right because that's going to happen NOT!!! It also proves you're right not to be interested in a certain age group because it seems men of a certain age either can't or won't read and have an unwarranted arrogance about them that makes them think much younger women would be interested in them 
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Just let it roll off like water off a ducks back. You have your guidelines of what you want so others should respect it. Don't let the idiots of the word bum you out! Btw, you're gorgeous....wanna hook up? Ha, just kidding I'm way too OLD! HAVE FUN!
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Lmao! But there are soooooo many of us older, wonderful men on here! How could you possibly not consider us? Hehehe! Or, he truly believes he is God's gift to you and every other Woman on this planet! Sooooo, how could you even debate over wanting him!! Lmfao!!! Now, ignore him and the other thousands of old man emails you get! Smartasses on the other hand are not quite as plentiful! Lol! I hope!!! 
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It's called "negging" - DoctorBooty taught me about it. It's a "trick" where they make these borderline insulting comments to undermine your confidence, provoke a response, weaken you a bit, so that they get the upper-hand. It doesn't work with intelligent, self-confident women.
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"So why can't the guys who aren't in the age group I'm interested in just accept that and move on to someone who is?" Because they are stupid. /discussion. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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He wanted to completely dismiss your desires and you completely dismissed him. Win-win!!
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40 years old and a fur coat. ..How are you not already worshipping the ground that he walks on? He's your Prince Charming!!! lol lol. Men don't like to think there is anybody that would actually turn them down so it's a blow to their ego.. I expect to be turned down so my ego blew up a long time ago lol ...
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i'm gonna completely dismiss your desires & suggest perhaps you're being somewhat narrow minded. How could you resist such a smooth talking average looking guy Holly Can't believe a woman hasn't snapped this prize up already.
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Perhaps he thinks you're just confused and have never encountered an older man such as he and that once you get to know him you'll realize what you've been missing. Then again you might start fantasizing about dwarves...
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Just as I finished my post, he messaged me again. I set up an auto-response to mails. It states that I'm a standard member - I was at the time. It also states if you're over 40 you're wasting your time, I'm not interested. But he continues... richdawg1 ah you're just a standard girl. there's a lot of them around i've noticed. ok if you didn't know my age.what d'ya reckon & as a standard girl are you even allowed to be my friend & check out my vids & blogs. perhaps as a 40 something I should upgrade to let standard members check how incredibly beautiful i am & of course that's not withstanding my inteligence, humour & sensitivity let alone my supergalactic loving. He includes five photographs. In one of them he's wearing a fur coat Well, that does it! He's the guy for me  Another is something about an evil clown needing loving too...yeah, no idea wth that's about. The rest are just "normal" pics of himself. Average looking at best. So I wonder what it is he's so sure I'm missing? Certainly nothing I can see. Delusional, perhaps? Or just another tool, haha. "I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."
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all i can say from one person from glasgow to the next is this site is a load of pish, u lucky if the person you talk to is a half decent human being and even luckier if ya actually meet em they dont turn out to be a total monster, if ya wanna save money, time and probably your self respect ya go out with a few pals, meet a nice person n do it the old fashioned way, as from my experience, (as a bloke), ya will get the odd bit off attention by needy people who use sex and lust as a replacement for affection and love and then feel shite about it after so my view on things in the big scheme of things, go out, have fun n see where it takes ya, coz on here all ya gonna get is cock photos, desprados and time wasters xxxx be lucky n hope ya not too depressed by my honest n frank view here xxx
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I spend more time blocking morons than interacting with people.
I spend a great deal of time blocking ye olde folks that have viewed, flirted and hotlisted me. Yeah, cos I'm really going to meet up with a 74 year old. Excuse me while I get a bucket ... 
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