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Be careful what you wish for.  

Horny_Holly 43F
768 posts
4/29/2016 6:48 am
Be careful what you wish for.

Meet Ostro7* from Charlotte, NC, USA, whose introduction reads as follows:

"Mature & Gentlemanly man, rough yet smooth....hard, yet soft, physically conditioned, intelligent, driven, self actualized, caring, sensitive to the needs of others, does not drink, does not do drugs or smoke, and no patience for phony people and lies, deception, and plain BS. Don't wast my time and we will be good.
My Ideal Person attractive, intelligent, sensual, good physical shape, of sound mind and spirit, sense of humor, does not take herself serious and able to laugh at ones self, just a few of the important attributes I prefer..."

All sounds lovely, doesn't it?

In reality, however, this is the real Ostro7*



I should point out that his profile states his age is 45. Hmm, memory problems perhaps? Oh, and he's married. So he's just an all-round good guy who likes to send abusive messages to strangers online. The women must be falling over themselves to get to him Form an orderly queue, ladies, no need to push!

Now, I personally don't care who has what information on their profiles. That's their business. Not looking for someone my age? I won't lose any sleep over it, and I certainly won't be sending you such a disgusting message about something that has zero impact on my life. I really have more to do with my time...as most normal people do.

So why is Ostro so bitter and feels the need to write such vile, disgusting things? He has a wife, albeit one who wouldn't fuck him with his dog's dick. He has 'friends' on the site and women who 'experience sexual encounters with him that last hours, complete with multiple orgasms.' So why would he care that I have no interest in older men?


It's certainly a mystery to me why people get so upset at what strangers say online Especially when it's something so trivial, something that has nothing to do with them, and will certainly have no impact on their life whatsoever.


Cheating on his wife certainly isn't keeping ole Ostro busy enough, so perhaps he should find a couple of new hobbies to occupy his time. That way, when he comes across a profile that he takes offence at for no reason whatsoever he'll have less time to think about his dog's dick.

So, I guess the moral of this story is indeed be careful what you wish for. Ostro wanted me to 'slam him' on my blog, and while he's made my blog I don't have any need to 'slam him'; he's done that all by himself.

Oh, and for the record I get lots of messages from older men who write to say they respect my choices, wish me well, throw in a nice compliment and leave it at that. That's called being mature and that's the example of being a gentleman. Ostro could certainly take a leaf out of their book.

Have a wonderful weekend, everyone!


"I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."


comingtogetya4me 54M
165 posts
5/2/2016 5:51 am

Is dementia setting in? He can't remember he's put 45 on his profile when he's really 60 WTF and then to write all that bs about phonies lies and deception? Hello Pinocchio

He's an ass. A jealous ass at that. Older men in general don't stand a chance with women who are a lot younger than them unless the woman is desperate, has daddy issues and the old guy has a hugeeeeeeeeeee bank balance.

It's a shame the site think this kind of abuse is acceptable. If they're not taking action what is the point of having any TOU? They're as daft as he is.

Enjoy the holiday weekend beautiful!!


Horny_Holly replies on 5/9/2016 12:54 pm:
Hahaha @ Pinocchio, so true!

A lot of these men have thousands of 'friends', some real, some fakes, mostly much younger than the man. Maybe this makes them think they are desirable to younger women, they believe their own BS, who knows.

I agree. They took no action so why bother mailing me to tell me they have 'stringent rules' regarding abuse on the site. Pfft, yeah, right

MS2884 40M

5/1/2016 10:43 am

So perhaps someone older than me who can remember the dating world before the internet can answer me this: has our species ALWAYS had such a healthy population of worthless grown-up abortions with sexual god-complexes or has the number just skyrocketed since the advent of the interwebs and the blessing of anonymity? If the former, I'd have thought far more people would have gotten their teeth knocked out


Horny_Holly replies on 5/8/2016 6:37 pm:
Hahahaha

No, no, they've always been around. They just would never have said what they were thinking for fear of just that...having their teeth knocked down their throat

Can you imagine a 60 year old 'man' coming up to a 35 year old woman - any age for that matter - in a pub, restaurant, any public place, and spouting that bile? I wouldn't need to go all Miss Piggy karate chop on his ass, I'm sure the real men would gladly give him the beating he deserves

bisarahsmiles 34F
282 posts
4/30/2016 5:51 am

What a scumbag and his profile hasn't been deleted so what's that all about?! If the site wants rid of fakes here's a chance - the abuse aside. Then there's the abuse itself which is against the site's TOU so I don't get why they haven't dealt with him! What's the point in having an abuse team if they continue to allow abusive dickheads like this one to abuse women? They are useless and not doing their job.

He wishes he was 25 years younger so he might have a chance with you! But he wouldn't need you as he has all those other women not to mention his wife


Horny_Holly replies on 5/8/2016 6:39 pm:
No idea, Sarah. No action has been taken, despite the site's 'abuse team' stating otherwise. They continue to ignore my emails asking why no action was taken. So, yeah, typical A F F response to their members...ignore them.


desiringyouforme 43M
128 posts
4/29/2016 5:00 pm

Haters haters everywhere It sucks to be him. He's chopped fifteen years off his age in the hope of attracting younger women, but with sweet talking like that it's just not going to work for him he writes he hates phony people but lies about his age?? lmfao wtf??

Yeah he's a jealous bitter man who can't have you, let him stew in his bitterness, he'll never be happy with an attitude like that!


Horny_Holly replies on 5/8/2016 6:41 pm:
Misery loves company and all that, des! I feel sorry for his wife having to live with such a cretin

DoctorBooty 43M
6426 posts
4/29/2016 3:43 pm

He's just sad he has no chance with you, id tell him it's very hard to be so hot and awesome and to fuck off, that's what I tell the haters


Horny_Holly replies on 5/8/2016 5:59 pm:
Hahaha, nice one, Doc!

Trouble is, I'd probably be the one to get my account deleted! I really should make a couple of back-up accounts so I can tell them exactly that

_Pauline_ 43F
85 posts
4/29/2016 3:14 pm

If as he claims on his profile he has "no patience for phony people and lies..", then why isn't he applauding the honesty in your profile rather than being so incredibly bitter and hateful about it? I'd much rather read a profile that is straight to the point than one that is wishy washy.

With regards to how he looks, well, he's so ugly on the inside the outside doesn't really matter.

I'm surprised the site haven't deleted his account for such an abusive message. They are so inconsistent when it comes to their TOU. And considering he only has two photographs I wonder how he has managed to gain VIP status...hmmm.

I suspect he and his dog's dick are firm friends by now

I applaud you for not ripping him a new one


Horny_Holly replies on 5/8/2016 6:05 pm:
I'm all for straight to the point versus wishy washy, Pauline

Agreed!

The site has done nothing. I posted the screenshot on the site support blog. They emailed me telling me they had to remove my post as it - wait for it - violated their TOU You can't make this crap up They said they'd pass it on to the abuse team so I replied thanking them for doing that. The next day some female replied that I was welcome and hoped I'd continue to enjoy the site. I questioned her with regards to what I was welcome for exactly...she then went on to lie about taking action against this ass. His account hasn't been deleted or even deactivated while he receives a slap on the wrist for his abuse. So the constant advice from site support of 'contact the abuse team' is a waste of time when the 'abuse team' won't stand by their own TOU.

Haha, I'm sure you're right regarding his dog

And thank you! It would take too much work to lower myself to his level

matt-battler 50M
199 posts
4/29/2016 12:33 pm

I chatted to a woman on here a few years ago who initially claimed to be in her early 40s on her profile, in the end she owned up to being in her late 60s.

Directly after admitting to a 25-year age discrepancy she asked to see my cock, I was nearly sick amp;

I'm afraid there will always be people out there who ignore your preferences because they think they're only a basis for negotiation - don't like guys 10+ years older than you - well that can't be right because I am Superman

These super-abrasive and abusive messages are the product of a very frustrated and unfulfilled mindset so his claim to have several FBs who fuck for hours is fanciful at best . . .


Horny_Holly replies on 5/9/2016 12:45 pm:
Ugh, that is gross, Matt Were you nearly sick before or after you showed her your cock, though Hahaha, jk, jk

I know, I know, I'm naive enough to think guys will actually believe what I say in my preferences

I agree. And it does seem to be the consensus that his harem is nothing more than a fantasy.

bisarahsmiles 34F
282 posts
4/29/2016 12:32 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    Still, he's sensitive to the needs of others. Am I the only one thinking that perhaps his abstinence from drug use isn't necessarily a good thing? he seems to have got hold of some bad Metamucil.
LOL


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/29/2016 11:17 am

Still, he's sensitive to the needs of others. Am I the only one thinking that perhaps his abstinence from drug use isn't necessarily a good thing? he seems to have got hold of some bad Metamucil.

Become a member now and get a free tote bag.


Horny_Holly replies on 5/9/2016 12:40 pm:
Hahaha, isn't he just!

And, no, you're not

Horny_Holly 43F
2767 posts
4/29/2016 9:22 am

    Quoting  :

Hahaha, you are too funny. There's only one missing number from the end of the username. The clue is there, my friend Btw, did I ever tell you my lucky number is 7

"I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."


PaisleyPolly 32F
120 posts
4/29/2016 8:40 am

    Quoting  :

He's got two pictures. His main picture shows him from the top half of his chest upwards, grey hair, but I'm not sure if he's 45 or 60 in that picture!! The second - a really tiny picture which is usually a sign that it's an old picture that's been taken with an old style camera not digital - is of him playing some kind of sport probably about 25 years ago!! It's funny to see the women's comments on his pictures and they think he's 45, smh.


Horny_Holly replies on 4/29/2016 9:48 am:
Nice bit of detective work there, Polly

PaisleyPolly 32F
120 posts
4/29/2016 8:25 am

Excuse my French but........

What a fucking classless piece of shit! Gentleman? Don't make me fucking laugh. I am so sick of these older men thinking they can say whatever the fuck they want to much younger women. I had some old creep the other week who wrote to me

justinthoma197#
Come to Cambridge and I will fuck your tight little cunt


Really? Are you fucking kidding me you disgusting MF!! 40 years old writing that to a 24 year old? I'm not saying 40 is old in relative terms but it is to someone my age, especially when it comes to relationships and sex. I wonder how he'd feel if someone said that to HIS daughter and in your case granddaughter! I wouldn't want that message from any guy of any age BTW!

Cowards. That's what they are. Bitter cowards hiding behind their computers thinking they're real tough guys typing shit like that to young women. They make me sick..........just in case you can't tell LOL

Sorry for ranting but I'm so sick of this kind of shit and the site should delete his account without a second thought!


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Horny_Holly replies on 4/29/2016 9:46 am:
Miss Polly Nice rant, nicely done. Now go wash your mouth out haha.

When I see your name it reminds me of a nursery rhyme I used to sing to my nephew, 'Miss Polly Had A Dolly'...it's cute

But I digress...

That creep justin has viewed me often. I can usually spot the creeps a mile off and I immediately blocked him from being able to send flirts and message me. Obviously my instincts were correct. That is a disgusting thing to say to you or anyone else on the site. What a pig.

I completely get what you're saying about age being relative. The decent older men on the site don't care what our preferences are, and they're secure enough in themselves not to care let alone get angry about it. I don't think, with regards to this guy who messaged me, that 60 is old, either. I just have no desire to date/have sex with/have someone of that age hitting on me. That's my choice and no amount of hate mail will ever change that. I'm not sure what they think they're going to achieve by sending this bile to women.

Never apologise for ranting on my blog, love the pic, and yes, let's hope the site does the right thing and delete his 45/60 year old ass


Keppel37 55M
3657 posts
4/29/2016 6:56 am

Now Holly I'm sure I've told you before..... You can't go round hurting peoples feelings like that...... There are far better ways

Mark xxx


Horny_Holly replies on 4/29/2016 6:59 am:
Hahaha, I do like the way you think, Mark

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