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The word "NO"
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The word "NO" So yesterday I had someone decide to chat me up and see if I wanted to become his new FWB. Never mind that he didn't tell his wife that he had made the decision to find a FWB behind her back while she was away for work. What makes a guy think it's ok to stab his wife in the back and disrespect her so bad by not being honest with her like that? Is a partner that you've chosen to love for life undeserving of that kind of respect and honesty? Are they so awful that one fears them that much? Then comes the comment, " I have a strong set of morals." OMG REALLY??? I'm sorry but that's the biggest hypocritical statement I've come across recently. Oh and this person wants to find a FWB who can respect them and enjoy time with them in and out of the bedroom. I can't respect anyone nor trust them when they can't even trust their loved one enough to tell them what's going on. So where the word "NO" comes in first...when I found out the wife doesn't know what's going on. Politely said It just won't happen. No biggie....then he kept talking. Not enough sex at home yadda yadda yadda...heard it a million times on here. Find a hobby! Better yet, talk to your wife and let her know your dilemma. Is it worth throwing out years of a relationship when you get caught and she throws your ass out and takes you for as much as she can? Believe me, I've seen it happen. Lots! Women are not stupid. I think some men think we are. Second "NO" came when he continued to try and convince me to take a chance on him and become a FWB. Wife does't know so absolutely no! Third one came after he became graphic on what he wanted to do to me. We all have fantasies..I get that. About someone you haven't met yet though throws me off some. Makes me think that if I have a hole he can fill, I'll do. Oh and the fact that I'm picky is a huge plus because he wants someone who is STD free. *grumble* REALLY?!?! End of conversation was this: graphic details....more graphic details...and even my husband said that didn't dignify a response. Easy decision at that point. No reply. Log off. I have never in my life wanted to smack someone upside the head with a frying pan as bad as with this one. Sometimes men are just complete idiots. Oh and for those that know me, I do occasionally keep some opinions to myself, but this one I need to finally let out. End of rant. If you're a cheating husband and the person you want to cheat on her with says no, respect that no and quit badgering her. |
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Attitudes like that make the respectful others get grouped in with them...geez some just don't "get it"!
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love your line 'if I have a hole he can fill, i'll do'. I feel like that a lot from men looking to get laid. We are nothing more than a sperm catcher. Kleenex works well too.
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Regardless of the situation, once you said no, what would be the point of pushing you? This guy is just completely clueless in lots of ways, starting with the hiding this from his wife. He would likely do better if he just went to a bar and picked up some girl there. He likely is thinking that if you are married, you will not be looking for him to dump the wife at some point. he is just an asshat, plain and simple.
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