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Whatever happened to.....
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Whatever happened to..... the days when people wanted to say hi and just chat and get to know you? It seems like everywhere I turn, the common theme now is,"Hi, you're cute. Wanna hook up?" The world moves fast enough without relationships (friendship or otherwise) trying to follow suit. It's the day of instant gratification and as far as this lifestyle is concerned, I think people are really missing out on what could be epic and settling for the "in the moment" good time. Good is the enemy of great. No matter what it is. Something truly great requires nurturing. Granted, there are people out there who go for the total stranger and in the moment. That's up to them. I'm not here to judge, that's just their thing. I am a little fearful at the randomness of it all because there are diseases that are out there and it's way too easy to catch them. I've had scares finding out a past playmate got caught. Luck was on my side though as I remain unscathed. I would rather take the time to make sure I know more about my partner so that isn't an issue and the worry factor is nil as well. I guess this means I'm more of a romantic..but so be it. Married life isn't as romantic as the dating life was. Sometimes it's nice to rekindle that. I value true friends. Anyone worth my time values that too. That's where the foundation to a great fun relationship of any kind lies. It looks like I kind of wandered with the thought process but it boils down to this. I am not cheap nor am I easy by any stretch and I know for certain that I am worth more than just the casual "Hey, wanna hook up?" or "Watch me cum?" or "Would you fuck me?"comment. If you don't agree, sorry, we won't jive. Have a great life. |
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Even monogamy can get one caught. It's all about knowing one's partner thoroughly before engaging in any sexual activity. I applaud your want to remain true to one partner. Though I don't do the same, I respect those who prefer that. As for the questions, though they are blunt and to the point, there is a proper way to ask and an ignorant one . There are better ways to make it less abrasive and still get one's point across.
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I can't say I've ever used any of the last three questions in your post right off the hop. After chatting with a woman for a while and, providing we have at least once already, I think I've used "Hey, wanna hook up?" In that instance though it could be sex or just coffee. As for an STD scare I've been fortunate and haven't had one or gotten infected. I try to be careful in choosing a partner (although sometimes my penis did gain power of attorney), but as you mention a past playmate can sometimes be less than forthcoming or catch something after your time together.
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I am one of the few on here who only engages in monogamy. We are rare.  "My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur
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