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Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
12/10/2020 7:52 am

I am glad to see you got your gold back, that's wonderful. They never did give mine back. But it is what it is I guess, I hope you have a wonderful Thursday..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
12/10/2020 8:07 am

You got a free gold membership, or they automatically charged a credit card on file? Legend is that's how it happens - for us male slugs that never got free gold anyway.

As far as presents, I got you the perfect companion to last years gift.

Holiday Gold, on HNW
Round 4 of You Know You Like A Game for the Blogging Community
Playing With Myself
[post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets


bbuckwwheat 65M
6265 posts
12/10/2020 8:11 am

Lala,

I know that you do not post often, but I enjoy reading your posts. I enjoy your sense of humor and dry wit.

And if you delete your account, how will I be able to send people to you to set up a private mail blog post?

Private mailbox at my blog bbuckwwheat
Fayette, Iowa


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
12/10/2020 8:24 am

I enjoy your posts too, so I selfishly hope that you’ll stick around.

My free gold seems to get renewed every year without a hitch. I get the warning notice that it’s expiring, ignore it, and boom they give it back.

If they were paying attention on an individual account level they’d see that I let 95 percent of my messages go to auto reply , so I’m not exactly holding up my end as a welcoming presence here.


scoupe42 60M

12/10/2020 8:39 am

Welcome back


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
12/10/2020 8:41 am

WTF Brian good thing he doesnt have a BRAIN - he's be dangerous. I re-did my profile a little bit but I am still getting hot by toads that want a one-nighter-Nyet

(Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
12/10/2020 9:29 am

You shouldn't look a gift horse in the mouth LaLa or I think that's how the saying goes?


Justwantfunvrdy 63M

12/10/2020 9:41 am

It seems to work for couples and women. Not so for single men.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/10/2020 10:05 am

First, this post isn't on the Recent Posts list with a number of responses already.

Congrats on Gold - I guess

Then, i have to disagree on the
"it's guys like that that ruin it for the "good guys" (they don't, actually)"
I've been told as much by several women.
Oh and I'm also disagreeing because it will bug you

re Brian: he is a moron

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


ULIXBIG 69M
9288 posts
12/10/2020 11:30 am

Hey Lala,
I never understood or will understand people like this one.
But there has been a continuous decay in behaviour over the years...
I wish some folks would just show at least a minimum of respect.
Here, have a big hug!


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
12/10/2020 11:51 am

I tried to leave .. managed a week .. and signed back on 😅 .. it pulls you back especially if you're bored. Congrats on gold. I'm still waiting.. oh hum... Anyhoo.. Brian.. you wouldn't want to date someone called "Brian" anyway.. how very unsexy 😅


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
12/10/2020 12:14 pm

>>I do wish I had more things to blog about, though...ya know, like all the sex I'd have.

I get it. Every now and then I'll go back and read old blog posts and generally my conclusion is, "God I'm really boring these days!" Now, Covid certainly doesn't help, but also I've had no one who was even a prospect for almost two years.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
12/10/2020 2:48 pm

Dear Brian, fuck off.

Dont go. I look forward to you. You so funny.


hippiechick1967 60F  
13154 posts
12/10/2020 3:14 pm

I used to answer all my emails once upon a time; I would respond that I wasn't interested because of age, relationship status, whatever, and, like you, I would wish them well. After you get blasted a few times you learn not to even bother answering. Occasionally I'll get an email from a real douchebag, one you just KNOW is gonna go off, and I'll send an autoreply, "Sorry, I'm not interested in gay men."

Elevate me...


jandjnycouple 41M/40F
28 posts
12/11/2020 9:09 am

On TSmeet we will just ignore any messages that do not come with a g-rated photo that clearly shows their face. For some reason on this site guys think that photos of their wee wee are going to make us show up at their door ready to have sex without knowing anything about them or what they even look like. Anyone that starts the message with something sexual just gets blocked. Sometimes it becomes so obnoxious that we just don't login to the site for months and months because it does feel like it is a waste of time vs just attending a lifestyle event that allows select single men. So much easier to just show up somewhere and know the guys are real because they are there, if there is an initial attraction because we can see them, if there is any chemistry or not, and to have real options to choose from.


Bettibenobo 68F
423 posts
12/11/2020 4:37 pm

My free gold membership was set to expire today, Dec 11, 2020.I figured that was it and I wouldn't be staying on the site since it's worth what they charge.
Lo and behold when I logged on today my new expiration date is now 12/11/21.

It doesn't matter either way.

The site has changed so much in the past year it's no longer fun or enjoyable.

I think It started when the "blogs" became a picture gallery as opposed to a place where members actually used words to express themselves.

When they started charging the standards points to do just about anything they flooded the AL posts whining about not getting anything for free and the members complained. That resulted with site vetting the posts which resulted in very few new posts. Sometimes you won't see a new one for over a week.

That also changed the blogs even more and now besides being a gallery, a lot of them are not much more than personal ads.

A lot of the changes came about when Craig list got shut down. The pervs had to find a new place to perv.

So I have another year of free gold and will still log on to check things out but it won't take more than a a few minutes to catch up on anything new. I can remember spending hours on here. Ah memories.


New2Midlo 54M
1075 posts
12/11/2020 7:28 pm

Another data point toward confirming my theory that all Brians are asshats. Seriously, Brians have caused me more problems professionally, than anyone else. I see they've branched into being asshats on a personal level.

Stay or go, your decision (says Captn Obvious). Or enjoy the freebie and pop in whenever you feel the need. You are responsible for your own happiness. And other appropriate cliches.


Torontoguy1965 58M
65 posts
12/11/2020 8:45 pm

Godfather 3... the answer to your question


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
12/12/2020 11:37 pm

Brian got his one feeling hurt - you declined to have sex with him. You are on this site so you are hard up or obligated ... riiiiight?

People are stupid.
I'm glad you are here. I love reading your blog.


lunchandconvo 53F  
4034 posts
12/14/2020 10:31 pm

DAMMIT!
why won't they give me my ice breaker back?

is there anyone you have been with you would be with again?
i used to see a couple over ten years ago. my issue with with her not with him.
she was the point of contact so i didn't have his info.

he just contacted me here...
his message was plain and didn't imply he read my profile. but i knew his nickname and tattoo. he is open to dining out. he wants an exclusive. i am a bit torn as i am seeing someone now casually. the ex-lover is polite and gentle. and an excellent lover. a friend said go would who would be the best long term fit. i'm not sure.... but i think it might be the the ex-lover.


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
12/16/2020 1:33 pm

I hang on the my free gold even though I am pretty much inactive here these days. One never knows when someone appears that sparks my interest.

I have blogged and commented on others for so many years that there are few topics I haven’t opined about. I used to chat, but lost interest in that. Hope (once Covid-19 is under wraps) to meet someone local. So, I check in...just in case.

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
12/30/2020 12:19 pm

I don't know what I'd use it for, though. I mean, I feel like I'm at the point where I've overstayed my welcome. I still run a search every few weeks to see if anyone new-to-me shows up, and who I'd be interested in and where the interest might be mutual. Alas...nothing.

Sorry you have to put up with those pathetic impolite losers.

TSmeet keeps sucking me back like its a whirlpool and I don't know why. I guess it's mostly because Blogs are the only interesting part of this site and allows me to be my goofy self and see other interesting blogs such as yours.


seingalt23 59M
5565 posts
12/31/2020 3:50 pm

Now, Bigg Lala: Something better will shine on you in 2021, forget all these foxes ...

Giacomo

The Fox & the Grapes

One hot summer’s day a Fox was strolling through an orchard till he came to a bunch of Grapes just ripening on a vine which had been trained over a lofty branch. “Just the thing to quench my thirst,” quoth he. Drawing back a few paces, he took a run and a jump, and just missed the bunch. Turning round again with a One, Two, Three, he jumped up, but with no greater success. Again and again he tried after the tempting morsel, but at last had to give it up, and walked away with his nose in the air, saying:

“I am sure they are sour.”

It is easy to despise what you cannot get.


tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
1/1/2021 6:36 pm

Poor Brian, couldn't handle another rejection so he lashed out just to prove what a bad choice it would have been to accept his offer.. So many pretenders in the world.

Vive La Difference


Maduroquieredart 44M

1/2/2021 6:11 am

Nice! 😙


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