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DDreams524 71M

7/18/2020 10:29 am

We ALL need more JOY in your life.


merlot5555 67M/57F  
1472 posts
7/18/2020 10:50 am

....a most interesting post.... not among the dissatisfied here....

....the very nature of the beast is random..... like going to a book store and browsing things old and things new..... cherish the nuggets that you find.... and as for the rest, regardless of how you feel... smile and just move on.....

.....sometimes as you noted, you miss the whimsical with of the odd blogger here and there.... some are gone forever... and some pop back in from time to time almost randomly....enjoy it when it appears.... suspect I fall in that camp....

....so, with the inclusion of tormenting a Canadian poet who is easy to like because she is soft on the eyes and inspires lots and lots of ideas.... find that which gets you thinking.... and know that nothing ever stays the same....


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
7/18/2020 11:00 am

I have just really put up posts that sexually interest me. No more swing stories because I have been on the IR for about a year now. I use to love to swing and tell!! Oh well, I am still here for now and maybe hopefully always!!


Mr_Mercedes 61M
617 posts
7/18/2020 11:52 am

When I returned recently, I was surprised when found only a few familiar blog time faces, like your own. Yet so many I used to interact with are absent. So, for me, there is an emptiness here without them. But I’m glad for the few that remain and contribute.


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MrWrong4RghtNow 57M
2439 posts
7/18/2020 1:02 pm

I came to blogging as a way to express myself creatively and emotionally. I honestly didn’t come to this side of the fence to make friends but I feel like I have done just that.
While Blogland may be a former shade of itself , I feel that the ones who stayed and some of the ones who. Join are worth the effort to read, know and engage.
I’m especially grateful to two bloggers who have been extremely nice and welcoming. I regret not keeping in touch with one more often but enJoy one other. So thank you.

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DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
7/18/2020 2:14 pm

It has always gone in cycles, but its nothing like it was. I barely read any other blogs because they're nothing but porn pictures, and not even of that blogger. They aren't real experiences, just no substance.

And when theres nothing to read I dont feel stimulated to write either. I used to write 100 blogs a year, now I might write 15-20. And I write less about other ladies, and when I dont write about my ladies I just end up not writing at all.

Just feels like this site puts zero emphasis on the bloggers when we were always the REAL people who really met others on the site. Now all they want are more cam girls who don't even live where their profile is, and meet no one.


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
7/18/2020 2:21 pm

I remember when the top bloggers were at the top for what they WROTE, not their ability of re-post porn from other sites.

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scoupe42 60M

7/18/2020 3:05 pm

Being naked is a good thing!


Dark_Star1972 51M
743 posts
7/18/2020 4:37 pm

Back when I first joined, blogs weren't even a thing (if I'm remembering correctly). When they first exploded on the scene, I was pulled in immediately and began reading tons of content and writing my own. Then I gained an appreciation for the forums and being able to link content to those forums.

As time moved on, the blogs began to shift to a porn display, as DoctorBooty noted in his reply. Some of that was good, but most of it was either 'meh' or 'gratuitous'.

The intelligence of the blogs waned for the need of constant titillation (and A'FF already has tons of that). Hell, even I fell into that trap for a while.

The best bloggers have seemed to fade away, but there are still some standouts and some interesting rookies. You just have to hunt harder to find them. And many of the good blogs that are still around haven't been updated in years.

Perhaps this site's blogs have become too much of a chore for some people or maybe their just on long hiatuses. Maybe it's all the weird word errors (or censoring) Who really knows?

(Make sure you back up everything you write on your blogs, people!)

But, A'FF, like everything else on the internet changes, evolves/devolves, and is supplanted by other types of sites. For those of us that remain here, it is our responsibility to keep it going and try to encourage others to make their mark and write what you can and to not be afraid to be sexually expressive in either words and imagery but with an intelligence.

Regards,

DS

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Dark_Star1972 51M
743 posts
7/18/2020 4:40 pm

AHH! They're not their! By the gods, I hate it when I make that mistake!

EDIT: Ack! I cannot type today!

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easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
7/18/2020 7:27 pm

Hi Joy

thanks for taking me further with this post today

I used to write daily, now it's just on the weekends

I do have fave bloggers that I read, like you

they come and go, for various reasons

I have my little writing outlet here

the response of someone enJOYing my writing is rewarding

and, makes it worth it

but, sometimes, I just write for me

be safe

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Words don't come easy to me
How can I find a way to make you see I love you
Words don't come easy
Words don't come easy to me
This is the only way for me to say I love you
Words don't come easy
Well, I'm just a music man
Melodies are so far my best friend
But my words are coming out wrong
Girl, I reveal my heart to you and
Hope that you believe it's true 'cause
Words don't come easy to me
How can I find a way to make you see I love you
Words don't come easy
This is just a simple song
That I've made for you on my own
There's no hidden meaning you know when I
When I say I love you honey
Please believe I really do 'cause
Words don't come easy to me

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able202 63M
3108 posts
7/18/2020 7:51 pm

I have been here a long long time, blogging, reading blogs, messaging and chatting and meeting some really great women. All in all it has been a fun, enjoyable experience. Some of the great bloggers have gone and I have found new ones (like you) so all in all it has been ok. I have seen changes in the site some good some not so good but whatever. I ride along and enjoy each day. I really enjoy writing out my fantasies and getting the odd comment and I love reading the blogs of the few on here that make sense and can spell and have some form of grammer.
So my dear friend, chin up and lots of pics of your sexy bod and all the words of wisdom and song lyrics are really appreciated from yours truly.

Keep blogging if that is what you enjoy and screw the world.....Because we should all do what we enjoy....

Able202


Love_My_Toys 59M  
848 posts
7/18/2020 8:00 pm

My life isn't exciting enough to blog about...


FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
7/19/2020 4:11 am

The blogs have always been going downhill

Though it is questionable whether they were really better a dozen years ago. The quality and variety of content was definitely better, the blogs were populated by people who wanted to write rather than just post photos creamed off the internet.

But do we really want to go back to the viciousness of the multi-profiling, screen-shot-taking, rumour-mongering, blog warriors?

Too right we do!


merlot5555 67M/57F  
1472 posts
7/19/2020 5:20 am

    Quoting  :

...and this post stimulated a lot of poignant discussion..... you are an excellent ring leader Red..... for the people on here that are real....

.....not the fakes or the working pros or the gratuitous lookers (they are just more cautious, but OK if they develop their profile) or the mysterious grey pic people with an empty shell of a profile....


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
7/19/2020 9:09 am

I remember when it used to take me a while to read and comment on all the blog posts from the many bloggers I followed.
It's much quicker now as they have either decided to just blog occasionally, stopped blogging completely or left the site.
To be honest, there aren't that many new bloggers that inspire me.


pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
7/19/2020 2:25 pm

I'm just here to arouse you! Happy Sunday! 🌞

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
7/20/2020 12:37 am

The people who frequent this part of A F F seem to be interested in things other than written words, and that's fine with me. The market dictates what's popular or not so who am I to argue?
I no longer feel the need to add my two cents to a pool that's jammed with nickels and quarters.


RyuFujin 56F  
1445 posts
7/21/2020 12:15 am

I read your blog, as often as I can when I'm on here.

As far as my blogging goes, I'm sporadic at best. Oh, I could share some epic scenes of my adventures into the world of getting essential items and the asshats I encounter along the way, but I feel it might pale in comparison to someone else's.

If I hear or find something funny that's sex related, I post the pic or share the tale. My "Fortune Cookie Friday" series has been put on the back burner indefinitely, or until restaurants are given the OK to open for inside seating again, which I don't see happening anytime soon, sadly.

Or until I'm lucky enough to have a fortune cookie dropped into my take out as a freebie treat.

Speaking of treat... where's my brownie?


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