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The messages women get from women
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The messages women get from women i was talking to a couple ladies on here that I've met in person and we were all emailed by a new, single girl in town at about the same times. We compared our email messages and came to an agreement about the types of emails women get from other women on the site. This girl is local, 21, and has a single female profile. She says she wants another 'kitty' to play with and mentions her husband getting involved. In her email to each of us, it was basically the same thing: "Do you want to play with me?" and we all said yeah, she was hot and we'd play. Now, experience teaches me to be inquisitive because people never tell you everything in their profile that they really want...so, after questioning her, its basically a couple and they want a 3rd girl. They don't want to do any full swap, and really don't even want 1-on-1 with the two of us girls either, they only want a 3rd. And we all shot this girl down, she's young, quite stupid, and doesn't understand what the site is about. She got pissy with each of us for turning her down as well. It really gets to why single women are unicorns here for so many: because most couples don't understand that single women here are looking for very specific things, and if you don't fit that then you don't get a response. Look, we know that we can get dick anytime we want it, so we don't need the site. We join up to find something specific. Some women are into joining couples, some are really looking to fuck a few guys on the rebound, some are cheating, some want a guy with 10", some want 8-pack abs, and most are just looking to explore bisexuality. For all of those except the latter, women usually will do one or two things and delete their account. Those of us who are bi will stick around hoping to find what we want to find. Married women stick around to please their husbands, add excitement to the relationship, avoid boredom, or whatever. The trick is finding out what that specific thing is, and women don't really tell anyone. If you ask her what she's looking for, you'll get a very ambiguous answer, so if you can't get in the door with me, you have no chance. I joined to get back at him, and I don't get to meet the Doc as often as I'd like but I stay to meet women. Thats it. I like to fuck but I want a girlfriend I can meet often. |
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And an overwhelming majority won't bother with a guy in a relationship, even if they say they don't want a relationship. Which tends to make you think most, who are actually single, are looking for a steady relationship whether they say they are or not. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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Yup, this really makes me wonder why I'm still here since I've long since lost any expectation of finding anything (either here or elsewhere).... as I have no interest in just being a plaything -- or being reminded that I'm "too big" for most women's preferences (in pretty much every way that could be applied  )....about the only incentive I have to continually coming back to this site is for the intellectual stimulation I get from the blogs -- to include yours.
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6/5/2016 8:19 am |
Your thoughts on this are very similar to what we found. We find it very annoying when people are not completely upfront in their profile and we find the "hidden couple" in a lot of profiles. And you're correct everyone has something specific they are looking for, not everyone is going to be a match. People should not take it personally if they try to contact someone and don't get a response. Just move on.
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I run into the same problem all the time. I just tell them to get a couples profile and that I am not a fuck toy for couples
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1 post 6/13/2018 6:25 am |
Some couple's have met on this site and choose to keep their "single" profiles and make a new one for their "couple" status. That's what we have done. Our "single" profiles have been updated to say exactly what we are here for.... Big problem we have is that even people with gold memberships just look at pics and choose not to read our profiles before they message us, then get pissy when you tell them they aren't special. Lol Everyone has their reason for being here, some solo chicks are only interested in couples because that insures them that nobody is lookin for more than just friendship and mutual pleasure.
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