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Blogs > jessabell1967 > Ginger Snaps

Which came first  

jessabell1967 57F
438 posts
4/5/2016 4:51 pm
Which came first

Friends with benefits just seems like a headache to me. Too much drama potential honestly.

But I am curious about long term relationships of this type. By long term I mean over 1 year. Which comes first? The friendship or the benefits? Do you accidentally end up in bed with a friend, or do you accidentally become friends with someone you fuck? Or is friends with benefits just a polite term for the person you contact for a booty call?

lookinghard6669 58M
365 posts
4/5/2016 4:55 pm

 I think friendship first although I am sure it can happen either way. Do we really ever accidentally end up in bed?


moses4862 66M
333 posts
4/5/2016 4:57 pm

 Friends with benefits is someone you enjoy doing things with outside the bedroom. As well as in the bedroom, but you don't let love get involved.


ltrskr 76M
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4/5/2016 5:08 pm

 I think what a lot of us r looking for is after a wonderful day and a great night,
we wake up next to a friend......


love2pleasu13 56M
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6472 posts
4/5/2016 5:13 pm

 good question both


HowzAboutFun4Us 59M  
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4/6/2016 6:54 am

 I can only comment on my concept of fwb and how it's worked for me..... The friendship definitely came first. Shared interests, experiences, etc. Taking the time to get to know the other person outside the bedroom (obviously with the idea of a sexual relationship in mind) otherwise it's simply fucking.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with fucking, but some folks (myself included) prefer a bit more than that and the friendship/connection is what makes the difference.


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