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Profiles I didn't view.  

bbcurvy 54F  
36 posts
12/17/2016 12:20 pm
Profiles I didn't view.


I don't know why I feel the need to rant on this but since I just received a not so nice message in my inbox.....here goes.
I'm not sure if it's a glitch in the system here on TSmeet but the site will say that I've viewed profiles that I never did. Sometimes while having IM up, I've noticed profiles popping up in the background as if I clicked on them when I never did. It happens a lot which isn't that big a deal I guess except for when some guy sends you an unpleasant email "NOT INTERESTED!!!! or another "I don't find older fat women attractive".
On the opposite end of the spectrum I'll get guys messaging me with "you look at my profile all the time, stop looking and let's fuck".
So I wish TSmeet would fix this issue. It's not fun to receive mean, nasty messages when I've done nothing to deserve it.
On a side note to you guys, if you see someone "looking" at your profile and they're not your type then it's simple. ignore it. No need to be a dick about it.

shadowtoo69 68M  
1056 posts
12/17/2016 12:33 pm

Forward each unwanted email to TSmeet help with a request they fix the problem. If enough people do this they might get off their ass and fix it.


bbcurvy 54F  
10 posts
12/17/2016 4:50 pm

One can always hope, lol. I won't hold my breath though.


BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
12/17/2016 6:15 pm

As you move your cursor across the page, thumbnails will pop up. Every time a thumbnail pops up, it appears as a view for that person.


Nevada540 54F  
25 posts
12/17/2016 6:41 pm

my account has always done that and i've gotten those kinds of messages too. I did figure out that when you are using a computer and not your phone on TSmeet if your mouse hovers over someones profile it shows to them as a view. I can go to my viewed profile list now and it'll say i've viewed 20/30 profiles today when i haven't looked at any.


Sinbadde 70M  
7 posts
12/17/2016 10:25 pm

The profiles-viewed-mess is the most aggravating thing about this site. Just for fun, pull up your "Profiles I Viewed" list sometime. Mine is chock full of profiles I've never touched. I also know not to trust my "Viewed Me" list for that same reason. I don't really believe this is a "glitch"; I personally think this is TSmeet's way of stirring up the pot. It seems that even passing your mouse over a profile thumbnail logs a view. I'm sure there are lots of other actions that do the same thing.
With that being said, the mean, nasty messages you've received are totally uncalled for. There is a lot of chaff to weed through on this site and you seem to be finding a lot of it. However, there are a lot of good people here too, so you just need to ignore the miscreants. Love your broadcasts, by the way. I like the manner in which you conduct yourself and manage the chat room.


bbcurvy 54F  
10 posts
12/17/2016 10:36 pm

I just don't understand why people have to react that way. I just assume if they looked at my profile and they were interested that they would message or flirt. I don't fly off the handle and freak out at people that viewed me. lol


bbcurvy 54F  
10 posts
12/17/2016 10:39 pm

Thank you very much for the input and the compliments Sinbadde.


mwmUT 60M
26 posts
1/17/2017 2:03 pm

I check out your profile, but it's on purpose...


photon46 76M
339 posts
2/11/2017 12:10 pm

I think TSmeet does this on purpose. With the ratio of men to women pretty high, it does give guys some hope. But, let's face, there is no excuse for being an asshole. Frankly, I expect the guys that behave that way, are not being picky. More, they are here because they think they can be jerks and anonymously get away with it.
Sadly, that is the price we pay for the good parts where real people do real things, or, at least, behave respectfully.

Chuck


JackHofff 72M

4/6/2017 7:11 pm

I think you look good, but you have heard that before and dismissed it. But you are proof that the sexiest sex organ is the mind!


nu2thisworld00 55M
164 posts
9/6/2017 2:28 am

Some are idiots in that respect. One thing to know is that while you are moving your cursor across the page, thumbnails will pop up. Every time a thumbnail pops up, it will appear to that person as if you have viewed their profile, Its just they way TSmeet is built so sorry to say that you should just ignore those inconsiderate individuals, their loss.


bill_e_2 79M
853 posts
10/20/2017 9:07 pm

I agree with you


photon46 76M
339 posts
1/13/2018 12:06 pm

I am pretty sure TSmeet does this on purpose. With a lot more men than women on here, they need something to make the guys believe that something is going on.
As for the abusive responses, half the world is below average and when its anonymous, as it mostly is here, all those guys come crawling out of mom's basement.


kwjack 66M

10/8/2018 3:55 pm

I have the same problem with TSmeet,your right they need to fix it,by the way you are gorgeous.


jraider68 55M
31 posts
11/23/2018 12:01 am

Unfortunately this does happen and someone has sent me a msg thinking that I was viewing them to often or stalking them or what ever. But sending a msg with any negative comments is uncalled for. I agree.. There is no reason for anyone to be rude, judgemental or disrespectful in any way, shape or form. This site is for people of all kinds and these people that are jealous of, threatened by, racist towards and haters of people that are different than they are or think, feel and express differently than they do should be banned. But if you would like to make sure that you never get falsely accused again, go to your settings maybe in preferences and you can set your viewing to incognito. No one will know that you have viewed them. I will find it and let you know exactly where it is or how to get to it.


jraider68 55M
31 posts
11/23/2018 11:58 am

To be incognito just go to My Stuff at the top of your page and go to preference settings and it is about the fourth one from the bottom and then no one knows that you viewed them.


lickyouright645 59M
1 post
1/28/2019 8:51 am

Evidentally he didn't look at your profile, you are definitely not a fat old woman, think your really hot myself!!!!


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