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Where do you draw the line on "family" and this lifestyle?
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Where do you draw the line on "family" and this lifestyle? PLEASE THIS NOT ABOUT BLOOD RELATED FAMILY SO NO NASTY COMMENTS, ALL COMMENTS ARE WELCOME...JUST READ EVERYTHING FIRST IS ALL I ASK... Here is a tiny backstory to the situation at hand. I recently reconnected with the man who was married to my mom when i was a from ages 2 to 10 yrs, after they split i lost all contact with him and it's been around 28 yrs until recently. catching up has been really nice, finding out about his family, telling about mine, to the point of talking almost everyday. even though he's not my biological father he did raise me and was the only father i knew during that time of my life so having him back has been great. NOW remind you it's been 28 yrs so as you can imagine not being a anymore and well i'm a sarcastic asshole to put it mildly with an open mind and no filter, so the conversations and subjects have went from straight PG to well i should burn in hell... and trying to figure out where to draw the line is the question at hand.. during the convos i have mentioned being bisexual and that we my husband and i are in a certain lifestyle that my mom would freak out about if she knew and that's when i found out he's in that lifestyle as well and so is my Uncle and aunt. i recently acted as his wing man and hooked him up with someone online that originally i was hitting on until he started showing interest in her. well i also found out that the biker rally spot my husband and i went to in another lifetime is now<b> owned </font></b>by my uncle, and they have friendly events, biker rally events, and also swinger party events... as i talked to my uncle to find out more information on the swinger parties (they sounded like fun and a new place to meet new people) and then finding out that my uncle and aunt will be there (that doesn't bother me that much) BUT THAT MY DAD THE MAN I STILL SEE AS MY DAD WILL ALSO BE ATTENDING!!! Which by the way his response is "doesn't bother me"... 1st response: was EEEEWWWW HELL NO!!! I DO NOT WANT TO ACCIDENTALLY SEE ANY OF THAT FROM DAD OR MY UNCLE AND AUNT!! Yuck!!! 2nd response: was well it's like 130 acres of land and if they stay on one side and we go to the other side and do our best to avoid them like the plague we probably won't ever even see them at all, but im going to be looking over my shoulder constantly and be on edge the whole time worrying about seeing them or them seeing me. 3rd response: was so what they are not blood who cares if they see in a passing glance and as long as they dont stop and watch or comment on anything that they see what's the big deal about that... i'm still on the fence about the whole thing because for one he's my dad for two it was weird enough when the bisexual and swingers information came out.. SO HERE IS MY QUESTION???? what would you do in this situation? Go to the parties and party like it's 1999?? or Stay away from all parties for fear they may be there??? And my uncle knows a shit ton of the same people we know so crossing paths are most likely to happen no matter where the party takes place... where do YOU draw the line??? |
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thank you for responding, and yeah i have already scheduled a babysitter for the next party so we shall see (or not see) how it goes..lol
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5/14/2018 6:35 am |
Go and have a good time. You will most likely regret not going later on down the road.
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