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3 months in...  

xbeautifulxlie 42F
16 posts
8/12/2018 1:20 pm
3 months in...

Well, hubby & I are about 3 months into our open marriage and things are going well!!

He's played a few times, and I've come to realize that things I initially thought would bother me (such as where his hookup live in relation to us) really haven't been an issue.

He has had some more trouble adjusting than me, simply because he still doesn't believe I separate sex and emotion as good, if not better, than he does. We met on TSmeet, so it's easy to see where he's coming from.

His biggest problem has been the fact that I've mentioned multiple times that I need some kind of mental connection in order to hook up with someone. In his head, that means I'm wanting the kind of friendship and bond that we share - this couldn't be further from the truth!! What I mean is that I need to be able to laugh & joke & have a conversation with someone. Once he got that figured out, he's felt a bit better, I think.

Our sex life has gotten so much more fun!!! We flirt more, fuck more, and generally have a better time in bed than we've had since we moved in together!! It's been wonderful!

I'm slowly starting to figure our a bit better what I'm looking for and what I'm interested in. I'm still not 100% comfortable sharing that with hubby, but I'm getting better at it. And practice makes perfect, right!?

I'm really pleased that we ventured down this path and I'm looking forward to what the future holds!

Buford5 69M
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12/4/2018 7:00 pm

 nice take, I can see how that could really be a good thing for a marriage. and admitedly for the guy, once he kind of picks up your philosiphy.
buford


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