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A poll for standard members about the IM change  

Acquaman2019 48M
25 posts
7/25/2019 2:30 am

It's boring without free messages


mtguy2019 69M
185 posts
7/25/2019 6:43 am

When I can Im someone it works well enough fore. But, sometimes it's a waste of time cuz never got lucky on here yet. Besides, it's not always about sex. Company? yes


Fredomm33 49M

7/25/2019 6:47 am

It sucks !! They IM sometimes boots you off and you have to spend another ten points to get back in . This happened four times in a row to me yesterday. This site could be so much better !


Shoretosnow 32M

7/26/2019 1:23 pm

It's a pretty crap way to do business but granted the chat function has always been the least important future for them. Considering it's broken half time gold or standard


mtbikeguy14 62M
25 posts
7/26/2019 2:06 pm

Even with the old 3 message limit you were lucky at best to even get though with a reply


dbsimms 54M

7/26/2019 11:13 pm

well I wouldn't mind paying if I knew it was worth it. But since I've only met one person, I'd say the likelihood of me spending my hard earned money is extremely small seeing as it isn't proving to be worth the expenditure.


FresnoWoman replies on 7/27/2019 3:22 pm:
Both your profile pics are grey blurs for me, so I assume they're set to be naughty for a reason. If it's women you're trying to meet, a clothed full-body picture, a tasteful torso picture, or a face picture would be much more appealing than any dick pic. It won't help the male/female ratio but would put you ahead of the dick-pic crowd.

icecubeheaven 44M
25 posts
7/27/2019 12:09 am

Now if they had changed the system so it allowed standard members to reply freely to gold members who initiated contact on either IM or email it would have made things a lot better, the fact you have to pay to reply as well will in my opinion reduce the use of the site..


Dover4funn 61M
37 posts
7/27/2019 4:35 pm

And now as a standard member it serms I cannot view or comment on advice lines?


dbsimms 54M

7/27/2019 11:31 pm

Thanks for the tips! I'm not sure why my pics are grayed and blurred, I didn't think my profile pic was that bad. I'm hesitant to put a face pic on the site due to my occupation.


southernsupguy 59M/60F
1 post
7/28/2019 6:14 am

I think it bullshit that u have to loss points when u chat


Daddydaks 50M
6 posts
7/28/2019 6:20 am

* disagree


67AugustWest 56M

7/28/2019 8:25 am

Wont pay.. Too expensive for an IM that sucks!


engcumman 54M
53 posts
7/28/2019 12:38 pm

I suggest using an alternative message channel. I know a number of people are using k1k and also sky1pe in the chat rooms. Certainly on the latter you can set up multiple accounts if you would rather keep your TSmeet life and your real life separate.


FresnoWoman replies on 7/31/2019 2:12 pm:
It's not possible to have more than one k|k account? But yes, those are options, as well as exchanging text numbers.

oraldeelite 61M
18 posts
7/28/2019 9:37 pm

I've paid b4 and it the same thing, you might get to message more but IM STILL FREEZES UP!!! not paying for that .


RustyDick72 51M
51 posts
7/28/2019 11:21 pm

I think this the 2nd time, IM stop giving free. It happened few years back, but they revert back to 3 free IM per day.

Anyway is up to them, when they are giving free IM, there tends to hv a lot of members online ( mostly fake online ) , but it give a impression that there is alot of activities going on.... but now, no free IM, it will get even worst,


FresnoWoman replies on 7/29/2019 1:50 pm:
It'd be great if they restore the former IM functionality but I won't hold my breath.

bigbootysmokaaaa 31M

7/30/2019 5:15 am

Lose points for answering. cant even do 3 free ones/day anymore


oraldeelite 61M
18 posts
7/30/2019 9:51 am

My biggest complaint is you get charged for ten points when the other party doesnt reply back to your IM message


FresnoWoman replies on 7/30/2019 12:57 pm:
I'd be annoyed to lose points that way too. At the same time, as a woman, I'm happy to benefit from a mechanism that forces men to be more selective in whom they message.

kiwiyoulike2 53M

7/30/2019 10:02 pm

time for a new web site to be created ! by someone else


FresnoWoman replies on 7/31/2019 2:12 pm:
And you'll get right on it, won't you?

MrPub72 51M
217 posts
7/31/2019 2:13 am

This is the management decision, if the end result, doesn't see what they want to see, then they have to seriously look into it


mrpub1972 51M
28 posts
7/31/2019 8:20 pm

I believe there are reasons,the management made this decision, well , let see their next move.


nhex99 48M

8/1/2019 12:19 pm

The IM doesn't hardly work at the best of times, but its a downward slop for the site imo not letting 3 free IM's.


jonilovebig 77M

8/1/2019 12:26 pm

I have had 3 guys try to get with me on im it cost me 10 points each time but when I answer them they don't receive my message won't answer any more on im


spicybicpl 42M/41F

8/3/2019 1:03 am

It's a money grab scheme by TSmeet.They did that so standard members would have to upgrade to gold or better


Realdeal01844 48M

8/3/2019 3:08 pm

This website has turned to shit


Tigerfofpussycat 51M

8/3/2019 3:10 pm

I'm ok with the new I'm system


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