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Today I Wrote......
Today I Wrote...... ......my Obituary. Some of you may think this odd...but 2 yrs ago at the passing of my husband, the woman asked all kinds of questions about him. I didnt know at the time, she was collecting info for his obit. Upon reading it in the program and in the paper, while most of the details were there, his essence was lost in her words. I decided then, i would write my own, as only i know the info, and the info i want shared. I also didnt want my having to do one other thing upon my leaving, as she will already inherit two properties with 3 living spaces to clean out. Having lost all of my family members, within a short period of time, i have paperwork from parents, brother and 3 aunts I am going through and dispersing. Just recently a few names i am responsible for came up on the abandoned property list, so i must submit paperwork for . Its all a process.....and im unsure how much progress is happening. Yet...each day, i try to accomplish something. Thats the best that i can do. Thats the best that we ALL can do. So...yes, todays accomplishment is a done deal ~~ |
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......and what will be your todays accomplishment??
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Happy Sunday to ALL ~~
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Well... That's a touch too real for me. Yep... not ready for this one. Reminds me all of stuff that I have left to do... I'll start by having a coffee ☕ and thinking for a moment or two. Procrastination won't catch up with me... today. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Its a very freeing thing. Its like what i learned....whats impt is what is between the dash ( dates of birth and death ). I wanted my dash to reflect who i am. I understand what u say....having a young one and going thru chemo....puts a diff perspective on things. My daughter was 6 mths old when i was diagnosed. Last week she turned 28. You and I wont have to have anyone else fill in the dash for us. Thanku for stopping by~~
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Well... That's a touch too real for me. Yep... not ready for this one. Reminds me all of stuff that I have left to do... I'll start by having a coffee ☕ and thinking for a moment or two. Procrastination won't catch up with me... today.
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this is amazinfg love this
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this is amazinfg love this
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Young Lady, as my self in the December of life , I too think of the end. and there are a lot of them with me, a lot of stuff to get rid of, what to do , how to start, where to start and when are real questions on my mind. I wish you luck . Make that obit right , the right you want to see it . have a good evening... Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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Young Lady, as my self in the December of life , I too think of the end. and there are a lot of them with me, a lot of stuff to get rid of, what to do , how to start, where to start and when are real questions on my mind. I wish you luck . Make that obit right , the right you want to see it . have a good evening... All journeys begin with a .....first.....step. Good Luck to you .......and thanks for the visit~~
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Good Luck with your taking care of the estates. I am working on my Father's estate and feel my hands are full and unable to take care of some simple tasks at my own home. I have a brother and sister but they are not any help with the tasks at hand and not even wanting items that my parents had earmarked for them. The house had three floors and 64 years of accumulations.
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Good Luck with your taking care of the estates. I am working on my Father's estate and feel my hands are full and unable to take care of some simple tasks at my own home. I have a brother and sister but they are not any help with the tasks at hand and not even wanting items that my parents had earmarked for them. The house had three floors and 64 years of accumulations.
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8/31/2019 1:29 am |
What a great idea writing your own Obit.. Some thing I need to think about.
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Its a sense of...whew...another thing not left up to another. Besides who knows you better?? I know its not everyones cup of tea...but it was ..freeing for me to do so. Thanks for dropping by ~~
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What a great idea writing your own Obit.. Some thing I need to think about.
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I'm still giving this some thought. Serious thought! One thing for sure... my insurance policy includes a provision for an all you can eat, buffet... open bar... and a DJ... at the wake! 👍 Not too words on paper.... I'm working on the song list, for now... ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I know when I got my disability ,I paid for my funeral. I did not want my daughter to go threw what she did when her dad past. I have my songs picked out now just to write the obit out
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I'm still giving this some thought. Serious thought! One thing for sure... my insurance policy includes a provision for an all you can eat, buffet... open bar... and a DJ... at the wake! 👍 Not too words on paper.... I'm working on the song list, for now... Also just saw and read most of the boxing arena that Dio set up like 7 days ago. All i can say is ....ugh @ all this. I just wish the ladies would let it go and ignore each other and keep it moving~~
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I know when I got my disability ,I paid for my funeral. I did not want my daughter to go threw what she did when her dad past. I have my songs picked out now just to write the obit out Thanks for your thoughts......
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Hi Hun I am so sorry for your loss. I know all to well the pain and crying you have had to endure. I am here for you if you need an ear. JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART
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Hi Hun I am so sorry for your loss. I know all to well the pain and crying you have had to endure. I am here for you if you need an ear.
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