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Scams to Look Out For
Scams to Look Out For The internet is rife with scams these days and TSmeet is no exception. We all place ourselves in a vulnerable position somewhat choosing to put ourselves out there in an online environment where anonymity is possible amongst strangers. We all have something to gain choosing to be here but we all have different things to lose also. It is important to protect our own interests here as elsewhere. We must be selective in the information we provide others and use discretion. Questions about income, assets or net worth are not necessary to share an intimate encounter. I usually like to determine job status, housing status and transportation status just so I know the person I am with is self sufficient and less apt to be looking for others to provide them for them. If US Citizenship is at all a question I usually determine this also, more on this later. What should you protect others might be interested in taking from you if given the opportunity? You don’t have to be paranoid to take a few precautions to avoid tempting fate, providing others with an opportunity to take advantage of you and put your mind at ease. 1. Scams Mutual and consensual meetings should nothing more than the of any activities are mutually agreed on, ie drinks, meals, hotel or transportation. There are people out there who will use sex as an opportunity exploit others to their advantage. I know of men who spent thousands on end dinners, shopping trips and in general who never got anything in return in the way of intimacy. Everyone has bills to , some people have , debt or drug habits. Make sure you know the people you are dealing with are self sufficient to avoid exploitation in this way. Housing Opportunists Because TSmeet is free there are few filters in who can join here. This includes homeless people living on the streets or in shelters, prisoners on furlough for various offenses, severely mentally ill people living and n homes or halfway houses or people looking for an exit to their current living environment. Some people may offer sex in exchange for housing. This option might appeal to some people but for others ensuring people have a home they are happy in and are materially self sufficient can go a long way to ensure dates remain just for . Theft Most people old enough to be on TSmeet have acquired some valuables. Choosing to lock them up out of view when having company over is prudent. I usually wear costume jewelry and casual clothing, shoes and handbags on my dates with some exception. Don’t flash or brag about your assets. Your looks, personality and basic provisions should suffice to attract the right partner. I have never had anyone on TSmeet steal from me but i also take reasonable precautions, don’t host often and leave , finances and assets off the table and out of site in general. It’s not necessary and puts you at . Citizenship Scams US Citizenship is desirable to many foreigners and is difficult to achieve under the current administration. An easy to the US for foreigners here seeking residency and of life here is through marriage or pregnancy. If and where US Citizenship is in question I usually verify to avoid being used opportunistically in this way. In having sex with those with no US citizenship provide your own condoms, spermicide, etc...and ensure it is used properly. A night of fun can have a very in the long run especially if it is unwelcome and unexpected. This is especially the case since many foreigners have family seek to move to the US also. Do not allow yourself to be used for these means unless you are aware of what is happening and are in agreement with the process. Hindsight is 20/20 and taking reasonable precautions at the outset allows everyone to avoid a case of too little too late. Bait and Switch Schemes How often do we find people over promise and under deliver. It seems sometimes people will say anything and everything to meet. When a person promises you a specific experience or remuneration take it with a grain of salt. Verify before committing. Sometimes people may come on strong and offer sex then bolt after the restaurant is . Others will promise no strings fun then slowly strings start seeping into the equation. Others will promise a night of extended pleasure, show up for a quick bj then leave. Verify your contacts and trust your instincts. Never promise anything you cannot or might not want to deliver. Have few expectations just be open. And if an offer seems too good to be true is probably the case. Eternity vs a One Night Stand Generally TSmeet is for casual sex and hookups but people do find love here. When happens and everyone is happy can be a beautiful thing. Some people develop feelings more quickly or have greater needs to be together than others. Often unrequited love can follow. Always be honest with yourself and others about what you do and do not seek here. Set firm boundaries. I focus on one night stands to avoid developing feelings and relationships and to keep things interesting. Never let someone make you feel guilty about the intimate time you spend together no strings consensual. Not everyone wants a relationship here or elsewhere and a relationship is not owed to anyone just because one party might desire it or intimacy has been shared. Women are more programmed to seek relationships and bond emotionally through sexual experience. It is important to be aware of this. People of either sex might start out embracing the swinger lifestyle only to find they are not emotionally well suited to it. People might feel neglected or become jealous, possessive or too clingy, needy and demanding. Acknowledge this is a lifestyle not everyone is cut out for. We all learn more about ourselves through experience. If it seems like your player might be turning into a stayer and is not a welcome development it is important to discuss boundaries and with expectations quickly. The longer you put off doing something about it the harder it gets. Stringing along a partner for sex when you know they have feelings for you are unrequited is not fair to any party. When we meet with common objectives and interests we can achieve mutual satisfaction. If there is confusion, expectation, miscommunication or one sided feelings situations can easily turn to stress. Have you been victim of an online or<b> romance </font></b>scam? Tell us about it here... |
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I'm old enough to be wary of these scams my lady Apart from some hopeful "Nigerian/Ugandan/Russian etc bride" nothing much more than bots for chatrooms - the IM is rife with them especially around my territory ( and quite probably to the knowledge of the administrators here, since the woman / man ratio is on the known decimal point ) I can't play along either, since pics exchanged may contain viruses, and wreak havoc on the smartphones Cheers - P
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8/13/2019 7:39 pm |
Wow I haven’t experienced male bots on TSmeet. They must be here I’m sure I will come across one some day...❤️✨
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Hi, great blog! Subjects are well researched, neutral and speak from your experience. Kind of like reading chapters of your at points in time. I am sad not to see more recent ‘columns’. I do have a couple of questions. I do joined many years ago when there was few restrictions and everything was not charged in points (e.g; 15 to respond to IM). I am guessing that women (not sure if there is an age cut off) who are gold members are incentives to contact men like myself with views, flirts and hotlist to get me to join gold. Do you see any such options That is offered With your membership? I recall several years ago women received gold memberships for free.
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