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11/6/2020 1:31 pm |
Personally I would prefer a face and clothed body shot , If I want to see more I will ask .
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Personally for me I like some mystery as there is always time to unwrap the whole entire package of a person, starting with their mind.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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Quoting rm_Mike4you15 : Thank you for sharing that. I am a bit surprised with the survey results though. LOL most men are surprised by this. They want to believe women are as interested in seeing their penis as they are in seeing our bodies. I am not saying this to be mean, just on a whole men are far more visual than women are when it comes to this. As I said apples and oranges. I am not saying women are not sexually driven, just we are not as visually driven as men are. It is how people are wired.
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Check mine then BiggLala xx
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if you're talking about the main profile pic then for sure totally clothed.you can have some in your profile if they want to look but other than that i like to be tasteful.if she wants to see your junk then she'll ask or look at your profile pics.for me this also goes the other way around.
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11/8/2020 10:53 pm |
As a dude that doesn't want to show his face on here I never know what to submit as a photo lol
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As a dude that doesn't want to show his face on here I never know what to submit as a photo lol
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As a dude that doesn't want to show his face on here I never know what to submit as a photo lol **Introduction: Not really much to say here. Not looking for anything in particular, hookups and fuck buddies are both welcome. Love to eat pussy and please women. Also interested in experimenting with BDSM and other kinky things. My Ideal Person Not really looking for anyone in particular, just women around my age.** You have 11 photos and they are all your penis. You need to give women something more than this. I will try to send you a message with some helpful links to get you started. Women know you have a dick, ALL MEN have a dick, not being a dick is the trick. So telling us the constant repetition we hear on here of you are horny and want to have sex and all sex is welcome does nothing for us. We need to like YOU!! Most men need a location and women need a reason. Think of it as a job interview. You can't just show up and say hire me because I showed up. You have to give us reasons outside of you showed up meaning more than saying you are here and horny with a dick. lol So many people make this mistake. It may be a sex based site, but even people looking for sex USUALLY have preferences and don't just have sex with anyone that asks. You are a guy. Are you going to have sex with the men too? Some say yes, many say no - it is a preference. See my point??
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Quoting rm_Mike4you15 : It’s really nice of you to be so helpful. I would love to get feedback from you about my profile as well… Feel free to be as honest as you want. Thank you again for all your helpful comments! Being helpful is one of the reasons I stick around. lol Most of the mistakes are common sense mistakes. I try to not be hurtful, but keep it honest so here goes. Your profile says.... **Introduction: I am an easygoing guy that is fun and sensual. I have a lot of interests. I am interested in women only - no men please. I am looking for one special friend.** Okay, very simple, but says not much. You have 6 photos and they are all the same photo. I DO like the strategically places sign, but they are still all the same photo just in black and white or color. You need to do more than that or delete the repeats. As for the profile itself, you are easy going and fun, let's start there. What makes you fun? Don't say you like sex and doggie style or some variation of. What makes YOU fun??? Again, think of this as a job interview. You are fun, what makes you more fun than another guy? What do you do that makes yo different than the other guy? I can say I am fun because I love hockey. Maybe someone finds hockey a dull sport or too rough. What one finds fun another may not so you need to be more specific. It will help you find someone with similar likes. Again, even meeting for sex a woman has to LIKE YOU not just your dick, remember Quasimodo there. lol If you had a daughter would you tell her to make sure a guy is 'fun' and leave it at that? That is a very wide answer. You say you have lots of interests. Women are not going to write to every guy to find out what his interests are. There are men that list them and they will go to the front of the line, what are those interests?? You say you are sensual. That is okay to say as you are not so specific as to narrow down too much or leave it too open. That though is just about all of your profile. Having you want one specific friend is okay too and I totally get that as most people don't read profiles and sadly more men than women do that, so having that you don't want men is okay too. Do you want someone though for a long term thing? You can mention that if you wish. I usually suggest that you don't want to put things like age, weight, color no issue as it makes one look like they will do anyone. Remember you can always say no thank you to a lady that doesn't fit what you want physically so there isn't much of a reason to list it. I hope this helps.
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Thank you BiggLala!!! I am humbled. You have good additions to what I wrote as well. You always have very terrific answers yourself! Definitely one can add some types of people we want to meet listing some physical attributes without being rude. I have seen that guy you posted the link to and yes, that is not how to do it!! My only complaint outside of that is what I wrote. When I see guys put "age, weight, color no issue" on a profile, not just me, but many think this guy is just looking for anything he can get. I don't think at all people are superficial to say what they find attractive, but yes, there are those that are terribly rude about it too. Quoting rm_Mike4you15 replies: Thank you SO MUCH. You are amazing! I defintely have some work to do More than welcome and I thank you for the compliment. I am just me, not sure about amazing, lol but thank you. I do try to help when I can.
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11/13/2020 2:32 pm |
Seeing all these comments maybe i should change my profile pic and puit something more tasteful up instead
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11/13/2020 5:22 pm |
A head shot, fully clothed and a dick shot is always a good place to start.
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Seeing all these comments maybe i should change my profile pic and puit something more tasteful up instead ***Introduction: I work out about an hour a day or more , changed as i got older. I'm a very straight forward and i know what i want when i see it. Looking for discreet connections. My Ideal Person Looking for someone that is not afraid of what they want, and shares the same interests as me, women only please.*** First off.. you are MARRIED!! I am not judging you, but where you put all this stuff in your profile one would have to ask just who did you marry?? If you knew what you wanted when you saw it, what you don't want her now? If so, then get a divorce and you don't have to sneak around. You want someone that shares the same interests..does she not share those? Then why are you with her?? See my point? Again, I am not judging, but women that are single and know what they want 'usually'.. emphasize that.. USUALLY don't want to have to work around your wife. Married men are not a catch to single women as we may get an urge and you can't just tell your wife you have to go so you can get laid. LYING is not a way to start anything, but it can definitely END your married and whatever chance you had with a number of women. We don't care for liars. You will spend Thanksgiving with your wife and family while the woman is alone??? How about Xmas.. you are with the family and she gets maybe a few minutes for you to run over, do your thing, then leave??? That isn't very satisfying to most women. You may find a few, but most women don't like that and don't want to be cheated on. As for profile names, most women laugh at the names on here. YES there are women with funny names as well, but although your handle says what you are looking for, again MOST women will laugh at a name like Eagrtof*ck as well as suckmydickb*tch (real name), 10inchesforyou (as if he knows us personally aside from it isn't a big deal to us... all men have dicks and if he is dick it doesn't matter), or any version of how large they are or how horny they are. Guys, yes this is a sex based site, but it isn't an online whorehouse. Women are NOT turned on by names like that just like they don't see pictures of men getting sex or a blow job and think they want to do it with you too. In fact we usually run from them because we don't want OUR photos online so you can brag to men you got some. Truly THINK before you post!!!
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Seeing all these comments maybe i should change my profile pic and puit something more tasteful up instead Just questions for you.... these are things that you don't think about when you write this stuff. Women do not look at men and their dick as you do. We can get a toy that does that too and your dick sorry to say is just not something so special that no other man has one. It is who it is attached to that makes it special..not just that you have one.
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I am sorry to report this, but Eagr has blocked me for my evaluation. I was NOT, I repeat NOT trying to be mean. I was being honest and giving the view from what women see and go through on here just like I did the others. I am sorry he didn't like it, but I did post it here so you can all see what I said. Unfortunately this is also something women go through on here. Too many people don't like not getting told what they 'want to hear' and if you are looking to improve something you have to be able to see it from all sides not just your own. This is a huge reason why women don't respond to messages AT ALL!! The number of guys that sign up and think all they need to do is show their dick and claim they are horny and expect women to just rush to their dick is off the charts. It is ridiculous at best fellas! ALL MEN have a dick, not being a dick is the trick. Maybe those men, or a good number of them would have sex with anything with a hole in it, but women do not on a whole function that way. We don't just take any dick that happens to be close and jump on it because sex for a woman IS different for the most part than men. We don't orgasm in 5 minutes or less. We do NOT get off on just a dick if the guy is a huge a**hole or childish or any other of a myriad of reasons. Just getting angry and expecting everyone to say you are hot and the best thing I ever had is absolutely stupid, childish, and shows that our original thoughts of turning you down were correct. Sorry folks, but you can't be on an ADULT site and act like a child and expect everyone to want your dick above and beyond all other dicks.
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Quoting rm_Mike4you15 : You are absolutely right to be honest--I would much rather someone tell me what they really think, otherwise how can you make positive changes? Sometimes the truth hurts. Thank you. I was honestly not trying to be mean, but men and women DO think differently 'for the most part.' I won't say all men/women as I am sure there will be women that will see his photo and contact him, but for the most part he will get men contacting him. Stating "men only" on a profile means he has already been contacted by many men or he wouldn't feel the need to post it. Yes, there are women that will want to see the dick, but most women do not want to see a dick first and from total strangers. Quality contacts over quantity - but you can even reduce the quantity if you are using the wrong bait to catch something.
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Quoting rm_Mike4you15 : Very good points. I have men contact me evn though I say I am only interested in women. Hope it’s not because of the pics. Actually, it is usually because of the pics. Men seriously like dick pics way more than the women do!! If you go on cam you will see the same thing - men looking at you not women. I am not sure why, but I can say that men used to come into our chatroom and constantly complain that women are not watching them only men.
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Quoting rm_Mike4you15 : Wow. I might need to delete/replace all my pictures...I’ll have to make changes as soon as I get a chance. Thank you! I wouldn't say change all of them, but make the first photo, your main photo, something other than just a penis shot. That is what attracts the unwanted attention most. Scammers and the men see that 'first' as it is your main photo and they zero in on that. if a woman wants to see your penis she can click on the other photos or ask you for one.
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This is exactly why dick pics are a turnoff, even on this site. I expect to see partially naked here, but don't mind totally naked if it isn't saying "Look look I'm a horny dude."
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partially naked not ex-rated that leaves a bit to the imagination. (no toilets or dirty mirrors reflecting or in the pic)
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11/30/2020 11:38 am |
Any pic that does NOT include you having sex with, giving or getting oral from another woman. Total turn off and I will skip right past your profile because of it.
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love being naked
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