I've been away for a few years. This website was great to get me over about 7 years of no sex a while back. Not being intimate for that long of a period wasn't by choice, just by chance. Up until my first joining TSmeet I had always been intimate with boyfriends or men that I were seeing. I told myself I couldn't go my entire 30s without sex. So I joined this site from the urging of a friend. (It's so good to have nonjudgmental friends.) It was fun meeting people and sharing sexual experiences. Thankfully, I don't have any horror stories. I even traveled out of the country with a nice guy I met on here. Once again I've been on a 2 year sabbatical and need to get back into the groove. I've moved to a new city and trying to get out and meet new people has been challenging. So I look forward to meeting up and writing about my experiences again.