Hard-headedness can be good....sometimes
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Posted:Nov 30, 2015 12:21 pm
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2016 1:42 pm
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Sometimes I really have to wonder about my FWB. He usually is a decent guy, not pushy, not demanding, just a chill type who is reasonable about most things including those of the sexual variety. So here's a question for you ladies out there (I'm attempting to validate that I'm not off the far end of the spectrum on this one).
We both like giving and also being on the receiving end of some good oral sex. I'm careful to make myself appealing (trim and keep very clean and nice) because a nasty pussy is clearly no treat for guy to want to put his tongue and face into. He's also good about personal hygiene as well so I always like going down on his rod (especially looking up into his eyes while doing him, that's hot). But we've had this little sticking point. I'm not a big fan of cum, it's not something I really like the taste of and it's consistency is also not something I find very appealing. But he's become almost insistent that I should enjoy his jizz and just swallow it down like it's a protein milkshake. Sorry, but I just can't stomach the idea. And a couple times when I tried in the past, it actually made me nauseous and I puked it out in the bathroom afterward. So ladies, am I the odd person out here? And I have to add that my FWB is probably one of the biggest cummers I've ever seen. I swear this man squirts seven, eight, nine, who's counting big forceful jets of jizz! I know I'd gag and puke it right back out but he can't seen to understand that fact. Opinions ladies? (and I guess gay guys as well).
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If It's So Good for You, You Try It Too!
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Posted:Nov 18, 2015 8:45 pm
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2015 5:00 am
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I have to give credit where credit is due, and my current friend with benefits has charted some new territory in his powers of the persuasive argument. We have some fairly erotic conversations that usually end up with us sweating up the sheets and we're both of the mind to try different variations.
So we're talking about oral sex and how much he gets completely turned on when I give him great head--I think I'm the first woman he's ever been with who can deep throat his rod completely, he's a shade under eight inches--and I'm totally on board with both giving and expecting some hot tongue action on his part as well. Now I've never particularly been a great fan of the epicurean aspect of a man's semen. It's just one of those personal preference kind of things. Between my friends we run the gamut on the topic, a couple ladies love their man's jizz like it's a culinary delight, a couple are ambivalent and swallow it more because they like pleasing their man than the actual taste and texture of the stuff and a couple who view it the same as any other thing that they despise the taste of and just gag a retch on it, so for them, it's don't cum in my mouth or if you do, it's getting spit right out instantly. I'm about halfway, it's not gag city, but I'm not too keen on the taste and consistency, and, at least to me, it's odor is also something that's not exactly appealing. I'm not spreading some on a nice cracker as an hor d'oeuvre with my Cabernet.
Now here's where my man got very creative. He tells me that his jizz is actually quite good for me, like it's a little protein cocktail packed with all kinds of good things! He even brings over his Ipad and shows me several websites with doctors and others attesting to the fine qualities of human semen for ingestion. And he's all about how it's low calorie and all natural! I have to hand it to him for creativity. But I have to wonder, are these docs on these websites just like him: guys who just really think a great blow job must include swallowing the ejaculate? So we'll tell the ladies how good it is for them! My response was simple: if it's so good for me, then it must also be good for you too! So why should I be selfish and take the whole load for myself? I'm all about sharing. He didn't seem too thrilled about that prospect (I told him I'd give him a nice big French kiss after he cums and make sure I save some for him). But he definitely gets an 'A' for a creative persuasive argument!
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Being Used as Bait - I'm Feeling Used
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Posted:Oct 23, 2015 9:48 am
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2016 1:43 pm
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So today I get this email from the TSmeet morons that now I'm being given a free two week Gold membership. My profile specifically says I'm really here to just read and write in the blogs as the mood strikes. I'm sure what these idiots are hoping is that I'll use all this newfound freedom to send messages where as a standard female member I could only read and respond to Gold members' messages.
My auto-responder was turned on a few days back so I don't have to individually reply to the plethora of inane and worse messages from guys who can't read or just cannot accept as fact what I've posted. Only maybe one in a hundred is actually a polite and thoughtful reply to a blog post or blog response, and to those individuals I'll send a personal reply.
If these imbeciles at TSmeet think that they're going to use me for their sketchy business of sending messages to standard members so that they'll pay to read them, they are even more clueless than the obvious! Not a fucking chance of that happening during this "gift" two weeks!
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Why Most Women Don't IM Here
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Posted:Oct 18, 2015 10:31 am
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2016 1:43 pm
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instant messaging is a nice tech tool when there is some semblance of order when using it. On Yahoo or Gmail, an acceptance precludes just sending people IMs unsolicited. Here, not so much.
The level of distraction for any female who signs on to the TSmeet IM function essentially makes it almost unusable. If there's a couple of members I might be interested in chatting with, that gets totally obscured and lost in the dozens of incoming that happen in the first minute and the rate really doesn't diminish substantially no matter how long I'm signed in. Almost all these incoming are from guys at least 10 to 15 years disparate from my age, and others are from guys 800 fucking miles away! What?! Really!?
IM here for most women, at least in my view, is all but impossible to use thanks to the myriad number of guys who create an onslaught, a completely unmanageable barrage of incoming IMs, most of which simply do not warrant a response because the sender and I aren't even close to being on the same wavelength as far as the basics like age. Are the guys here really that clueless or desperate or some combination of the two? My experience here seems to say, yes they are. I really wish more evidence to the contrary existed, but it is what it is.
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Poetry and Reality on TSmeet
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Posted:Oct 11, 2015 6:50 pm
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2015 7:04 pm
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I cannot honestly say that I'm a great literary maven or scholar. In fact, I tend to agree with Paul Dirac's appraisal of poetry when he got so sick to fucking death of Julius Robert Oppenheimer--who was a great physicist and didn't need to act like an imperious asshole but sometimes just couldn't help himself--quoting poets to try to impress everyone in the room with how learned and pretentious he was, Dirac said, "Scientists are people who make what is very difficult to understand by most people understandable to anyone. Poets do exactly the opposite." I tend to agree with Dirac's view. Sometimes poetry is like a test in cryptographic reading ability with the aid of an unabridged dictionary and a thesaurus in hand.
When people on TSmeet write and post with some allusion to their poems or other works as being some kind of flirtation with actual literature, it's like a D1 collegiate football player playing in a high school JV game and thinking that their play in this game makes them ready for the NFL. TSmeet is a seeking-sex site, not a literary journal. Anyone who truly believes their writing is worthy of being published would not be posting on TSmeet but rather would be submitting copyrighted manuscripts to either a literary agent or a peer-reviewed literary journal, which are many. If some of my responses to posts seem vitriolic, that is not the intent at all, it's merely to state the obvious: this ain't no literary site so stop thinking you're the next Walt fucking Whitman!
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The Continued BS of TSmeet
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Posted:Oct 5, 2015 9:16 pm
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2015 7:15 pm
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So today some marketing morons at TSmeet decided that all males on the site who are not paying members must now pay JUST TO READ what a Gold member sends them in a message (and, of course, respond to it possibly). This obviously doesn't apply to females. I can still read all the lecherous crap that creeps send me all the time.
So a guy now has to pay to read or respond to what a paying member (actually almost no women on the site are paying members, almost the entire freight of the site is being paid by the guys) even though the sender could be someone that's 180 degrees from what they're here to attempt to find. They're looking for a hot size 6-8, and the sender is four dress sizes beyond queen size, or a BBF in 44 point font). This is simply beyond ludicrous and stupid. Anyone with any marketing knowledge knows that creating more restrictions in an attempt to increase revenues will, in all likelihood, have the exact opposite effect and will reduce revenues by shrinking the base and market share.
Now follow this logic, because it's clearly not neurosurgery, as the males depart from the site because of the failure of the morons running the site of basic marketing principles, the females then have less reason to be here as well, even if they are paying nothing. If there continues to be a shrinking base of males to choose from among the already sketchy group that's here, it doesn't make any sense for them to stay. So less males results in less females results in less males results in less females...etc. It's called the death spiral and TSmeet is about to enter into it. So start looking around now folks, because the writing is on the wall here.
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