As I sit here in the window of one of my favorite breakfast places, I realize I have a few decisions to make.

Turns out, I am recently single again. Ok, Ok.... stop jumping up and down and clapping

Over this last week of trying to handle that loss, I came to the realization that I need to decide what I want out of TSmeet. I have two scenarios in mind and I think my peeps here could give me a good idea of what I should do.

Scenario 1:

I want a relationship. I want to grow old with someone. I want to laugh and have a significant other. I also want a significant other that is as sexually compatible as possible with me. It isn't easy to go on a few dates with some hottie and then say "Oh hai, by the way, I'm into DP and threesomes. Wanna keep dating??"

Now, I have the ability to put that on my profile here. To say that I want to date. Is that a good idea for a hook up site? Or is it stupid as fuck?

Scenario 2:

I could keep this as a fuck profile and start a vanilla "good girl next door" profile elsewhere and hope for the best. That being said, it seems as though lots of people who are on here, are on the vanilla sites. So, is that worth while?

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What would you do? Keep it all in one profile or separate the two out?

The other thing that I'm struggling with is the financial side. To date, you need to be my equal, if not better. How do you phrase that online without sounding egotistical and arrogant?

Oy... the joys.

Happy Friday and thanks in advance for your thoughts on my scenarios.