I find there are three types of people on this site. Those three types of people tend to get quite self righteous about how they go about putting TSmeet to use and chastise others because they don't use it the same way.

Below are in my opinion, the three ways people use this site. Life, lifestyle or pastime. Do you agree? Which realm do you fit into?

Life:

There are a number of people that make this site their life. I mean, the sun rises and sets here. They're friends are here, their spouse/partner is here, their social life is in chat or they spend the day creating multiple blogs about minor things. This IS their life.

Is that wrong?

Lifestyle:

Many people are legitimately in the swinging lifestyle and use this site for that. The issue that I've noticed over the last few years is that lots of people spend so much time "hunting" for their new couple or single to swing with, that they end up neglecting each other. Perhaps instead of constantly being on the prowl to find another couple or the ever elusive single woman, the couple actually spends a little more time with each other. Why does this have to dominate their home life?

Passtime:

Very few people are here to use the site as a pastime, but they are here. They use it as a means to meet some people, find a fuck buddy or two and carry on with their everyday normal life. They compare this to enjoying a game of golf - You go on when you can, take a shot and enjoy it for the time being

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Are any of these views of the site wrong? How do you use this site? Do you feel that the use of this site overtakes your home life?