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Winners of the TSmeet Hottest Hookups Contest!
Posted:Dec 12, 2007 3:16 pm
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2008 4:57 pm
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Thank you everyone for participating in the Hottest Hookups Video Contest Here are the three first place winners:

sweetcouplebang with Birthday suprise


BassSaxMan with [video 1166407]

KrissyisaDoll20 with [video 1162935]

Each winner will receive $100 cash, a 1-year Gold + VIP membership, select DVDs, an TSmeet T-shirt, and an TSmeet Spa Kit.

All participants with valid entries will be awarded 500 points.

The winners' accounts will be upgraded shortly. If you wish to substitute your Gold and VIP membership for an alternative equivalent feature, please send an email to events@friendfinderinc.com.
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Join the Official Events Group!
Posted:Dec 11, 2007 1:58 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2008 1:10 pm
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Thanks to all your participation, our contests have become a huge success! A lot of you are recurring participants (and winners!), so we decided to start a group so we could get to know you all even better!

This group is going to be run just like all the other groups on TSmeet, with posts and polls and from time to time mini contests too! So join our group!
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Winners of the Erotic Edibles Contest!
Posted:Dec 3, 2007 12:19 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2008 1:10 pm
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We had some devilishly decadent dining entries in our Erotic Edibles Contest - here are the tasty winners that you chose!

The first place winner is cherimore, who won a 1-year Gold membership, select DVDs, and an TSmeet t-shirt.

The two second place winners are 2for11981 and infidelity_2007, who won a 6-month Gold membership, select DVDs, and an TSmeet t-shirt.

The three third place winners are ds121049, redhot469469 and xxxkaixxx3, who won a 6-month Gold membership, select DVDs, and an TSmeet t-shirt.

Ooops! We made a typo here! The 3 third place winners received a 3-month Gold membership as stated in the Erotic Edibles Contest Post. Sorry about that!

All participants with valid entries will be awarded 500 points over the next few days.

The winners' accounts will be upgraded shortly. If you wish to substitute your Gold membership for an alternative equivalent feature, please send an email to events@friendfinderinc.com.
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Erotic Edibles Contest!
Posted:Nov 19, 2007 4:44 pm
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2012 12:29 pm
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Mom always told you not to play with your food - but we want you put all those years of pent-up perversions to use in our Erotic Edibles Contest!

We want to see your sexy, edible creations! Be a saucy culinary stylist and dress up food items in a sexy outfit or scene - or, show off your artistic side and create a deliciously naughty food sculpture. Mashed potatoes, whipped cream, cherries - use your imagination and go wild! Dress-up is just for the food, though - no people (or animals, for that matter!) can be depicted in your photo. However, feel free to use non-food items as props!

Each entry must include a sign in the photo that contains your handle, to prove it's your original creation. You cannot digitally add your handle to the photo.

Multiple entries are permitted, but only one photo per entry. To enter, post a comment containing your entry.

You pick the winners! Members will vote on their favorites, and the highest rated entries will win a Gold membership, and a selection of DVDs! Members can begin voting immediately on entries - so get your submissions in early!

The deadline to both enter and vote is Monday, December 3rd, 2007 at 11:59AM (PST). Winners will be announced later that day.

How to vote:

1. Next to each entry, you'll see three categories "I Agree" "Neutral" "I Disagree."
2. To vote for an entry, click "I Agree" (do not use "Neutral" or "I Disagree" - these will not count).
3 You can only vote once per entry, but you can vote for multiple entries.
4. The winners will be determined by the entries with the most "I Agree" votes.

Specific Contest Rules:

1. All photos must adhere to the Terms.
2. All entries must be submitted and votes cast by Monday, December 3rd, 2007 at 11:59AM (PST).
3. General Adult FriendFinder Contest Rules apply.

Prizes for this contest are:

(1) 1-year Gold membership, plus select DVDs and an TSmeet t-shirt.
(2) 6-month Gold membership, plus select DVDs and an TSmeet t-shirt.
(3) 3-month Gold membership, plus select DVDs and an TSmeet t-shirt.

All participants with a valid entry will be awarded 500 points!
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Winners of the Recipe for Sex-cess Contest!
Posted:Nov 19, 2007 4:19 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2008 1:02 pm
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We had some delightfully delicious entries in our Recipe for Sexcess Contest - here are the succulently sexy winners that you chose!

The first prize winner is lushNsoft with:

ingredients:

1 hot male
candles
silk scarves
a bed made for mild bondage
whipped cream
chocolate syrup
And a sheet for throwing away when you are done.

Directions..

Light the candles and place them near the bed,making sure the silk scarves are already partially tied to the bed posts. Be nude when he arrives at the door,and make sure the throw away sheets are on the mattress.

Whisper in his ear that you want to be at his mercy. Making sure you kiss him softly,back onto the bed,slowly,and seductively and place your hands where the scarves dangle..he will follow your lead.

After he binds your wrists with the scarves,ask him if you look good enough to eat and motion to the fridge..he will see the whipped cream and chocolate syrup.

Slowly lick your lips and smile at him,moan as he squeezes the chocolate syrup on your breasts and moan as he puts the whipped cream on your pussy.

After he completely cleans you off with his tongue,he should then place his cock deep inside you and vigorously thrust for as long as he can take it..it is best if you cum together but not necessary. Repeat licking and then thrusting over a 4-5 hr period or until someone passes out from dehydration.

The second prize winners are Rockincpl1970 and happyladychat with:

FOR EXPERIENCED CHEF'S ONLY
BANANA NUT BREAD

INGREDIENTS
2 Laughing Eyes
2 Loving Arms
2 Well Shaped Legs
2 Firm Milk Containers
2 Fat Nuts
1 Fur Lined Mixing Bowl
1 Banana

MIXING INSTRUCTIONS
1. Look in to laughing eyes
2. Spread well shaped legs apart - massage within your hands
3. Squeeze and massage milk containers very well and gentle until fur lined milk bowl is well greased.
4. Add banana and work in and out until well creamed.
5. Cover with nuts and sighing releif. ( Bread is done when banana becomes soft.)
6. Be sure to wash the mixing utensils and please don't forget to lick the mixing bowl.

NOTE: If bread starts to rise.....LEAVE TOWN!

AND

The following recipe guarantees a sure way to SEX-cess:

Ingredients:

1 spoonful of FAT (no more, no less)
2 servings of FRUITS
3 servings of VEGETABLES (No excuse, MUST eat those leaves )
4 servings of CARBO (ie noodle, rice, bread)
5 servings of PROTEIN (ie meat & dairy product)
6 combinations of Seasonings/Spices
7 or more glasses of WATER (the more, the merrier )

Directions:

Consume all in a single meal.

In addition, one should stay active, especially SEXually. Have you heard that SEX is a health treatment. Scientific tests have shown that one who maintains a regular SEX life produces large amount of estrogen which leaves you with a feeling of well-being.

Note:

- Penis Suckers, do keep in mind that every time you swallow, it is equivalent to taking 1 serving of PROTEIN.

- Pussy Eaters, there is no finding that eating pussies will result in calories consumption. Therefore, by all means, eat as many pussies as you want.

Third prize winners are nanuluv, nastytease4u, and couple4voyuer2 with:

With the holidays coming up everyone could use an quick, simple recipe.

Ingredients:
1 man with a nice size penis
1 woman with a tight pussy

Directions that couldn't be easier. Place man's penis into woman's pussy and whip up a frenzy. This is best done when couple only has a short time together. This can be kind of messy so make sure you clean up all messes. I have found the mouth cleans up these kind of messes real good. Course this could encourage a repeat of this dish.

AND

How to stuff a .....

Take rope, secure the thighs and legs in an upright but open position. Be sure that the "wings" of the "bird" are also firmly secure.

You may observe a small patch of hair around the tops of the legs. Remove this carefully.

Now, carefully lubricate the "bird." If you are pressed for time, gentle warm oils poured and rubbed into the bird's hole will suffice. However, if you really want to sample the pure nector of the bird, you can also lubricate with your tounge. You will know the bird is ready when you sense a slight change in the taste of the bird.

We recommend stuffing the bird with a thick creamy mixture. To do this you will need a fleshy applicator, anywhere from 4-10 inches in length. To use the applicator, insert it into the bird and thrust it as hard as fast as you can until the thick creamy mixture is injected into the bird.

Some birds require multiple doses from different applicators. Be sure to have some extra in stock for just such an occassion.

Advanced chefs can use a vibrating device applied gently to the tip of the opening to cause the contents within to stir and tremble.

AND

INGREDIENTS:
1 Set of handcuffs
1 Riding whip
1 Bottle of Baby Oil Spray (not Pepper Spray)
1 Large Caliber Vibrator
1 Man of my choice

DIRECTIONS:
Handcuff man to bedrail, whip him till he likes it, threaten him with the Vibrator and the rest is all yours...

Done in One Hour or more as time permits...

The winners will not need to contact us, we will upgrade your accounts today.

If you would like to exchange your Gold membershipS for an alternate equivalent feature, please send us an email to let us know as soon as possible events@friendfinderinc.com. Some of the premium alternative equivalent features are things like our Private Chatrooms, Highlighting of your profile, etc.

Thanks again for your participation!

Events
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Hottest Hookups Video Contest!
Posted:Nov 10, 2007 10:57 am
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2008 4:57 pm
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Every day thousands of hot members hookup on our site! We know you have a sultry, steamy hookup story that you're just dying to share with the world - now's your chance!

We want to hear about your sexiest skin-on-skin TSmeet encounter in our Hottest Hookups Video Contest! Tell us about that unforgettable marathon session in the hot tub, your naked Twister party, playtime with that sexy, kinky couple...or just let us know why TSmeet is your favorite place to fulfill your fantasies!

Go ahead - let loose! Topless and dirty talk is okay - but no below-the-waist nudity. Videos must be a minimum of 30 seconds and a maximum of 2 minutes.

To enter, record you entry as a video introduction. Then, then submit it as a comment to this post using the ID number located at the bottom of the page for that video. (Example: [video #####]) Multiple entries are permitted.

Your video must stay up for the duration of the contest (until Dec. 12, 2007).

The deadline to enter is Wednesday, December 12th, 2007 at 11:59AM (PST). The TSmeet Staff will pick the winners and any honorable mentions, which will be announced later that week.

Winners will receive cash, premium memberships and special prizes! Winning entries will be used in advertisements for the site, so winners will need to sign a model release form and provide 1 form of ID.

Note: Videos posted here are viewable by all members, including Standard members! So make sure to click those links and watch!

Here's what you need to do:

1. Record a video intro about your sexiest TSmeet encounter (or just let us know why TSmeet is your favorite place to fulfill your fantasies).
2. Submit it as a comment to this post using the ID number located at the bottom of the page for that video. (Example: [video #####].)

Specific Contest Rules:

1. All videos must adhere to the Terms.
2. Videos must be up for the duration of the contest.
3. Videos must be a minimum of 30 seconds and no longer than 2 minutes.
4. No below-the-waist nudity.
5. Winners and honorable mentions must agree to sign a model release form and provide 1 form of ID.
6. General Adult FriendFinder Contest Rules apply.
7. Multiple entries permitted.
8. Set the category to "members only" so that all members can view the video(s). Videos that are set to "friends only" will be deleted.

Prizes for this contest are:

(3) 1st place winners will receive $100 cash, a 1-year Gold + VIP membership, select DVDs, an TSmeet T-shirt, and an TSmeet Spa Kit.

We'll also give special prizes for any honorable mentions.

All participants with a valid entry will be awarded 500 points (500 points max per member)!

UPDATE:Before submitting your entry, please make sure that you set the category to "members only" so that all members can view the video(s). Videos that are set to "friends only" will be deleted.

This contest is now over. Winners of the AFF Hottest Hookups Contest- check out the winners!

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Winners of the Naughty Costume Contest!
Posted:Nov 5, 2007 4:44 pm
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2011 12:08 pm
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We had some frightfully funny and creative entries for our Naughty Costume Contest, but the people have spoken: here are your top picks for best naughty costume!

Winner of the 1-year Gold membership, plus a VIP membership, plus select DVDs is Tigger7740.


Winners of the 6-month Gold membership, plus select DVDs are Rdy2try4 and Cple2hot4u.



Winners of the 3-month Gold membership, plus select DVDs are Relax1313, Bustybettyboop and Nikki_Jeff.




(votes were counted at 12.00 noon on Monday November 5th)

The winners' accounts will be upgraded shortly. If you wish to substitute your Gold memberships for an alternate equivalent feature, please send an email to events@friendfinderinc.com
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Recipe for Sex-cess Contest!
Posted:Nov 5, 2007 3:28 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2008 1:02 pm
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November is the time for feasts of the flesh, so get cooking with the TSmeet Recipe for Sex-cess Contest!

Tell us your ultimate recipe for getting lucky, getting down and getting busy! Using a recipe format, submit your best recipe for action - for example:

Ingredients:

1 package high quality chocolate
1 container whipped cream
3 glasses of fine red wine
2 active imaginations
1 bottle of lube

Directions:

Shave chocolate into fine slivers; sprinkle over lover's breasts. Garnish with whipped cream and serve. Combine remaining ingredients and stir vigorously for three hours or until well done!

Entries must be in recipe format, in 300 words or less. Multiple entries are permitted, but only one entry per post. To enter, post a comment containing your entry. Entries that do not adhere to the contest rules will be deleted.

You pick the winners! Members will vote on their favorites, and the highest rated entries will win a Gold membership, and a selection of DVDs! Members can begin voting immediately on entries - so get your submissions in early!

The deadline to both enter and vote is Monday, November 19th at 11:59 AM (PST). Winners will be announced later that day.

How to vote:

1. Next to each entry, you'll see three categories "I Agree" "Neutral" "I Disagree."
2. To vote for an entry, click "I Agree" (do not use "Neutral" or "I Disagree" - these will not count).
3 You can only vote once per entry, but you can vote for multiple entries.
4. The winners will be determined by the entries with the most "I Agree" votes.

Specific Contest Rules:

1. All entries must adhere to the Terms of Use.
2. Entries must be 300 words or less. Multiple entries are permitted, but each post must contain only one entry.
3. All entries must be submitted and votes cast by November 19th 2007 at 11:59 AM (PST).
4. General Adult FriendFinder Contest Rules apply.

Prizes:

(1) 1-year Gold membership, plus select DVDs
(2) 6-month Gold membership, plus select DVDs
(3) 3-month Gold membership, plus select DVDs


This contest is now over - check out the winners!

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Naughty Costume Contest!
Posted:Oct 24, 2007 2:41 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2010 11:15 am
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Once again, Halloween is upon us, and you're probably searching for that perfect sexy costume for an adventurous masquerade party…

…why not show it off to your fellow TSmeet members?

Our Naughty Costume Contest will award the TSmeet members with the most creative, funny, titillating or terrifying costumes! Dress up yourself (all of you, if you like!) using creative costuming, fabric, props, body paint - whatever you can come up with! The more creative, the better!

You cannot use digital manipulation, and must be able to prove you own the rights to the photo. Remember, if you can find it on the Internet, so can we!

Both men and women are eligible, and multiple entries are permitted (however, each entry must be a different costume).

You pick the winners! Members will vote on their favorites, and the highest rated entries will win a Gold membership, and a selection of DVDs!

The deadline to both enter and vote is Monday, November 5th at 11:59 AM (PST). Members can begin voting immediately on entries ‒ so get your submissions in early! Winners will be announced later that day.

All entries must adhere to the Photo Guidelines.

Here’s what you need to do:

1. Take a picture of your costumed self.
2. Post your entry in the contest entry thread.

How to vote:
1. Next to each entry, you'll see three categories "I Agree" "Neutral" "I Disagree."
2. To vote for an entry, click "I Agree" (do not use "Neutral" or "I Disagree" ‒ these will not count).
3 You can only vote once per entry, but you can vote for multiple entries.
4. The winners will be determined by the entries with the most "I Agree" votes.

Specific Contest Rules:

1. All entries must adhere to the Photo Guidelines.
2. Multiple entries are permitted, but each entry must contain only one picture.
3. Photos should only depict you (if your account is for a single person) or you and another TSmeet member (if your account is for a couple or group). You must own the rights to the photos.
4. All entries must be posted to the contest entry thread.
5. All entries must be submitted and votes cast by November 5th 2007 at 11:59 AM (PST).
6. General Adult FriendFinder Contest Rules apply.

Prizes for this contest are:

(1) 1-year Gold membership, plus a VIP membership, plus select DVDs
(2) 6-month Gold membership, plus select DVDs
(3) 3-month Gold membership, plus select DVDs


This contest is over. Check out the winners
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Entries Post for the Naughty Costume Contest
Posted:Oct 24, 2007 8:43 am
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2011 12:12 pm
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Ready to submit your Naughty Costume Contest entry? You’ve come to the right place!

To enter, upload a photo of your costumed self. You can use fabric, props or body paint, but no digital manipulation is allowed. Both men and women are eligible. Multiple entries are allowed, but each entry must be a separate, different costume.

Entries that do not adhere to the contest rules or the site’s Photo will be deleted.

To upload an image, just click “Browse” next to the photo/icon section when you go to add a post. You’ll be able to upload a photo directly from your computer. It’s that easy!

Members can vote as soon as an entry is uploaded.

How to vote:
1. Next to each entry, you'll see three categories "I Agree" "Neutral" "I Disagree."
2. To vote for an entry, click "I Agree" (do not use "Neutral" or "I Disagree" ‒ these will not count).
3 You can only vote once per entry, but you can vote for multiple entries.
4. The winners will be determined by the entries with the most "I Agree" votes.

The deadline for entries and voting is Monday, November 5th 2007 at 11:59AM (PST).

This contest is over. Check out the winners
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Winners of the TSmeet Sexpert Contest!
Posted:Oct 23, 2007 4:45 pm
Last Updated:Jun 23, 2011 1:14 pm
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Thank you all for participating in our Adult FriendFinder Sexpert Contest It's good to see there is so much knowledge amongst our members!

We have a winner for every category, they each win a 1-year Gold membership and an TSmeet T-shirt.

...and the winners are:

1) The finer points of oral sex


insomniac194u

THE FINER POINTS POINTS OF ORAL SEX FOR A GUY

Now me being a completely straight guy, I have no particular expertise in carrying out this act but I do know what I like and know what works.
Important factors
1.) Firstly the most important factor in a blowjob is lubrication
2.) A blow job doesn’t just have to be sucking a dick you may use your hands we don’t mind

Now like I was saying lubrication is important, for me there is no better lube than saliva. This can be the guys or the girls. Note guy’s girls might appreciate it if you give them a hand with this so they don’t feel alone in this and used. This is done either by, spitting directly in your hand and giving a hand job or by just spitting directly on the dick.
Turn-on's
1. Now guys find it a turn on when a girl can deep throat all the way down
2. Perform with out there hands.
3. Play with a the guys nuts
4. Eye contact is key; it’s a real turn on to see that girl staring up at you with those lustful eyes while sucking on your dick
5. Letting a guy cum on you or your breasts
6. means a lot more to a guy when a girl swallows
7. Anything out of the ordinary like performing the act in a car or while standing up
Tips
1. Depending on the size of the guy the girl can use the first few fingers and wrap them around laying your lips just above your fingers performing a hand job and blow job at the same time
2. If the guy is bigger a fist can be used
3. You may also use both hands laying your fingers or fists over each other
4. Kissing and licking up the sides of the shaft are also very good
5. licking just below the head of the penis and focusing on that area is a quicker way to make a guy cum, it’s basically the g-spot of the penis
6. Switch up going shallow and deep
7. Switch up going fast and slow
8. Tease the tip of the penis with your lips
9. If nothing seems to be working ask the guy what you should do don’t be shy he knows what he likes
Warnings
1. Do not let the cum get in your eyes it burns worse then soap
2. Do not rub the top of the penis to vigorously you’ll get a guy hard quick but you’ll also make him urinate
3. If you can’t handle going deep and he's forcing you. You can also use your fist to bridge the distance; it still feels good you’re basically combining a hand job and bj


2) How to have a successful threesome


YourNewIrishLove

How Two Women Seduce a Man: Introduction to a 3-Some

1. Women - Enjoy a relaxing evening with your female lover this winter. The glow from the fireplace reflects in her eyes. The rhythm of the music touches your soul. The vanilla candles flicker with every breath and sigh.

2. Begin exploring your lover with your hands and mouth, whispering...promising...pleasing. Don't stop, even when he walks into the room. Your lover understands the role she will play tonight. Let him watch you kneel between her legs, nibbling, sucking, tasting. Have her make eye contact with him as she arches her back, your mouth buried in her cunt. Do not look at him. Make him want more.

3. And he does. He removes his clothing hastily and kneels next to you...watching...wanting to touch her, stroking his cock in anticipation. On your knees, kiss him passionately, the taste of her cum uniting you.

4. Your lover moves between you and takes his cock into her mouth, her dripping pussy and ass within reach. Tell him to spank her, then guide his hand to her waiting pussy. He will take over from there, fingering her, as her mouth continues to stroke his shaft.

5. Gently bite his lower lip, reminding him of your presence. Then topple him onto the waiting pillows. This is a familiar routine, so your lover knows not to scrape her teeth against his shaft as he falls back.

6. Keeping eye contact, mount him. Your lover will lean over and give him a deep kiss. He will probably finger her pussy with one hand and squeeze your breast with the other. Stroke his hard cock with your pussy, rocking back and forth, your nails digging into his chest. Your lover will begin licking and sucking his balls every time you are on the upstroke.

7. You feel his body tighten, his breath come in short gasps. Now he will cum for you. Dismount on the right, your lover on the left, your hand going to his slick shaft, stroking. He bucks against your hand, until the cum shoots out in waves. Keeping eye contact with him, direct his shaft, so the cum sprays both you and your lover.

8. When he is spent, you will both trail a wet kiss up the side of his shaft as a thank-you. All of you should have smiles on your faces by now. It's okay to laugh in relief and release. You know he'll satisfy both of you as soon as he catches his breath. You reach for your lover and give her a deep kiss in appreciation of her efforts tonight.

9. The aftermath should remain peaceful, soothing and playful. Do not analyze or dissect the evening, or do anything that would break the mood. He'll need time to process what happened and you'll probably hear from him the next day, to set up another encounter.

I hope this training guide is beneficial. Enjoy!


3) The art of talking dirty

brimstone100

Talking Dirty ‒ the subtle art of using words appropriately

They say that 19th century guys were excited by a fleeting glimpse of a woman’s ankle. That says a lot for what stimulates us humans ‒ the things we like but experience rarely. Nothing dulls the senses more than having too much of something. Ask any porn film cameraman whether seeing beautiful naked women turns him on. OK, maybe that’s not the best example!

Anyway, it’s the same with talking dirty. If you use strong language all the time in normal speech, what makes it erotic when used during sexplay? “I nearly had a fucking accident with a car driven by a fucking arsehole on the way to fucking work today, and now I’m going to fuck your arsehole Darling.”

So many words that should be erotic have lost their special appeal because one hears them all the time, in films, on TV and, probably because of that, increasingly on the street. Bruce Willis take note.

So if you want to get the most out of talking dirty, save sex talk for sex not for swearing or being angry or just being plain coarse. Then when you use it as part of sexplay it really has some meaning.

The next thing is to recognize when it is likely to be a complete turn off. Let’s face it, some people are simply not prepared to be verbally experimental, and all you’ll get is your face slapped, or kicked out of bed on a cold night or - worst case scenario - they’ll call you a perv and never want to see you again - but the same person might enjoy having chocolate sauce licked off their most intimate parts which of course isn’t perverted at all!

OK, so you’re having sex with someone who you think will respond to a bit of earthy conversation. Your love talk starts to become spiced with those forbidden words neither of you would use normally, and just the mention of fucking her cunt with your cock has you both quivering with anticipation.

Sometimes a bit of coercion is required. Such words have never crossed her sweet lips. Even better then, when you manage to coax them out of her. Make her repeat them and sip them from those lips like nectar from a honeydew.

As things progress you could explore whether she’s turned on by being made to feel like a sex queen or a sex slut. Every woman is different, and what’s good for one is a no-no for another. And while a woman might love being called a filthy slut when you’re doing weird and wonderful things to her, unless she is really submissive it should be in the nature of “you lovely filthy slut” rather than “you horrible filthy slut”.

So, be an explorer, navigate your way to her vocal hot spots with exotic words, and boldly go where no man has gone before!


4) Venturing outside of the bedroom

Couple_mly

Venturing outside the bedroom

The Beach: Despite the fact that sand might get into places you would rather it not, the beach comes out as the number ten place to have sex. Make sure you take a blanket.

The Bed: It's comfortable, it's convient and it's built for the job. The only thing to be aware of is that most people prefer clean sheets while doing the deed. Dirty laundry does't make for good foreplay.

Weddings: And we are not talking your own wedding. Many find the commitment a little too much and decide to comit to their own fun and games at a friends/relatives wedding

The Car: Not always the most comfortable place to partake in some sex, but backseat as as popular as ever.

The Aeroplane: Joining the mile high club still ranks high on the list of lusty place to have sex today. Reach for the stars but be careful not to get caught because your membership could cost you some serious jail time.

The Woods: Suprisingly many people seem to enjoy bearing all in the woods these days.

The Kitchen: Is a great place to get steamy and sex on the kitchen counter top sure beats doing the dishes in our book.

Bath Tubs: Talking of steamy encounters bathtubs and showers are hot for more reasons than just water.

The Great Outdoors: It's time to break out the hiking boots and renew those State Park subscriptions. Almost nothing beats a lusty hike and a lusty break.

The Swanky Hotel: A little luxury can do more for your lovelife than it can for your checkbook maybe but you can't put a price on a hot night of pampered, passionate luxury. So break out the bubbly and indulge in some sordid sex.


5) How to undress your lover

Curious2CMoor

Buttons, Zippers and Ties Oh my!

The art of disrobing gets little attention but it’s just as important and effective as foreplay, oral and penetration. The key is in the touch, skin contact, vocal use and mental stimulation.
Don’t just take/rip off the clothes, make it a part of the sexual experience!
1. Begin by using a blindfold or if you are a Sub/Dom have your partner close their eyes. This increases the mental stimulation. Avoid total darkness; YOU need to see what you’re doing and their reactions.
2. Whether the fastener is in the front, back or side, undo it remaining as close to your partner as possible. Use your breath (make sure your breath doesn’t smell), use your lips (hopefully they’re soft-no tongue), and use your hands/body to maintain contact at all times. Example: Use your finger to follow the zipper down ‒ Use your lips for light kisses as you unbutton each button ‒ Gently breathe on the neck or shoulder as you untie the tie or place your cheek next to theirs.
3. Use your hands to glide over and caress the skin as you slide down a strap or lift a shirt/sweater over the head. If your clothes have already been removed, use your body to maintain skin contact during the disrobing.
4. From behind, wrap your arm around your partner as you unbutton, unzip or unhook the garment (you may have to use your teeth to hold the garment).
5. Get on your knees (or sit) to remove undergarments, socks/hose and shoes! Light, soft kisses (NO TONGUE) on the belly or butt cheeks is great when removing the panties/boxers! Use your breath and body to maintain contact.
6. Your words are extremely powerful! Speak about how soft/hard they are. Tell them how good they smell/feel to you. If they have a tattoo, piercing or cute birthmark, let them know you noticed it. Tell them how much you want to taste them as you remove the panties/boxers and add a mmm, mmm, mmm to create a vocal vibration when your chest is against their skin. Tell them where you’re going to put your tongue once the clothes are removed. Speaking also increases the use of your breath.
7. Do not lick, suck, stroke or penetrate any part of the body. This is about the touch, the lip kisses, soft caress and vocal stimulation. There is no need to rush, however, it doesn’t have to take forever. Don’t rip any item. Don’t ball up and throw down anything. Place everything together in one area to avoid being stepped or sat on (I didn’t say you had to fold it ‒ lay them on a chair, table, etc.)
Tip: There is NO tongue kissing in this process! All parts of the body can be touched so don’t forget the face. Remember, you are in control, so control yourself as well… DON’T LOSE IT!


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Entries Post for the TSmeet Sexpert Contest!
Posted:Oct 8, 2007 5:45 pm
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Ready to submit your TSmeet Sexpert Contest entry? You've come to the right place!

Remember, your submission must be 500 words or less, and must pertain to one of the 5 subject categories provided. Entries that do not adhere to the contest rules or the site’s Terms of Use will be deleted.

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TSmeet Sexpert Contest!
Posted:Oct 8, 2007 5:43 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2008 1:03 pm
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For our latest contest, we’re inviting members to share their sexpertise in our TSmeet Sexpert Contest!

Join the faculty of the TSmeet Sex Academy by submitting your own teasing tutorials and erotic instructions! Choose from five course subjects, and, in 500 words or less, write your own seductive lesson plan!

The subjects:
1) The finer points of oral sex ‒ guy or girl, tell us your oral secrets of success!
2) How to have a successful threesome ‒ etiquette, introductions, and aftermath: what works best?
3) The art of talking dirty ‒ the critical do’s and don’ts!
4) Venturing outside of the bedroom ‒ a guide to getting it on outdoors, in the kitchen, on the floor, at the Laundromat, in the car...
5) How to undress your lover ‒ how to turn disrobing yourself and your partner(s) into the main event.

All entries must adhere to the Terms of Use.

The deadline to enter is Sunday, October 21, 2007 at 11:59 PM, Pacific Time. TSmeet staff will pick the winners, which will be announced shortly thereafter.

Here’s what you need to do:

1. Write a steamy instructional manual based one of the five subjects provided‒ 500 words or less.
2. Click this link to post your tale

Specific Contest Rules:

1. Entries should be no more than 500 words.
2. Entries must be submitted by Sunday, October 21st at 11:59 PM, Pacific Time.
3. Entries must adhere to the Terms of Use.
4. All entries must be posted to the TSmeet Sexpert Entries Post
5. All entries will be judged by the TSmeet Team.
6. You can submit one entry per category, but cannot submit the same entry in multiple categories.
7. Entries must pertain to the subject.

Prizes for this contest are:

Five 1st place winners - once for each category ‒ will receive a 1-year Gold membership and an TSmeet T-shirt. Only one prize per member.


This contest has ended. Check out the winners!
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